Unreliable Narrator

Me, Myself, and Impostor Syndrome

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“A deeply honest and funny look at how exhausting it can be to live a human life, Unreliable Narrator is a book for anyone who wants to laugh and feel less alone.”—Amy Poehler

A hilarious and insightful collection of essays exploring impostor syndrome, from the inside and out, by the most successful fraud in comedy

Aparna Nancherla is a superstar comedian on the rise—a darling of Netflix and Comedy Central’s comedy special lineups, a headliner at comedy shows and music festivals, a frequenter of late night television and the subject of numerous profiles. She’s also a successful actor who has written a barrage of thoughtful essays published by the likes of the New York Times. If you ask her, though, she’s a total fraud. She’d hate to admit it, but no one does impostor syndrome quite like Aparna Nancherla.


UNRELIABLE NARRATOR is a collection of essays that uses Aparna’s signature humor to illuminate an interior life, one constantly bossed around by her depression (whom she calls Brenda), laced with anxiety like a horror movie full of jump-scares, and plagued by an unrepenting love-hate relationship with her career as a painfully shy standup comedian. But luckily, crippling self-doubt comes with the gift of keen self-examination. These essays deliver hilarious and incredibly insightful meditations on body image, productivity culture, the ultra-meme-ability of mental health language, and who, exactly, gets to make art “about nothing.” Despite her own arguments to the contrary, UNRELIABLE NARRATOR is undeniable proof that Aparna is a force—as a comedian and author alike—to be reckoned with.

Good stuff!

I’m sure this narrative spoke to many of us, and it was comforting to see that we have a lot of company. Some really good info capped off the good humor.

Funny, honest, so many recognizable things

Recommend. Very open and honest, surprising topics next to imposter syndrome. Voice is very nice. Funny.

I loved it was not a “she tried, tried and made it” story

I enjoyed the stream of consciousness on comedy and heteronormative-colonialist-patriarchy, was vaguely trigged by the way she openly talked about mental illness and mediation, and was amused by her humor

So much valuable insight, please read

This is a great book. Fun to listen to. Very enlightening and hard to stop listening once you start. This book should be renamed Awesome Narrator.

Had little to do with the title

Her voice was annoying and the author was just talking about herself, and it was uninteresting.