10 Secrets to Getting Any Man You Want to Want YOU

By: Lyn Kelley

Narrated by: Virtual Voice

Updated 2026. Lyn Kelley, MFT, Ph.D., Counselor and Certified Relationship Coach wrote this book for women who want to be in committed, monogamous, satisfying relationships; however, the principles apply to ALL relationships. The most important decision a woman will ever make in her lifetime is choosing a life mate. And if she’s already chosen one, the next most important decision a woman can make is use my strategies to get him to want her! This book will help empower you and ensure that your mate loves you, commits to you, and consistently treats you with dignity, honor, respect. Rich with practical tips and techniques to help you make meaningful changes, this book pinpoints the issues and actions that can make or break relationships and guides you in perfecting the skills needed to create true love.

Didn’t get into it at all!

She basically went over all the chapters and I didn’t get anything out of it at all!

How to gaslight men in 10 steps

This advice will not work for most men if you want a serious relationship, and will drive men with anxious attachment styles insane (and not in the good way). Just like the rest of this author's free e-books the advice is repetitive and I found very few nuggets worth my time. If you want to "play the field", confuse the heck out of a man, and gaslight him into thinking about you all day here is your book. If you are an avoidant person and want to snag yourself another avoidant person, then this book may also be for you.