Resistance vs Discord in Motivational Interviewing: How to Handle “Resistant” Clients

In this episode of MI For Change, we explore one of the most misunderstood concepts in therapy and behavior change: resistance.

What if your client isn’t actually resistant?

In Motivational Interviewing, what we often label as “resistance” can be better understood as:

• Sustained talk (arguments against change)
• Discord (a breakdown in the relationship or communication)

And that distinction can completely transform your sessions.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
• The difference between resistance, sustained talk, and discord
• Why labeling clients as “resistant” can be harmful to the therapeutic process
• How to recognize early signs of discord in sessions
• Practical Motivational Interviewing questions to reduce defensiveness
• How to shift from confrontation to collaboration
• How to bring conversations back to trust, curiosity, and partnership

If you’re a:
• BCBA
• Therapist
• Psychologist
• Counselor
• Educator
• Or anyone working with behavior change

This episode will give you practical tools to improve communication, increase client buy-in, and create more effective sessions.

Remember:
It’s not about controlling the client…
It’s about guiding the conversation.

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