James & Kalvin on Relationships, Boundaries & Being Honest

On this episode of What If People Find Out, there's no guest — just James Barr and Kalvin Ryder, sitting down together for a candid, unfiltered catch-up. Since launching the podcast, both hosts have found themselves unexpectedly moved by the stories they've been telling. From Emma-Jean Thackray's episode on grief to James's own revelations about surviving domestic violence, the conversations have had a habit of cracking them open in ways they didn't fully anticipate. In this more personal episode, James and Kalvin reflect on what the podcast has taught them about their own lives. They also talk about the pressure we all find put on ourselves to present perfect relationships to the world, and Kalvin reflects on what it felt like to suddenly have his own story in the spotlight for the first time. They also tackle ghosting — why it gets a bad reputation, when it's sometimes a healthy choice — and the painful reality of holding out hope that people will change. Think of it as eavesdropping on two friends being refreshingly real with each other. Don't forget to subscribe and catch new episodes of What If People Find Out every Monday! Follow What If People Find Out Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@whatifpeoplefindout⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@whatifpeoplefindout⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@wipfopodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@whatifpeoplefindout⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices