I Don't Know How She Does It

The Life of Kate Reddy, Working Mother

By: Allison Pearson

Narrated by: Josephine Bailey

For every woman trying to strike that impossible balance between work and home-and pretending that she has-and for every woman who has wanted to hurl the acquaintance who coos admiringly, "Honestly, I just don't know how you do it," out a window, here's a novel to make you cringe with recognition and laugh out loud. With fierce, unsentimental irony, Allison Pearson's novel brilliantly dramatizes the dilemma of working motherhood at the start of the twenty-first century.

Meet Kate Reddy, hedge-fund manager and mother of two. She can juggle nine different currencies in five different time zones and get herself and two children washed and dressed and out of the house in half an hour. In Kate's life, Everything Goes Perfectly as long as Everything Goes Perfectly. She lies to her own mother about how much time she spends with her kids; practices pelvic floor squeezes in the boardroom; applies tips from Toddler Taming to soothe her irascible boss; uses her cell phone in the office bathroom to procure a hamster for her daughter's birthday ("Any working mother who says she doesn't bribe her kids can add Liar to her résumé"); and cries into the laundry hamper when she misses her children's bedtime.

In a novel that is at once uproariously funny and achingly sad, Allison Pearson captures the guilty secret lives of working women-the self-recrimination, the comic deceptions, the giddy exhaustion, the despair-as no other writer has. Kate Reddy's conflict --How are we meant to pass our days? How are we to reconcile the two passions, work and motherhood, that divide our lives? --gets at the private absurdities of working motherhood as only a novel could: with humor, drama, and bracing wisdom.

Critic reviews

“Fast . . . funny . . . heartbreaking. . . . You root for Kate the whole length of her roller coaster ride.” —The New York Times Book Review

“The national anthem for working mothers.” —Oprah Winfrey

“A comic wonder: wildly hilarious, achingly sad, perfectly observed.” —The Miami Herald

“The book every working woman is likely to devour. . . . A hysterical look—in both the laughing and crying senses of the word—at the life of Supermom.” —The New York Times

“Think of Kate Reddy as Bridget Jones’ older, harried, married working-mother-of-two sister. . . . Hilarious.” —Entertainment Weekly

“Perfectly captures the driven days and frequently sleep-deprived nights of that modern mammal, the working mother . . . with acute humor, piercing insight and more than a touch of tenderness.” —New York Daily News

“The definitive social comedy of working motherhood.” —The Washington Post

This book absolutely resonates!

I love this book so much. It totally resonates with me being a working mom and juggling all the responsibilities and being a woman in the business world. Well written and expertly delivered!

Thought- provoking

Entertaining and familiar to any woman who has been, as is so redundantly termed, a “working mother.” Kate is a high-powered financial advisor in London, with two small children and an increasingly distant husband, who is always at the bottom of her priorities list. She is besieged on all sides, by bosses demanding last-minute foreign trips to PTA mothers who disapprove of her taking so much time away from her children. She has a rich and satisfying work life, nurturing new women and ultimately bringing down an especially egregiously sexist pig of a colleague. Having been on both sides of this issue myself, commuting over 80 miles a day, bringing my older daughter with me to her daycare center next door to my office, then deciding to stay home with my second daughter, as 42 miles was too far away for my oldest to be, at home in our local school. I was criticized in the first case for working, then in the second case, for being a bad example for my daughters. I’m not sure I handled the transition as gracefully as Kate did, but we all survived. An enjoyable, sometimes very funny book.

Excellent listen

This book is long but really good. it shows ups and downs, topsy turvy and inside out. I loved it. The reader is great and the author is great.

Hours of irony

What did you love best about I Don't Know How She Does It?

The irony and spot on observations.

What was your reaction to the ending? (No spoilers please!)

Very much as expected, but I don't think I got a definate answer to my last question.

Who was the most memorable character of I Don't Know How She Does It and why?

The cap driver. An unsignificant character with very little stage time, but he got som punchlines.

Any additional comments?

10 hours of ongoing irony. It just became too much at times.

Couldn’t shut it off

Whitty, raw, honest. I couldn’t stop listening to it. The narrator is the best I’ve heard on an audiobook, easy to understand and entertaining. Would absolutely recommend!