Mind Your Manners

How to Be Your Best Self in Any Situation

By: Sara Jane Ho

Narrated by: Sara Jane Ho

Founder of a global etiquette school and star of her own Netflix series, Sara Jane Ho teaches readers how to thrive socially in a variety of situations.

"With her remarkable wit and profound understanding, she serves as an exceptional mentor, showing us all how to navigate life with confidence and grace." ―Drew Barrymore

Etiquette, Sara Jane says, is the glue that holds society together. Humans are social creatures, after all—we need connection to survive. But with global cultures in flux and the post-pandemic digital age, shadow epidemics of anxiety and loneliness are on the rise. Plus, the old rules of “decorum” don’t match the times.

Amidst all this withdrawal and change, social growth can feel out of reach. How do we leave the comfort of our homes, step away from our screens, and interact face to face? How do we create genuine bonds with people we’ve just met, and how do we maintain those ties throughout our lives? Even the most resilient social butterflies among us face sticky situations—from accidentally-sent invites to unruly work and family encounters—any advice would help.

In her signature cheeky yet pragmatic style, Sara Jane Ho imparts a lifetime’s worth of lessons, pro-tips, and FAQs on social and digital etiquette across the five main microcultures in our lives:

• Friendship & Social Life
• Work
• Dating & Relationships
• Family
• Food & Travel

From jumping everyday hurdles to discerning unspoken, cross-cultural cues, Mind Your Manners helps us feel the joy and transformation of social fluency—that deep comfort that comes from connection, inclusion, and presenting our best self in any situation.

“Sara Jane is the brilliant friend you wish you had—the one who intuitively knows the answers to your most awkward problems. In Mind Your Manners, she draws on her global perspective, empathy, practicality, and sense of humor to share that skill and help you develop it for yourself.” ―Vivienne Tam, fashion designer

More than manners

Sara shared not only manner and also her experiences and the way to go through in some difficulty situations.

A Masterclass in Elegance and Heart

This book is so much more than etiquette, it’s a journey into self-awareness, confidence, and authentic connection. The author’s warmth, wisdom, and attention to detail shine through every chapter, making you feel personally guided and inspired. I loved how each lesson was practical yet deeply meaningful, blending timeless principles with modern day relevance. The performance was captivating and heartfelt, making every moment a joy to listen to. It left me not just better informed, but better equipped to present my best self to the world. Truly a work of art.

Etiquette(:

This was awesome! I'm a big fan of Sara Jane Ho. I totally agree that her teachings about manners and acceptance are so valuable. "My Fair Lady" is also a classic movie that showcases similar themes. I really appreciate these lesson and hope there are more to come. 🥰

An ode to unlocking your divine feminine

A manifesto dedicated to elevating your life in everyday situations alongside learning about Sara’s journey to becoming the best version of herself. I guarantee you everybody can take something away from this book, even if you aren’t necessarily familiar with chinese heritages. I have huge respect for Sara as she is able to make complex ideations super digestible and easy to understand. If you are a debutant or wife, or even an early 20s girl (ME!), you’ll be able to learn about reacting with grace and elegance, whilst still maintaining authenticity. I highly recommend reading or listening to “Mind Your Manners” without distractions, and applying Sara’s techniques immediately. You’ll see positive radical changes in your energy and self-esteem: the recipe for success anywhere in the world.