Questions for Couples Before Marriage

Insightful, Creative, and Essential Conversation Starters for Couples to Save Your Marriage Before It Starts (Healthy Relationships, Book 5)

By: Rita Hayes

Narrated by: Tarryn Sarcone

A happy, passionate marriage is well on its way — You just have to make these insightful, creative, and essential conversations first!

• Do you want to give your future marriage a fighting chance?

• Do you believe that there is still more you can learn about your fiancé?

• Or are you looking for powerful questions that will help you ensure that your partner really is the person for you?

You’re on the right track!

The first ingredient in any successful relationship is intention.

It is your intention today to get to know your partner more: What makes them tick? How do they deal with problems? What are their motivations? What future do they see themselves in?

And this is a very important step

Not only are you giving your relationship a fighting chance, but you’re also making sure that you and your partner’s values align.

While movies like to romanticize love, happy marriages actually need more than love to actually last.

And we believe Questions for Couples Before Marriage is the first step toward that.

Written by relationship coach Rita Hayes, this guide is filled with insightful, creative, and essential conversation starters for couples who want to save their marriage before it even starts!

In this game-changing book, you will:

• Engage in deeper conversations: Go beyond what their favorite food is and go straight into deeper questions that matter

• Build a stronger foundation beyond love: Intimate, long-lasting relationships need more than love to thrive — it requires alignment, honesty, and fun

• Prevent problems before they start: Whether it’s your partner's nature, thought processes, lifestyle, or marital expectations, know exactly what you’re signing up for

• And so much more!

Whether you’re looking to propose or marry someone, Questions for Couples Before Marriage will help you figure out once and for all how compatible you are with your partner.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Grab this book today and get started!

©2025 Rita Hayes (P)2025 Rita Hayes

great way to review expectations

Having been married for 10 years this books was full of questions my husband and I talked about before getting engaged. That being said a review of expectations is always a great idea even 10 years in! Great quick read listen!

Helpful

The Naurator has a soothing voice. this audio book, has some excellent points. and helps you to be equipped with the answers and knowledge you need. when considering marriage.

Great book for engaged couples

Questions for Couples Before Marriage by Rita Hayes is a fantastic book for those looking for guidance, I loved every second of it.

Questions that can transform your relationship

I just finished listening to this audiobook, and it surprised me in a good way. It starts with the premise of asking a series of questions for couples that are thinking about getting married so they can talk about topics that often are left untouched.
Really quickly, the book is basically a questionnaire leading to conversations about personal values, finances, expectations about the future, intimacy, roles, challenges, and visions of shared life. It is sort of a "now what?" for two people who are trying to form a future together long-term.
About my opinion... I really liked that the book sounds like having a deep conversation with your significant other. It kind of forces you to go further than you would otherwise go. It feels like it would be good for a couple that is planning to take the next step whatever that step is... living together, getting married, having kids. This book provides a space to talk about things that might otherwise be left unsaid. It is a great reality check.

There is more to marriage than love

Some questions need to be asked and answered before deciding to spend the rest of your life with another person. Marriage requires more than love; it demands that you know one another deeply by asking questions that dive into each other's true thoughts, nature, goals, marital expectations, and personality. This guide helps you have those in-depth conversations, uncovering crucial topics that couples often neglect before marriage. Discuss your respective families' histories and dynamics, and how you would handle relationships with in-laws. You also need to decide if and when you want to have children, how many, and your parenting styles. Find out how each of you handles disagreements. Being honest and having conversations with each other is the foundation of your relationship. Understanding each other's habits and communication styles can help you navigate differences. For a relationship to thrive, you must be honest and committed to exploring these topics together, as it lays the groundwork for a lasting marriage. A major issue is money. Financial disagreements cause marital stress and can lead to divorce. Discussing your attitudes toward money, debts, saving, spending, and financial goals is crucial for a strong partnership. Financial transparency and creating a budget together can prevent future arguments. This guide will help you and your partner find out how compatible you are.