Relationship Counseling

For Women Dealing with Passive-Aggressive Behavior

By: Nora Femenia

Narrated by: Virtual Voice

Relationship Counseling and Passive Aggressive Behavior

After a long period of frustration, and confusion, you realized that the pain in your marriage is produced by passive-aggressive behaviors. That discovery alone cleaned your brain fog and gave you fast relief!

You know what’s going on: It is not you; it is the relationship!

Armed with this new insight, the next logical step is to get some help and search for a counselor.

This decision brings a new wall of frustration with several points of solid resistance awaiting you:

1.- Your husband refuses to share the visit with a relationship coach or a counselor. He sees no marital problem, is satisfied with things as they are, and denies the harmful impact of his behavior on the relationship.

2.- Bravely, you pushed ahead and called a therapist for help:

"I'm searching for a counselor or therapist, but when I explained my issue, he told me he didn't address his passive aggression. Instead, he insisted on telling me I had to be his client, and focus on my own shortcomings."

Now you feel like being dumped by the helper!

What you need is therapy for the harm caused by his passive aggression toward you!

"The one doing such nasty behavior is my husband and if he rejects any external help...
how can I get support to survive this passive-aggressive marriage?”

If your husband doesn’t want to take up the responsibility for his own behavior, it doesn’t mean that you are condemned to suffer it alone.

The only solution to this dilemma is to get an individual counselor that understands this particular style of marital interaction, knows the progressive hurt happening to your personality, and can prevent or repair the damage while supporting you to recover your identity.

This book helps you to identify the impact of passive-aggressive behaviors so you are better qualified to explain your needs to the therapist or counselor. After reading this book, you will focus on the areas where constant passive aggression damages you personally:

1. Loneliness, Isolation, Feelings of Rejection
2. Destroying Your Self-Esteem
3. Destroying Your Mental Clarity
4. Permanent Depression & Hopelessness

Relationship Counseling and Passive Aggressive Behavior will shorten your time in the counselor's office, because you will know exactly what your pain points are, focusing your counselor’s attention on providing solutions to urgent issues. Once they are addressed, you will be empowered enough to decide if you want to invest your efforts into transforming or leaving this passive-aggressive relationship.

Empowering women, disparaging men

It seemed like this book was mostly focused on empowering women and disparaging men. From what I have seen as a counselor, many women communicate passive aggressively while men are able to be more patient and calm. Although, the book does have some helpful things about communication and how to improve it whether it’s passive aggressive or emotionally charged (and expressed in an unhealthy manner). I think that this book pairs well with learning about the four horsemen of divorce.