Sitting at a Crossroad

A Memoir

By: Adriana Forsman

Narrated by: Adriana Forsman

She didn't have an engagement ring, or get down on one knee, or ask that magical four-word question, but Adriana Forsman knew her secret girlfriend had essentially just proposed. Their forbidden love had led Forsman to the greatest crossroads moment of her life. Would she choose to serve Jesus or be with the woman she loved? Or could she choose both?

Forsman's attraction to women began freshman year of Bible college in a uniquely complicated situation with her new best friend. From that moment forward, her coming-of-age years did not go according to plan. Sitting at a Crossroad vulnerably chronicles the twists and turns of her love life through confessions, secrecy, heartbreak, manipulation, false accusations, getting caught, and falling in love—all of it leading to a life-defining moment of decision.

Forsman's journey through the convergence of Christian faith and bisexuality provides insight into the inner conflict queer Christians face as she shares this raw piece of her life. It is a story of love, friendship, self-discovery, and faith—not only her own faith, but the faithfulness of God, a faithfulness that knows no bounds.

©2025 Adriana Forsman (P)2025 Resource Publications

Critic reviews

“Adriana’s quick wit and candid storytelling will draw you in from the very first page in this coming-of-age story of self-discovery and identity. Honest, raw, and anchored in redemption, her story pulses with authenticity, heartache, and hope. Sitting at a Crossroad isn’t just her story—it’s an invitation to experience God’s very real and very profound grace and the reconciliation he desires for you to step into.”—Andy Johnson, Lead Pastor, Living Stones Church, Cokato, Minnesota