Soft is the New Power

Embracing Your Feminine Edge to Win in Love & Life

By: Deya "Direct" Smith

Narrated by: Virtual Voice

Soft is the New Power What if everything you thought you understood about communicating with men was wrong? Would you be willing to re-calibrate your thinking to possess the love and life you desire? From the creator of the Man Whisperer Multimedia Series comes the new book Soft is the New Power by Deya “Direct” Smith. Smith shows readers how to return to the organic softness that is feminine power. Many women are losing themselves in an effort to keep up with the male-dominated workplace and the new-age approaches to dating and relationships. Too many successful and ambitious career driven women for various reasons tend to use masculine or hard energy to survive or succeed, and as a result, not only are they exhausted, but they become hardened in communications. Smith encourages readers to step out of their comfort zone of self-promotion and self-protection and take a stronger, yet softer position to gain what you want. Women have an innate power to attract amazing relationships through initiative, understanding and acceptance, coupled with the ability to approach life with a soft touch. Knowing how and when to turn on your power, does not negate the need to play hard ball when necessary, but it definitely gives you an advantage in work, play and at home. God made us the softer sex for a reason. Use it to your advantage! Readers will: • Eliminate the pressure of being ‘on’ constantly; • Define and embrace your feminine power; • Understand that being soft does not make you weak it makes you wise; • Improve communication with men in business and in your personal life; • Learn the art of speaking to a man’s heart. In Soft is the New Power, Deya “Direct” Smith encourages women to tap into their God-given authority, intuition and femininity to experience the ultimate success in love and life.

A very nice listen

Definitely a great book to listen to. I resonated so much with a lot of the things she was saying. Definitely a book that I will continuously listen to and learn from.

Hated it!

I find it hard to believe a woman wrote this book! This has “a man wrote this” all over it. Either that or the author is a “pick me”. The first couple chapters were so good. I was enjoying it UNTIL it began to revolve around a MAN!! UGH MORE Femininity Less about a man. Doesn’t even deserve 1 star!!

Silly advice

I could have sworn this book was written by a man considering it was catered to attracting and getting a mans attention. How sad to reduce a woman's soft power to only getting a man. We as women in the collective are wise to this ridiculous patriarchal standard.... Our soft power is for us! Decentering men and focusing on ourselves and ALL our relationships is how we embody our soft power. Also this book was riddled with multiple biblical references - which again perpetuates the patriarchal standard for women. Get over yourself lady- We are rising up and it's time we speak out about ridiculous nonsense like this book