The Kindness Method

The Highly Effective (and extremely enjoyable) Way to Change Your Habits

By: Shahroo Izadi, Marisa Bate - introduction

Narrated by: Shahroo Izadi

Read by the author, Shahroo Izadi

'A powerful way to break even the most stubborn bad habit so you can live the life you deserve' – Steven Bartlett, The Diary of a CEO

Map your habits, set your own goals and treat yourself with the kindness you truly deserve.

Shahroo Izadi has a revolutionary message: treating yourself kindly is the only way to make changes that last. She is living proof that her method works – after years of yo-yo dieting she shed over eight stone (and has kept it off ever since). Professional training coupled with personal experience led her to develop The Kindness Method, a totally non-judgemental approach which turns strict regimes upside down to leave you feeling empowered, positive and ready to embrace change.

In The Kindness Method, Behavioural Change Specialist Shahroo invites you first, to give yourself a break - life can be stressful - and then learn how to strengthen your willpower like a muscle so you can sustain motivation for the long haul. These techniques may seem gentle, but the results are life-changing because the plan is tailored to you, and they can work for everything from alcohol addiction to procrastination to weight loss. By using the same techniques that she has used to help substance addicts recover from dependence, you too will find that you have the power to change – for good.

'A game-changing book' – Evening Standard

Critic reviews

A powerful way to break even the most stubborn bad habit so you can live the life you deserve (Steven Bartlett, The Diary of a CEO)

The moment I met her I immediately knew she was the real deal. She just gets it. She's a sobering, safe and sassy presence in a world of extremes. (Bryony Gordon, #1 bestselling author of Mad Girl)

Shahroo's dynamic and compassionate approach to an entrenched and sometimes scary drinking culture is refreshing, non-judgmental and feels like a very contemporary approach to talking about alcohol. (Gemma Cairney, BBC Radio 1 presenter and author of Open: A Toolkit for How Magic and Messed Up Life Can Be)

Aside from my own experience of Shahroo's superb work, the greatest testament is that our clients keep requesting more and more of her invaluable experience, insights and strategies to successfully manage their emotional wellbeing. (Dominic Ruffy, Amy Winehouse Foundation)

That's what Shahroo does. Gets me to ask fundamental questions with a kindness and compassion I normally reserve for others. (Marisa Bate, The Pool)

This book is wonderful. Kindness is king. Kindness is key. (Eoin Colfer, bestselling author of the Artemis Fowl series)

A game-changing book about habits and beliefs that focuses on boosting our self-esteem and resilience, rather than demonising ourselves or our behaviours. And we can use it to change any unwanted behaviour, from struggling with prescription drugs to procrastinating to drinking too much prosecco. (Evening Standard)

Britain's answer to Brené Brown (Women's Health UK)

competence, human kindnes

liked everything! and it provides real support! thank you thank you! a shining example of a human being!!!