This Is Not My Mother

I Was Raised by a Narcissistic Mom and Didn't Know It

By: Raquel G.

Narrated by: Jenifer Witcher

Dealing with narcissism is a painful and lonely thing to endure. Most people are aware of narcissism as experienced in romantic relationships, where either party exhibits narcissistic traits of having low empathy, exaggerated sense of entitlement, or has an inability to admit making mistakes.

The instinct may be to leave that romantic partner because no one deserves to be in a relationship that lacks mutual love and respect. It's difficult navigating that type of narcissism, but what if the narcissist in your life happens to be your mother. What then?

Society insist that mothers are great and tells you that she is your closest confidant. You see things differently. You know that your mother has not shown love for you nor has she treated you very well.

This Is Not My Mother is a must-listen for the daughter who identifies as the scapegoat of the family. This book will encourage and help you realize you are not alone in this matter. Society says you are crazy for feeling the way you do about your mother. This book exposes the truth that society is not ready to accept. The bottom line is that your mother is not the most important person in your life--you are!

©2024 Raquel G. (P)2024 Raquel G.

A Thought-Provoking and Compassionate Read

Reading this book was both moving and, at times, uncomfortable—not because of the writing, but because it’s a raw, real-life account of a deeply difficult experience. Saying I “enjoyed” it feels strange, because it’s more than a story—it’s someone’s truth, and that truth is painful.

I believe this book serves at least two important purposes. First, it’s a lifeline for anyone who’s experienced a similar relationship with their mother—offering validation, solidarity, and hope. Second, for those of us fortunate enough to have grown up with loving, supportive mothers, it opens a door to greater empathy. I fall into that second group, and this book helped me listen more openly, without judgment, and better understand how different someone else’s experience can be.

I also found the self-care advice and reflections on emotional well-being especially powerful. Raquel G shares not just her story, but also tools for healing—and that makes this book not only courageous, but generous.