Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance

Healing from an Abusive Relationship with a Disordered Personality

De: Peter Salerno PsyD

Narrado por: Peter Salerno

If you’re in or have been in a relationship with a pathological personality yet somehow ended up believing that everything bad was your fault, you’re not alone. That’s the super-power of disordered personalities: making their victims believe they are in the wrong even when they’re not.

Being on the receiving end of chronic but often subtle abuse can be brutal. The result of this dizzying and disorienting up-is-down maelstrom manifested by the pathological personality in your life results in Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance (TCD). This occurs when covert manipulation and other forms of deceit and coercion are experienced on an ongoing basis. TCD represents complex trauma that goes far beyond typical trauma and stress-related symptoms.

But there is help. And knowledge is where it starts. Rest assured that what you have been searching for to make sense of your debilitating situation and to recover once and for all from pathological relationship abuse is right here, between the pages of this book.

Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance, when understood, can be overcome. And that’s what this book is for—for you to gain the tools and information so that you’ll be able to reunite with your true sense of self and to move forward in your life with a renewed sense of joy. After all you’ve been through, you deserve it.

©2025 Peter Salerno (P)2025 Peter Salerno

Short, but profound!

I have read a lot about personality disorders, and a lot of the beliefs out there have never sat well with me. We have been missing something, and making excuse for the abuse that takes place. For example telling ourselves it is because of trauma during their childhood etc. We rationalize thinking that we will somehow get through, but in my experience and many others this does not happen. It was validating to hear in the book about others, including the author, that have fallen for narcissists lies and abuse. We all need to rally together to bring the truth out about why this abuse happens, and more importantly, how to heal from it. This book was profound, and I will read his other books on the subject. I think it is also important to point out that narcissistic traits affect both men and women almost equally.

I’m in my second marriage with a wife who exhibits narcissistic traits. I never thought in a million years I would fall for it a second time. I have an advanced degree, and consider myself intelligent, but here I am. I need to figure out how to heal and never get myself into this situation again. I think this book has a lot of answers as to how I can do that. It’s tough because our energy truly is sapped, and it’s tough to keep going, but I’ve got to fight so my kids can witness healthy love, and we can thrive again, and not just survive.

Helpful

Thank you to the author for doing the deep dive and research. This book will help a lot of people. Thank you for all of the effort that they put in to this topic. It is something that is not talked about enough.
Grateful.

Excellent use of time

Dr. Peter Salerno has a unique and spoton perspective on this real threat deceptively living amongst and preying upon us. Dr. Salerno also has an ability to explain directly, clearly, and powerfully and with anecdotes and science that helps to push back the layers of curtains these intentional exploitative humans who lurk behind smiles and faux kindness in every environment. Even if you believe you have lived a life free of the abuse, despair, and deception of these types of personalities, Dr. Salerno will help you better understand and protect yourself from harm.

Current, accurate, simple and effective.

I have been living with traumatic cognitive dissonance for much of my life. This book helped me see that people can indeed be toxic and can indeed contaminate my nervous and core belief systems. It allowed me to finally realize that I WAS a victim and am now a survivor of emotional and nervous system abuse. I appreciated how brief, clear and to the point this book was and the focus on the present moment rather than the past or the future. I feel validated, understood and supported.

Wow smart man!

Very helpful! Understanding how others can gaslight and invalidate your value in life. While coming from someone who you thought was your most cherished love one provides healing, comfort and clarity and returns self trust again!