What Your Comfort Costs Us

How Women of Color Reimagine Leadership to Transform Workplace Culture

By: M. Gabriela Alcalde MPH DrPH

Narrated by: A'rese Emokpae

Leading for survival, leading for liberation—how to uplift women of color, transform cultures of complicity, and upend white supremacy culture at work

Workplace leaders: white comfort comes at the safety of women of color—and it costs lives and livelihoods. Microaggressions, structural barriers, unpaid emotional labor: WOC in leadership disproportionately bear the burdens of white supremacist work cultures, even as they’re expected to take charge of reforms. But building better workplaces—less toxic, racist, and misogynistic workplaces—is everyone’s responsibility and for everyone’s benefit. And letting it fall solely to women of color is causing real harm. The stakes are high, and it’s past time for change.

What Your Comfort Costs Us offers essential reading and transparent advice for leaders who are ready to address structural inequity at work. With chapters like “Talking About Racism is Hard,” “Checking the Boxes,” and “Uncovering the Added Burden and Toll of Unpaid and Unseen Emotional Labor,” anti-supremacist philanthropic and nonprofit leader and author M. Gabriela Alcalde challenges us to rethink how we engage power—and take radical action toward reorienting it toward collective liberation.

You’ll learn:

• Research-backed analysis and practical solutions to transform workplace culture
  
• How systemic racism and structural violence shows up at work (in ways you may not expect)
  
• What happens when workplaces shift to prioritizing WOC’s material safety over white comfort
  
• Real stories and insights from 10 women of color in leadership
  
• How white allies and accomplices can show up and step up authentically
  

Interwoven with Alcalde’s own experiences, professional expertise, and proven recommendations on how to do better, this book is a necessary guide to nurturing empathy, challenging complacency, and activating meaningful allyship. Alcalde awakens your potential to transform workplace cultures beyond business-as-usual bandaids, offering critical wisdom for systemic change and authentic collective empowerment at work.

Vital work with a choice narrator

This is an incredible piece of work that has such a timely and important message about the labor that makes our world more just. this is the time for pieces like this to be heard and incorporated into the cultural zeitgeist.
also the narrator is perfectly chosen and able to pronounce and pull in the Spanish words that are woven into the experience without feeling jarring or misplaced. Given that the stories and anecdotes are so important too the message this is no small thing. Do yourself a favor give this one a listen.