289: The Marriage Killer No One Talks About: Selfishness

Marriage problems often begin when "we" turns into "me."

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Rosner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove talk about how selfishness quietly damages marriages and why many relationships become transactional over time.

They discuss how the enemy uses blame, resentment, and score-keeping to divide couples—and how shifting from "What's in it for me?" to "What's in me for it?" can transform a relationship.

You'll also hear a simple framework for healthy connection in marriage:

5 – How can I help you?

4 – I'm proud of you

3 – I love you

2 – Thank you

1 – We

When couples choose service over self, marriages grow stronger.

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