Aggressive Toddler Tantrums: Why Kids Hit, Bite, and Kick (And What To Do)

In this episode, we talk about what to do when toddler tantrums turn physical—hitting, kicking, or throwing things.

When you understand what’s happening inside your child’s brain, it becomes much easier to stay calm and respond in a way that protects both safety and self-esteem.

You'll learn:

• Why aggressive tantrums happen: Toddlers feel big emotions but don’t yet have the impulse control or problem-solving skills to manage them.

• What to do in the moment: Focus on safety first, stay close and calm, and avoid lectures while your child is overwhelmed.

• How to help long-term: After the storm passes, teach simple skills—like asking for a turn or using words—to handle big feelings next time.

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