Episodes

  • S2 Ep15: Twin Flames & A Pastor's Gay Wife

    S2 Ep15: Twin Flames & A Pastor's Gay Wife
    Mar 24 2026

    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    In this episode, we’re talking about Elena Undone,the film that gave us one of the longest kisses in cinema and a lot of facts about Twin Flames. We unpack Elena’s journey from picture-perfect churchy wife to questioning everything, Peyton’s effortless femme top energy, and the surprise curveball no one anticipated.
    In addition, we will be sharing our opinions on Twin Flames, babies, and more! Don’t miss our WLW History segment, where we learn all about the origins of UHauling!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, Pariah (2011), available on to rent on YouTube and Apple TV!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

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    51 mins
  • S2 Ep14: The Heartbreaking Lore of Page 28- S2E14- Portrait of a Lady On Fire

    S2 Ep14: The Heartbreaking Lore of Page 28- S2E14- Portrait of a Lady On Fire
    Mar 17 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re talking about Portrait of a Lady on Fire, the slow-burn lesbian masterpiece where the looks are long, the tension is unbearable, and apparently everyone in the 1700s was extremely hot and very gay.
    Katlynn is joined by guest cohost (our awesome producer and sound mixer, Victoria) to talk longing stares, iconic moments, and why Adèle Haenel and Noémie Merlant managed to emotionally destroy us with their acting. Grab your paintbrush and your feelings, this one is gonna hurt (but it’s worth it)!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we will be discussing Elena Undone, available on Hulu and Plex!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    1 hr and 22 mins
  • Two Rachels, Spitting & Tops/Bottoms- REPLAY- Disobedience

    Two Rachels, Spitting & Tops/Bottoms- REPLAY- Disobedience
    Mar 10 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    No new episode this week due to technical difficulties, but we would never leave you hanging! We are putting this replay of one of your fave episodes, our deep dive into Disobedience! It’s a movie with a lot of drama, two beautiful, famous Rachels, and one very famous sex scene!
    We cover forbidden love, religious trauma, community drama worthy of its own group chat, and everything in between!
    Don’t miss our “WLW History” segment on lesbian identities/labels and sexual preferences!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.
    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review. Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • S2 Ep13: A Surgeon & A Ballerina Walk Into a Gay Bar- S2E13- Saving Face

    S2 Ep13: A Surgeon & A Ballerina Walk Into a Gay Bar- S2E13- Saving Face
    Mar 3 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re talking about Saving Face! This is a queer rom-com that gave us surprise age-gap relationships, secret girlfriends, and a geriatric pregnancy! We get into Wil’s double life, Vivian’s swoon-worthy confidence, and the layered pressure of family, tradition, and cultural expectations.
    Don’t miss our “Literary Lesbians” segment, in which we discuss TWO short story collections (Lavender Speculation by Jamie Zaccaria and Little Book of Quickies by Ro Smith)! Authors can be found on TikTok as @jamierosegold and @robeingro.


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we will be heading to 18th century France for Portrait of a Lady on Fire, available on HBO Max!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our ""Dear Dykes"" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
    Watch on YouTube: YouTube.com/butimalesbianpod-

    Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/but-i-m-a-lesbian-podcast--6630396/support.
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • S2 Ep12: California Lore & Accidental Murder- S2E12- Addicted to Fresno

    S2 Ep12: California Lore & Accidental Murder- S2E12- Addicted to Fresno
    Feb 24 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re heading to one of the most disliked cities in California for a chaotic sister spiral in Addicted to Fresno.
    Starring Natasha Lyonne, Judy Greer, and Aubrey Plaza, this dark comedy gives us messy codependency, accidental crime, and some aggressively questionable choices. We’re talking sibling dynamics, motel employee drama, and why Fresno might actually be the perfect setting for lesbian chaos.
    Don’t miss our interview with the CEO and the Creative Director of Tello, the lesbian streaming network, after the recap! We have an inspiring conversation about supporting queer media, spreading positivity, and more!
    Support Tello by subscribing at tellofilms.com and/or supporting on social media: @tellofilms on TikTok and instagram!
    The app mentioned for lgbtq+ networking is available on the App Store, and is called Hey Famm!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we will be heading back to the early aughts with Saving Face, available on Fubo and Roku!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
    Watch on YouTube: YouTube.com/butimalesbianpod-

    Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/but-i-m-a-lesbian-podcast--6630396/support.
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    1 hr and 25 mins
  • S2 Ep11: Sparkles, Lap Dances, & Queer Subtext-S2E11- Showgirls

    S2 Ep11: Sparkles, Lap Dances, & Queer Subtext-S2E11- Showgirls
    Feb 17 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re strutting into the glitter-drenched chaos of Showgirls.
    We’re talking the rise of Nomi Malone, the rhinestones, the drama, the NC-17 rating, and how this infamous flop became a queer cult classic. Is it bad? Is it good? Is it so bad that’s it’s good? We will unpack it all, and hone in on all the gayest parts.


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we will discuss Addicted to Fresno, available on Tello!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
    Watch on YouTube: YouTube.com/butimalesbianpod-

    Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/but-i-m-a-lesbian-podcast--6630396/support.
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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • S2 Ep10: Daddy Issues & Sad Gay Girl Vibes- S2E10- Carmen & Lola

    S2 Ep10: Daddy Issues & Sad Gay Girl Vibes- S2E10- Carmen & Lola
    Feb 10 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re talking Carmen y Lola, a tender yet rebellious lesbian love story you definitely need to see. We get into young love, breaking generational rules, and what it means to choose yourself when your entire community says you can’t. There’s yearning, there’s street art, and there’s a healthy dose of religious trauma.
    We chat about cultural context, the weight of tradition, and why this film is quietly radical without trying to be flashy. In addition, you are in for our very gay opinions, and a Cookie Jar Qs segment!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we are going back to the early aughts with Saving Face (2004). This film is available for rent on Roku TV, Apple TV, and YouTube.

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
    Watch on YouTube: YouTube.com/butimalesbianpod-

    Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/but-i-m-a-lesbian-podcast--6630396/support.
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • S2 Ep9: A Beautiful & Tragic Lesbian Icon- S2E9- Gia

    S2 Ep9: A Beautiful & Tragic Lesbian Icon- S2E9- Gia
    Feb 3 2026
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week, we’re diving into Gia (1998): the lesbian biopic about the tragic life of an 80s supermodel. We talk Gia Carangi, queer desire, fame, addiction, and the AIDS crisis.
    We break down our key takeaways from the film (yes, we’re crying), gush over our favorite supermodels past and present, and bring back everyone’s favorite segment: “What’s Up With the Heteros?” because it’s always fun to read about straight people’s relationship issues.
    It’s sexy, devastating, iconic, and extremely gay. Come cry, laugh, and discuss how incredibly gorgeous Angelina Jolie is with us.

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don’t miss next week, when we recap Carmen Y Lola (2018), a Spanish film available on Tubi and Plex!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
    Watch on YouTube: YouTube.com/butimalesbianpod-

    Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/but-i-m-a-lesbian-podcast--6630396/support.
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    1 hr and 15 mins