CUT These 4 Things OUT to Become Badass | 9

Still chasing approval from your ex, your friends, or random women online? Still making excuses for why you’re not where you want to be? Still numbing out with p0rn instead of facing the pain?

In this episode, I lay out the 4 things most men need to ruthlessly cut out right now if they want to stop feeling weak, stuck, and invisible—and start becoming the version of themselves they actually respect.

You’ll learn how to eliminate:

1. The need for external validation & approval
   Why constantly seeking likes, compliments, or “she’s into me” energy is quietly killing your confidence—and the exact mindset shift that replaces it with self-generated worth.
2. Excuses & victim mentality
   Every “I can’t because…” story is a chain holding you back. Discover how to own your circumstances, stop blaming the breakup/divorce, and turn every setback into fuel.
3. Porn & mindless dopamine hits
   Post-breakup porn use spikes for most men—it feels like relief but destroys drive, testosterone, focus, and real-world attraction. I explain the science, the damage, and the practical steps to cut it cold and redirect that energy into real growth.
4. Waiting for “motivation”
   Motivation follows action—not the other way around. Stop waiting to “feel ready” and start building momentum through small, non-negotiable daily wins.

These aren’t feel-good tips—they’re hard cuts that separate men who stay broken from men who become truly badass.

No fluff. No sugar-coating. Just the raw truth you need to hear if you’re done playing small.

Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube.

Your comeback doesn’t start when life gets easier.
It starts when you cut what’s holding you back.

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Hosted by Chris Ryan - Professional Life Coach | B.A. Psychology

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