Why do you think people are less likely to take action when they hear a general announcement versus a direct request?

Have you ever sat in a meeting where everyone nods in agreement about what needs to be done, only to show up a week later and realize… absolutely nothing happened? You’re not alone.

The Problem with Announcements

We’ve all heard it: someone at work (or home!) says, “We need to do this,” everyone agrees, and then… crickets. Lillian shares that making an announcement isn’t enough—it’s not action, and it’s not accountability.

One-Way Communication Doesn’t Get Results

Without assigning specific responsibility, announcements often leave everyone thinking someone else will take the lead. This is true whether you’re running a meeting, leading a team, or just wanting the dishes washed at home.

How to Move from Idea to Action

Take my advice...

• Stop just announcing—start asking.
• Clearly delegate and spell out who will do what by when.
• Use phrases like “I have a request,” or “Please take care of this by [date/time],” to hold people (and yourself!) accountable.

Make It Happen

If you want things checked off your list (and not just talked about), it’s time to switch from vague announcements to clear, actionable requests.

Lillian Zarzar is an international speaker, author and coach who specializes in helping you to overcome the barriers that block you from self-expression.

Lillian believes that the ability to communicate effectively is the foundation of personal growth. Without it, you can neither express what you want nor can you offer others your wisdom.

Lillian's desire is to help you tap into your wisdom and follow your purposeful course. With belief and dedication, you enhance your personal growth, you engage with others meaningfully, and you embark on your road to self-mastery.

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Whether you’re a leader, an entrepreneur, or simply someone looking to live more authentically, this episode is packed with wisdom, heartfelt stories, and practical guidance to help you break through your own barriers and start living from a place of greater presence and love.

I’m thrilled to bring you a deeply transformative episode with my special guest, Dr. Ron Stotts—a three-time bestselling author, inspirational speaker, and an expert blending thousands of years of ancient wisdom with today's psychological breakthroughs and cutting-edge neuroscience.

In our conversation, Dr. Ron Stotts introduces us to his concept of "the big mind," sharing how tapping into this space can help us access our true potential, both personally and professionally. We talk about the importance of healing our inner child, integrated whole-brain thinking, and why emotional self-awareness is essential for evolving into the best version of ourselves.

Moments

00:00 "Big Mind for Leadership Flow"

05:37 Evolving Leadership Beyond Old Norms

10:01 "Breathing, Healing, Becoming Journey"

11:13 "Life Rigged in Your Favor"

17:25 "Quiet Mind, Conscious Leadership"

19:34 "Healing Deep Scars in Vietnam"

23:59 Shortcut to Empowerment and Enlightenment

24:59 "Embrace Self-Love Today"

Key Takeaways:

• The Path to “Big Mind”: Dr. Stotts emphasizes the importance of integrated whole-brain thinking—moving past just logic to access creativity, presence, and solutions from a deeper inner place.
• Healing the Inner Child: Our ability to lead and live fully is often blocked by unresolved emotional patterns from childhood. True evolution starts with self-awareness, emotional healing, and learning to truly love and accept yourself.
• Presence Over Perfection: Success isn’t about micromanagement or control. It’s about being present, curious, and open to opportunities—trusting that everything coming your way is an opportunity to grow.

My favorite quote from Dr. Stotts:

“All you literally need to do is be present and curious. From that state, you’re accessing the best of who and what you are.”

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Lillian Zarzar is an international speaker, author and coach who specializes in helping you to overcome the barriers that block you from self-expression.

Lillian believes that the ability to communicate effectively is the foundation of personal growth. Without it, you can neither express what you want nor can you offer others your wisdom.

Lillian's desire is to help you tap into your wisdom and follow your purposeful course. With belief and dedication, you enhance your personal growth, you engage with others meaningfully, and you embark on your road to self-mastery.

Copyright 2026 Lillian Zarzar

Credibility is linked to believing in yourself and trusting your life experiences.

Are you one of those people who get the jitters before speaking in front of a crowd? Do butterflies swarm your stomach, and does your heart race when all eyes are on you?

In my classes at Columbus State Community College and Ohio University, I explain how these three Cs—confidence, credibility, and composure—interchange and support one another to create stability, grace, and poise when communicating.

Here are a few takeaways from the episode:

Confidence:

This starts from within. It’s closely linked to self-esteem and strengthened every time you push past mistakes and learn from your experiences. Criticism? Remember, opinions are just perspectives, not ultimate truths.

Credibility:

Authenticity is your superpower. The more you believe in your message, skills, and the wisdom you’ve gained from life’s experiences, the more others will trust what you share.

Composure:

Staying calm stems from knowing your worth and the value you bring. Nervousness can be channeled positively through self-talk, focusing less on what others might think and more on sharing your message clearly and confidently.

Treat the audience as if you’re speaking to one person. Focus on delivering your message to that individual, and watch your composure soar.

Ready to challenge yourself and grow in these three areas?

Lillian Zarzar is an international speaker, author and coach who specializes in helping you to overcome the barriers that block you from self-expression.

Lillian believes that the ability to communicate effectively is the foundation of personal growth. Without it, you can neither express what you want nor can you offer others your wisdom.

Lillian's desire is to help you tap into your wisdom and follow your purposeful course. With belief and dedication, you enhance your personal growth, you engage with others meaningfully, and you embark on your road to self-mastery.

Connect with Lillian Zarzar

lillian@lillianzarzar.com

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Copyright 2026 Lillian Zarzar