• Mixer Dates & No More Awkward First Dates
    Mar 20 2026

    In this episode, Diana Holcher shares fresh, fun ideas tomake dating way less awkward and way more enjoyable. She breaks down mixer dates as a chill, low-pressure way to meet people and build real connections. The conversation dives into why communication and social skills actually matter, how cultural differences shape dating, and what good etiquette looks like today. Diana also tackles the LDS dating struggle and offers practical, realistic ways to make it better. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure in dating, this episode gives you simple, doable ways to show up with more confidence andactually have fun.

    Find out more about Diana on her Instagram page @dianaglenhoelscher or listen to her on her own podcast - The Influence for Good Podcasts

    #DatingAdvice #ModernDating #DatingTips #ConfidenceInDating #MixerDates #DatingCoach #LDSDating #DatingConfidence #DatingCulture #NoMoreAwkward

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    49 mins
  • Breadcrumbing, Zombieing, and Love Bombing: Welcome to Modern Dating
    Mar 13 2026

    Join Tom, Bob, and Harley on this episode as they dive intothe colorful and sometimes confusing world of modern dating terminology. From breadcrumbing and zombieing to lovebombing, sliding in, and red flags, they unpack the language shaping today’s relationships. They explore what these terms really mean, why they’ve become so common, and how social media and dating apps have influenced the way people connect. Along the way, they once again discuss “shrecking” and other behaviors that can make dating exciting—or frustrating. With humor, real-life insights, and practical advice, Tom, Bob, and Harley will help you better understand the signals, patterns, and pitfalls of modern dating culture.


    #DatingMadeSimple #ModernDating #DatingTerms #DatingAdvice #LoveBombing #RedFlags #DatingCulture #DMs #DatingTips #YoungAdultDating #DatingTrends #RelationshipAdvice

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    41 mins
  • First Dates, Ghosting & DTRs: We Answer Your Dating Questions!
    Feb 27 2026

    This week on Dating Made Simple, Tom, Bob, and Harley answer questions from their listeners about some of the biggest dating dilemmas. They talk about how to start a conversation without overthinking it, whether first dates should be casual or formal, and why respect and etiquette still matter. The group discusses online dating safety, compares dating apps with traditional ways of meeting people,and explores how technology shapes today’s social culture. They also unpack ghosting, casual dating trends, and why honest communication is still the key to making relationships work today. Be sure to listen in.


    #datingtips #datingadvice #onlinedating #conversationstarters #first dates #datingetiquette #ghosting #datingsafety #dating

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    37 mins
  • Beyond the Field: BYU Football Players & Their Better Halves on Life, Dating, & Relationships
    Feb 20 2026

    In this episode of Dating Made Simple, Tom, Bob, and Harley dive into real talk about dating, engagement, and relationships with two BYU Cougars football players and their batter halves. The couples talk about how they met, what their first dates were like, how they got engaged, and the extra pressures that come with dating a student-athlete. Along the way, they open up about expectations, dealing withloneliness, and trends like “throning,” while giving us an honest, relatable look at modern relationships. You don’t want to miss this episode.

    #dating #relationships #BYU #studentathletes #lovestories #firstdates #datingexpectations #loneliness #throning #datingadvice #datingtips

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    45 mins
  • Hot Takes, Throning, & Shrekking - Are You Guilty of Any of These?
    Feb 13 2026

    In this episode of Dating Made Simple, hosts Tom andBob are joined by guest host Harley to break down “Hot Take Dating” and why being real about your opinions—especially controversial ones—can save you a lot of future drama. They mention that differing opinions can be a deal breaker,but why understanding someone’s core values matters even more than winning a debate. The crew also unpacks dating trends like throning (dating for status) and shrekking (dating for better treatment, not attraction), and what they reveal about modern dating. Plus, they explore whether attraction can grow over time, why chemistry still matters, and how shared values, goals, and honest communication set relationships up for the long haul.


    #dating, #relationships, #hottakedating, #datingandpolitical views, #datingandreligion, #datingandsexual values, #throning, #shrekking, #datingtrends, #communicationindating #datingadvice #datingtips

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    36 mins
  • Three Keys to a Lifelong Loving Relationship
    Feb 6 2026

    In this episode, hosts Tom and Bob break down Robert Walz’s article “3 Keys to a Lifelong Loving Relationship” in a way that actually makes sense for Gen Z dating and relationships. Drawing from years of counseling experience, they unpack the three non-negotiables for lasting love: selflessness, owning your mistakes and asking for forgiveness, and real communication (not just texting “k”). The conversation dives into why gratitude and validation matter, how small everyday choices build trust, and what healthy conflict really looks like. If you want better relationships—not just more situationships—this episode offers practical, real-world advice you can use right now.


    #DatingAdvice #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipGoals #LoveThatLasts #CommunicationIsKey #ForgivenessMatters #Selfless #ModernDating #DatingPodcast #DatingCoach

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    40 mins
  • Just Go to Dinner (It’s Not That Deep)
    Jan 30 2026

    What if dating didn’t have to feel so overwhelming? Thisepisode challenges the idea that every date needs to be perfect—or lead directly to marriage. Tom, Bob, and Harley explore how social media, dating apps, and cultural pressure have turned dating into a comparison game instead of a process of connection. They talk about why people avoid second dates, how fear disguises itself as pickiness, and why sustainable relationships are built on shared values—not curated highlight reels. With humor, honesty, and real-life examples, this conversation reframes dating as relationship development, reminding listeners that it’s okay to slow down, tune out the noise, and just get to know someone.


    #ItsJustDinner #ModernDating #DatingMadeSimple #DatingAdvice #DatingCulture #DatingCoach #RelationshipDevelopment #DatingAnxiety #FirstDates #RealConnection

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    40 mins
  • From Awkward to Authentic: Keeping the Creep Factor in Check
    Jan 29 2026

    In this episode, we dig into why so many Gen Z men are hesitant to approach women—and it all comes down to one word: creepy. A staggering 69% of men fear being labeled creepy, and 44% say that fear actively stops them from interacting with women at all. We break down what “creepy” behavior actually looks like—think controlling tendencies, not taking no for an answer, and clinginess—and why awareness matters. But don’t worry, it’s not all doom and awkward silences. We talk practical, human solutions: approach in person, read the room, walk away if it’s not working, listen more, and be authentically you. Plus, meet our new host, Harley, joining the conversation with fresh insight and real talk. 🎙️


    #GenZ #ModernDating #DatingAnxiety #CreepFactor #DatingTips #DatingIdeas #DatingCulture #ItsJustDinner#CommunicationMatters #AuthenticSelf #ListenFirst

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    40 mins