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Dear Dr. Tracy

Dear Dr. Tracy

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Welcome to Dear Dr. Tracy, the podcast that helps you navigate the everyday challenges of relationships, marriage, and parenting with expert advice and real, relatable conversations. Hosted by clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, this podcast is your place for honest, no-nonsense guidance on love, intimacy, boundaries, and communication. With over 18 years of experience, Dr. Tracy brings a mix of clinical expertise, evidence-based research, and personal insights as a wife and mother to help you break unhealthy patterns and build stronger connections. Each week, Dr. Tracy answers the questions so many of us have but don’t always know how to ask—about resentment, desire, mental load, and how to truly feel like a team with your partner. She’s joined by fellow experts, real couples, and her husband Greg, who offers a down-to-earth perspective on the struggles so many relationships face. If you’re ready for actionable tools and heartfelt conversations that will help you create a relationship that feels fulfilling, this podcast is for you.Cloud10 Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
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  • The Real Reason You Avoid Setting Boundaries

    The Real Reason You Avoid Setting Boundaries
    Mar 26 2026
    Boundaries are easy to agree with in theory and brutally hard in real life, especially when childcare, tradition, money, and family history are all tangled together. Dr. Tracy and Greg unpack why so many people understand boundaries online but freeze when it’s time to actually set one, and they cluster the most common stuck points: fear of fallout, guilt and “you’re too sensitive” messaging, the hopelessness of being ignored, and the leverage dynamics that make saying no feel risky.They also name why holidays turn the volume up: proximity, old roles, obligation economy, and unspoken expectations. The key reframe is that boundaries aren’t about controlling someone else. They’re an invitation into a relationship that works for both of you, with the follow-through happening in what you do when someone pushes back. Dr. Tracy leaves you with a powerful reflection to sit with this week: where are you staying quiet to keep someone else comfortable, and what is that silence costing you? 📎 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Be Connected — 24/7 relationship support, including Dr. Tracy AI trained on Tracy's clinical work. Get real answers in the moment, even when your partner won't do the work with you. One spot left for a couples intensive with Dr. Tracy — a 2-day deep dive designed for couples who are stuck and not seeing results from weekly therapy. In-person or she travels to you. 🔗 WANT TO GO DEEPER? Read the book: ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to start? Find your relationship's negative cycle — free quiz here. Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    43 mins
  • How Unspoken Needs Create Distance and Resentment

    How Unspoken Needs Create Distance and Resentment
    Mar 22 2026
    hat “we’re not fighting, but we don’t feel close” feeling is one of the most common relationship stuck-points, and it doesn’t automatically mean anything is broken. Dr. Tracy reframes roommate mode as less about a lack of love and more about a misunderstanding of how closeness is actually built. For many couples, connection erodes quietly, not through big blowups, but through long stretches of important things going unnamed.She offers a key reframe: needs are information, not demands or criticism. When needs stay unspoken, they don’t disappear, they show up later as resentment, emotional distance, and feeling alone even while you’re together. If you’re feeling disconnected, the answer usually isn’t to “need less” or try harder in silence. It’s learning to identify what feels off, name what you want (not just what you don’t), and practice expressing needs without guilt or self-blame, so closeness becomes something you build together instead of something you hope your partner guesses. RESOURCES Get relationship coaching inside ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠ Order my new book! ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    6 mins
  • How to Build Resilience Before Life Gets Hard with Dr. Rachel Goldman

    How to Build Resilience Before Life Gets Hard with Dr. Rachel Goldman
    Mar 19 2026
    Life is going to happen, no matter how organized you are or how many systems you build. Dr. Rachel Goldman joins Dr. Tracy to talk about resilience as something you practice before the hard season hits, not after you’re already running on fumes. They break down what’s actually in your control when everything feels like it isn’t, and why doing “more” often creates the exact kind of chronic stress your body eventually pushes back against.They also unpack how stress shifts into exhaustion and burnout, what burnout really looks like (and why a single day off doesn’t fix it), and how it shows up in relationships when you don’t take a real transition between work mode and home mode. The conversation lands on a simple but powerful takeaway: you don’t need a total life overhaul to feel steadier. Sometimes you just need one internal tool you can access anywhere. For Dr. Rachel, that tool is breath, a small reset you can return to throughout the day to climb down the stress ladder before you hit the breaking point. LINKS FROM EPISODE Order Dr. Rachel's new book: When Life Happens RESOURCES Get Relationship Support ⁠with Coaching & Community inside ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠ Order my new book! ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    43 mins
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