In this episode of Design and Religion: Look for the Helpers, Kim Eppehimer shares the deeper logic behind her work with Friendship House, Limen Recovery + Wellness, and the broader “One Big House” vision. She explains that the partnership between these organizations grew from a clear need: people seeking housing stability, recovery, and support are often forced to navigate a fragmented system that pushes them from one place to another. Her central conviction is simple and powerful: people need stability without losing dignity.

Kim argues that homelessness, substance use disorder, and mental health struggles are too often treated as personal failures rather than systemic realities shaped by trauma, isolation, poverty, and institutional barriers. She rejects the reflex to blame individuals for their suffering. In its place, she describes a model rooted in grace, continuity, and long-term belonging. Rather than offering quick interventions and then pushing people out, Friendship House and Limen are trying to build a longer arc of care where people can remain connected over time, return after programs end, and continue to be known as part of a community.

The conversation moves from systems language into human stories. Kim explains that there is no single “type” of person who becomes unhoused. The common thread is disruption: a family rejection, a job loss, untreated addiction, mental health challenges, rising rent, lack of childcare, or some accumulation of hardship that knocks a person out of stability. She points to shame and isolation as major forces in people’s lives and insists that empathy must come before meaningful action. Compassion, in her telling, is empathy that moves.

A significant portion of the episode focuses on barriers that many housed and privileged people never have to think about. Kim gives a vivid account of how difficult it can be to obtain a birth certificate and a state ID, even though those documents are required for work, housing, and many services. What sounds basic on paper becomes a months-long process, especially for people without a permanent address, money, or full knowledge of their own records. That section gives the episode much of its practical force. It reveals how systems that appear neutral often exclude the very people they claim to serve.

Kim also speaks directly about advocacy. Her counsel is that people should educate themselves deeply before trying to advocate. She warns against shallow certainty and explains that she herself has had to unlearn and relearn, especially around race, privilege, and structural inequality. She names the disproportionate impact of homelessness on people of color in Delaware and speaks candidly about how policy, bureaucracy, and cultural judgment often reinforce exclusion.

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This episode of Design and Religion continues the “Look for the Helpers” series with Cathy Kanefsky, President and CEO of the Food Bank of Delaware. The conversation opens with the larger theme of help itself: what it means to become a helper, how people are shaped by hardship, and why some leaders are drawn into work they never originally planned to do.

Cathy shares her own path into nonprofit leadership through deeply personal experience. She reflects on raising twin sons born extremely premature, later diagnosed with autism, and how that family journey led her into mission-driven work at the March of Dimes, Autism Speaks, Nemours, and eventually the Food Bank of Delaware. She describes this path as something she was led into rather than strategically planned, and that theme gives the episode its emotional center. Her story frames the Food Bank’s work with unusual depth. Hunger is presented as one form of insecurity among many, and Cathy offers a powerful reframing: if you take the word “food” away from “food insecurity,” what remains is the experience of not knowing what tomorrow will bring.

From there, the episode broadens into a strong portrait of what the Food Bank of Delaware actually does. Cathy explains that most people imagine a food bank as a cold warehouse or a simple distribution site. She replaces that image with a fuller picture. The Food Bank still provides immediate food access, yet it also operates workforce and training programs that help people build stability for the future. She describes this structure through the organization’s two-part language: Food for Today and Food for Tomorrow. “Food for Today” includes pantry access, backpack programs, partner agencies, and mobile distributions. “Food for Tomorrow” includes culinary job training, logistics training, and kitchen programs for adults with intellectual disabilities.

The conversation also highlights the Food Bank’s work with adults with intellectual disabilities, including a culinary training pathway designed with a tailored curriculum and employer partnerships. This section becomes even more meaningful when Cathy shares that her own twin sons work at the Food Bank as part of a group of employees with disabilities doing meaningful work with support in place. That personal connection gives this part of the episode a rare honesty. It also reinforces a broader message: many people hold tremendous potential, and what they often need is belief, structure, and a real opportunity.

Another major thread is systems pressure. Cathy explains how federal food support disruptions and changes in donated food patterns have forced the organization to evolve operationally. She describes the loss of expected USDA food shipments, the need to purchase more essential goods directly, and the community response that followed. Rather than centering the organization’s hardship, she centers the families who depend on the Food Bank. This part of the conversation gives the episode real civic weight. Hunger is revealed as a systems issue involving logistics, pu

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This episode centers on Kevin L. Smith’s long vocation of service through Habitat for Humanity of New Castle County and the way his housing work and Christian calling have grown together over time. Kevin describes a formative sense of calling, “be with my people,” which led him through a Mennonite volunteer program to Habitat for Humanity in Fresno and then back home to Delaware, where he has now spent three decades building homes, community, and hope. He also reflects on his more recent ordination as a deacon in the United Methodist Church, explaining that seminary and ordained ministry formalized work he feels he had already been doing for years: connecting the church to the needs of the world and helping congregations live their faith in tangible ways.

A major theme of the conversation is Kevin’s conviction that a home means far more than shelter. He explains that first-time homeownership changes not only the life of a buyer, but the expectations and trajectory of that buyer’s children. Stability, affordability, health, school performance, and the possibility of college or long-term advancement all become more attainable when a family has a stable place to live. He describes homeownership as a launch pad that enables families to live more fully into their potential.

The discussion then broadens from individual families to the housing system in Delaware. Kevin argues that Habitat’s role is larger than building houses. It includes advocacy around the structural causes of the housing crisis, especially zoning rules that block density and keep affordable housing from being built in many suburban areas. He discusses the need for inclusionary zoning, where municipalities require a portion of new market-rate development to be set aside as affordable, and he pushes back against the idea that affordable housing should be confined to Wilmington or other urban cores. Teachers, nurses, caregivers, and service workers live throughout the state and need housing in every kind of community.

The faith dimension runs through the whole conversation. Kevin frames Habitat explicitly as a Christian ministry that puts God’s love into action by building homes, communities, and hope. He sees churches as natural partners, not only through volunteering and fundraising, but increasingly through property stewardship. One striking example is Habitat’s partnership with the New Castle Presbytery to develop 23 housing units on church-owned land in Glasgow. This part of the conversation shows how churches can move from charity alone toward using their assets in structurally meaningful ways.

The episode also clarifies what makes Habitat’s model distinctive. Kevin explains that Habitat is not simply a builder. It also acts as a lender, providing zero-interest mortgages and spending months preparing families through training and sweat equity to support long-term success. He emphasizes that Habitat does not “give away homes” and that the organization serves people who are financially and personally ready for homeownership, while also offering repair programs for existing low-income homeowners, many of them seniors.

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We envision a world where design and religion work together to spread love, empathy, and charity faster than divisiveness, selfishness, and hate. To achieve this, we aim to bring the stories of those driving this change—both big and small—into the spotlight, allowing ideas for positive transformation to spread quickly and reach those who need them most.

Nate is the Head Pastor at Red Clay Creek Presbyterian Church https://rccpc.org/

Van is a Service Designer and Illustrator, and his work can be found at https://www.vansheacreative.com/