The conversation explores the challenges of being present in parenting, emphasizing the importance of embodiment, capacity building, and setting boundaries. It delves into the impact of cultural pressure, parental enjoyment, and the role of environment in fostering presence. The discussion highlights the significance of integrity, energy protection, and collaborative parenting in creating the right conditions for presence.

Charlotte Mindell is a UK-based somatic therapist, writer, and mother who specialises in supporting women—particularly mothers—to reconnect with themselves through body-led healing. Her work focuses on helping mothers move beyond stress, resentment, emotional exhaustion, and inherited patterns by using trauma-informed somatic therapy that works with the nervous system rather than only the thinking mind. Charlotte’s approach is gentle, intuitive, and grounded in helping women feel safer in their bodies so they can parent, relate, and live with greater authenticity. She is also the creator of The Embodied Mother, her signature therapeutic programme designed to support mothers in releasing stored emotional tension, rebuilding self-trust, and experiencing motherhood with more presence and ease.

Website: Charlotte Mindell official website
The Embodied Mother programme: The Embodied Mother programme page
Instagram: @the_embodied_mother on Instagram

Takeaways

• Building capacity for presence is a gradual process
• Setting gentle boundaries to protect energy is vital for sustained presence

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to Finding Flow Parenting
• 06:15 Embodiment and Distraction
• 12:29 Acceptance and Fighting with Oneself
• 18:20 Children's Play and Parental Presence
• 24:10 Integrity, Boundaries, and Energy Protection

Find Our Course HERE https://findingflowparenting.coach/bedtimebattlesolutions

You can find Emma at www.iseethemoon.co.uk and on Instagram at www.instagram.com/iseethemoon_sleep where she shares free, evidence-based info, practical sleep tips and regular Q&As. She offers 1:1 sleep coaching packages and aims to create a calm, safe space for parents to talk through their sleep challenges and feel genuinely heard.
If you’re looking for responsive, developmentally informed sleep support that combines practical tools with a clear understanding of what normal sleep looks like, you can explore ways to work with her on her website. Emma also offers downloadable guides, including freebies on safer bedsharing and navigating nap transitions, as well as the self-paced Bedtime Battles course for parents wanting gentle, practical support around tricky bedtimes.

The conversation delves into the challenges of bedtime routines, the importance of meeting parental needs, shifting perspectives to understand the child's experience, creating space for worries, setting boundaries, empowering children at bedtime, and the Bedtime Battles Solution course.

Takeaways

• Self-care before bedtime routine
• Understanding the child's perspective

Chapters

• 00:00 Understanding Bedtime Challenges
• 07:37 Shifting Perspectives
• 16:07 Setting Boundaries
• 23:43 Empowering Children at Bedtime

The conversation explores behavior management, the illusion of control, nervous system awareness, reframing behavior as a message, quality of connection, impact of the school environment, co-regulation, boundaries, leadership style, personal boundaries, family values, natural authority, and growth experience.

Takeaways

• Reframing behavior as a message
• Importance of natural authority and growth experience

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to Behavior Management
• 06:17 Quality of Connection and Finding the Jewel
• 11:26 Impact of School Environment
• 17:05 Boundaries and Leadership Style
• 22:19 Natural Authority and Growth Experience

Hosted by Conscious Parent Coach Emily Hughes www.findingflowparenting.coach www.instagram.com/findingflowparenting

You can find out more about Kristin and her work as a Parent Coach at www.kristinschmoke.com. You can find her on social media https://www.instagram.com/kristin.schmoke.parenting/ She has a freebie called Love Grows: A three day email connection challenge. You can access it here https://kristinschmoke.myflodesk.com/lovegrows