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When your child begins questioning their identity, it can feel like everything shifts overnight.

You love your child deeply… but you’re also trying to stay rooted in your faith.
And suddenly you’re navigating conversations you never expected to have.

In this episode, I sit down with Debra Ann McNinch to talk about how Christian parents can walk through identity questions with wisdom, love, and truth—without compromising their convictions or losing connection with their child.

We unpack the real tension many families are facing today and offer practical, grounded insight for navigating it well.

Inside this conversation:

• How to respond when your child questions their identity
• What builds trust vs. what quietly damages the relationship
• How to stay connected without compromising your faith
• Navigating fear, confusion, and emotional reactions as a parent
• What it looks like to lead with both truth and love in real life

This is a conversation happening in more homes than people realize—and one many parents are trying to navigate quietly.

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – The moment everything changes
03:45 – The tension Christian parents feel
08:20 – Common missteps parents make
14:10 – What actually strengthens the relationship
20:30 – Responding without fear or panic
27:15 – Staying grounded in your faith
34:40 – Walking this out long-term

RESOURCES:

Connect with Debra: www.battlecrymoms.com

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...and how to heal from them! Their brokenness doesn't have to become yours, but first you must be able to identify if that's where your church hurt and confusion is coming from.

If you’ve ever experienced church hurt, felt confused by leadership, or wondered why something felt “off” but you couldn’t explain it—this conversation will likely put words to what you’ve been sensing.

In this episode, I sit down with world-renown theologian and author Scot McKnight to talk about toxic church culture, narcissistic leadership, and what it actually looks like to build a healthy, Christ-centered church rooted in goodness.

We break down why toxic churches often look healthy on the outside, how power gets misused behind the scenes, and how to recognize the difference between spiritual authority and control.

If you’ve been hurt by church, this episode will help you understand what happened—and begin to move forward with peace, comfort and direction.

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⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

0:00 The truth about church hurt
1:10 Why toxic churches look healthy on the outside
4:30 What “Tov” culture actually means
8:45 How power gets abused in church leadership
14:20 Why you can’t always spot toxicity from the platform
19:10 Narcissistic leaders and why they don’t change
25:30 How Scripture gets misused in toxic environments
31:40 Should you stay or leave a toxic church?
38:20 What healthy church leadership actually looks like
45:00 How to begin healing from church hurt

RESOURCES

Scot's Book: "A Church Called Tov" and "Pivot"

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Does the thought of the End Times make you want to hoard your cash or just ignore your bank account completely? 🫣 You are not alone! Today I’m sitting down with Steve Wohlberg to talk about something we don't hear enough from the pulpit:

Biblical strategies for our finances when the world feels like it's shaking.

We aren't talking about fear-mongering or "doom prepping." We are talking about practical, Kingdom stewardship that brings PEACE. If you’ve ever wondered if investing is "unspiritual" or how to protect your family without losing your trust in God, grab your coffee ☕️—this conversation is going to set you free!

In this episode, I ask Steve:

• Why did you feel the urgency to write a book about money specifically for the End Times right now?
• Is it foolish to invest in a system that might crash, or is it biblical wisdom?
• How do we check our hearts to ensure we are trusting God, not our bank accounts?
• Is tithing still relevant or important for us today, or is it an old testament command only?
• How can we teach our kids about money without passing down a "poverty mindset" or fear?
• And so much more!

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This episode covers biblical finance principles for Christians living in the last days, focusing on how to steward wealth without fear. We discuss the importance of tithing, overcoming the poverty mindset, and biblical investing strategies that align with scripture. Steve Wohlberg shares insights on the Mark of the Beast, the antichrist system, and how believers can prepare their families financially and spiritually. We also touch on the power of giving as spiritual warfare and how to break the spirit of mammon. Whether you are looking for encouragement during economic uncertainty or practical tips for kingdom wealth, this teaching will help you hear God's voice regarding your finances.