I shared how reactivating my Mandarin has put me in an unusual stage of language learning: I am far beyond beginner level, but still rusty enough that real social situations can feel overwhelming. At one language exchange in Taiwan, I quickly realized the setting itself was working against me. A fast-speaking native speaker with a difficult accent and a highly specific conversation about surfing left me completely lost, and I ended up switching tables without getting the Mandarin practice I had hoped for. That experience could easily have convinced me that I was not ready, but I have learned that one difficult situation does not define my actual ability.

Instead of retreating into more study, I chose to test a different environment, and the next language exchange went far better. The conversation topics were more familiar, the native speaker adjusted their speech more clearly, and I was able to participate with much more confidence. For me, the lesson is that when something goes badly in language learning, it is worth asking whether the situation was the wrong fit rather than assuming I failed. Progress often means accepting awkward moments, trying again, and understanding that discomfort is part of eventually reaching more natural fluency

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In this episode, I look back at my first Mandarin project in 2012, which became the most stressful language challenge I had ever faced. I set a public goal of reaching fluency in three months, but the growing attention brought heavy criticism, pressure, and emotional exhaustion. Arriving in Taiwan with no Mandarin also left me isolated, because I could neither rely on English-speaking circles nor easily connect with locals.

That experience changed how I learn languages today: I treat goals as motivation rather than guarantees, protect my energy, and build a foundation before traveling. Even though the project was difficult, I still reached a spoken B1 level and gained lessons that shaped every language project since then.

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In this episode, I look back on the final weeks of my journey through Malaysia and Brunei before starting my new adventure in Taipei. Malaysia turned out to be an incredible experience. Thanks to my background in Indonesian, I could quickly adapt to Malay and chat with locals almost everywhere I went. Travelling from Kuala Lumpur through Penang, Ipoh, Malacca and Johor Bahru, and later across Borneo, I spent most of my time off the typical tourist path, meeting welcoming locals who were curious and delighted to hear my imperfect Malay. At the same time, Malaysia’s strong Chinese cultural influence was impossible to miss. Surrounded by Mandarin speakers and festive Chinese New Year decorations, I felt inspired to refresh my Mandarin and prepare for the next stage of my language journey in Taiwan.

Brunei, which became my 50th visited country, offered a completely different atmosphere. With Ramadan observed very strictly, the country felt quiet and almost mysterious during the daytime, and its higher prices meant I only stayed briefly. Malaysia, by contrast, was remarkably affordable and easy to travel around, with great food, comfortable apartments and friendly people everywhere. Thanks to its British history, English is widely spoken, making it accessible even for travellers who don’t speak the local language. Overall, the trip left me with a fantastic impression. Malaysia is a fascinating mix of cultures and influences, and it’s definitely a place I’d love to return to, especially beautiful spots like Kota Kinabalu with its stunning sunsets and easy access to nature.

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