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Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"

Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"

By: Chris Chandler-Yates
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The Conversations Men don’t normally have! Real conversations men only have with their closest brothers. Around the fire, over a drink, we talk wins, dark times, and everything between. Let's push men to know themselves, build deeper bonds, and lead with purpose.Chris Chandler-Yates Personal Development Personal Success
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  • Conversation #26 – Sean Carey | From Rock Bottom to Rising Up: A Single Dad's Journey
    Mar 28 2026

    In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris sits down with Sean Carey, a single dad, author, speaker, and coach who rebuilt his life from the ground up after losing everything. Sean shares his journey through divorce, addiction, and the devastating loss of his ex-wife to alcoholism. Through it all, he discovered what it really means to take responsibility and reclaim masculine identity.


    Sean breaks down the RISE framework he developed to regain control of his life: Responsibility, Intentionality, Strategy, and Empowerment. This conversation explores why men must lead themselves before they can lead others, how to build sustainable habits starting small, and why vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.

    They dive deep into the importance of authentic masculinity, the dangers of suppressing emotions, and how men can create real change through intrinsic motivation and intentional action. This is a raw, honest conversation about what it takes to rebuild your identity and show up as the man you are meant to be.


    About Sean Carey

    Sean Carey is a single dad, author of "A Single Dad's Comeback," speaker, and coach who helps men reclaim their identity and build resilience. After overcoming personal crisis, addiction, and family loss, Sean developed the RISE framework to guide men toward clarity, purpose, and sustainable growth. Through his coaching and speaking, he empowers men to take responsibility, lead authentically, and create lives of meaning and impact.


    Connect with Sean Carey

    📸 Instagram: @coachseancarey📘 Facebook: coachseancarey✉️ Email: coachseancarey@gmail.com📖 Book: "A Single Dad's Comeback" (available on Amazon)


    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men

    🌐 Website: www.motivatedmasculinemen.com✉️ Email: brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com📱 Social: @MotivatedMasculineMen


    Want to be a guest or know someone who would be great for the show?

    Email us at brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com. We're always looking for men with powerful stories and real conversations to share.

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    What You'll Learn

    • How to rebuild your identity after rock bottom
    • The RISE framework: Responsibility, Intentionality, Strategy, and Empowerment
    • Why men must lead themselves before leading others
    • The difference between intrinsic and external motivation
    • How to build sustainable fitness and life habits starting small
    • Why vulnerability and transparency strengthen masculinity
    • The importance of positive language and mindset in personal growth
    • How to be multidimensional: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health
    • Communication patterns between men and women and the concept of "meadowing"
    • Why living authentically creates the legacy you want to leave


    You cannot pour from an empty cup. You cannot protect and provide for others if you have not first taken responsibility for yourself. This conversation is for the man ready to stop making excuses and start rising up.

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Conversation #25 – Eric Tan | Becoming a Father Later in Life and Stepping Into Manhood
    Mar 21 2026

    In this conversation on Motivated Masculine Men, Chris sits down with Eric Tan for a real conversation about masculinity, relationships, and stepping up as a man when life does not go to plan.

    Eric shares his journey through uncertainty, including being separated from his partner during COVID lockdowns and visa challenges, and how that period forced him to take ownership of who he was becoming as a man. What followed was a shift in how he approached commitment, leadership, and responsibility in his relationship.

    They dive deep into one of the biggest turning points in Eric’s life. Going from never wanting kids to becoming a father in his 40s. He opens up about how that decision changed everything. His mindset, his priorities, and how he now shows up as a husband and a man.

    This is a conversation about growth, adapting to change, and choosing to step into the man you are meant to be.


    Who is Eric

    Eric Tan is a husband and father who has gone through a powerful personal transformation in how he approaches masculinity, relationships, and family. His journey reflects what many men experience but rarely talk about. Navigating uncertainty, stepping into commitment, and redefining what it means to lead in a relationship.


    Connect with Eric

    email : writetoeric@gmail.com

    x account : https://x.com/AlphaLionBrah


    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men

    🌐 Website: www.motivatedmasculinemen.com✉️ Email: brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com📱 Social: @MotivatedMasculineMen

    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help more men find these conversations🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode


    What You’ll Learn

    • How uncertainty can shape you into a stronger man• The impact of COVID separation on relationships and commitment• Why taking ownership is key to masculinity• The shift from avoiding fatherhood to embracing it fully• How becoming a father later in life changes perspective• What it means to lead in a relationship• How men can grow through challenge instead of avoiding it


    Life will test you. The question is whether you avoid it or step up and grow through it. This conversation is for the man who knows he is capable of more and is ready to become it.

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Interview #24 – Denny LaVe - A Blue Collar Man Taking On Washington, Faith Driven and The People First
    Mar 14 2026

    In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris sits down with Idaho Senate candidate Denny LaVe for a powerful and honest conversation about faith, responsibility, and the courage it takes to step forward and serve.


    Denny shares the unlikely path that led him here. From a difficult childhood in Montana, to years living in a French monastery, to building a life as an ironworker, husband, and father. After nearly two decades of prayer and mentorship, he believes he has been called to run for the United States Senate.


    This is not a typical political interview. Chris asks direct and challenging questions about reckless government spending, transparency in military operations, the national debt, and what real leadership should look like. Denny explains why he believes Washington has lost touch with everyday Americans and why a blue collar voice is needed to challenge the system and bring accountability back to government.


    The conversation also dives into masculinity, suffering, mental health, and why men must be willing to carry responsibility even when the cost is high.


    A Bit About Denny

    Denny LaVe is an ironworker, business owner, husband, father, and Republican candidate running for the United States Senate in Idaho. His life journey includes years spent in a French monastery, decades working in the skilled trades, and building a successful ironworking company that he is now preparing to pass on to the next generation.


    Grounded in his Christian faith and a belief in servant leadership, Denny is running to challenge reckless government spending, bring transparency to Washington, and represent the voice of hardworking Americans.


    Connect with Denny

    🌐 Campaign Website: dennyforsenate.com

    📘 Book: Blue-Collar Blessed Book - https://www.amazon.com/Blue-Collar-Blessed-Humble-Life-Idaho/dp/1510785922


    You can learn more about Denny’s campaign, support his run for Senate, and get a copy of his book through his campaign website.


    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men

    🌐 Website: www.motivatedmasculinemen.com

    ✉️ Email: brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com

    📱 Social: @MotivatedMasculineMen

    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help more men find these conversations

    🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode


    What You’ll Learn

    • Why Denny believes he was called to run for the U.S. Senate

    • How a life in the trades shaped his view on leadership and responsibility

    • Why reckless government spending and national debt must be addressed

    • The importance of transparency in military and government systems

    • Lessons from living in a monastery and embracing sacrifice

    • Why suffering and hardship can build stronger men

    • The mental health challenges many men carry silently

    • Why real leadership requires humility, courage, and service


    Real leadership is not about power. It is about responsibility. In a time when many people have lost trust in government, this conversation explores what it means for an ordinary man to step forward and fight for change.

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    1 hr and 26 mins
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