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Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

By: Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater
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Chesko (The Speech Prof) and Regan (F the Nice Guy Podcast) co-host and share social commentary and comedy about some of the worst people on the internet. © 2024 The Speech Prof LLC Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • I Dress You Because I Love You
    Mar 23 2026

    Chesko and Regan kick off with some chaotic parent energy (haunted dolls, goblin accusations, and the recycling bin of shame) before diving into a viral video of a husband handing his wife a shirt to cover herself up. They break down why "he dresses you because he loves you" is a gateway to control, how tradwife influencers sell a lifestyle they don't actually live, and why women thriving after barriers are removed is apparently a crisis. From the manosphere as radicalization pipeline to DEI, legacy admits, and benevolent sexism, it's an episode full of pattern recognition and ranting.

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    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Nice In Private, Insufferable In Public
    Mar 18 2026

    After some fun cold-open chaos to the show (as per usual) Chesko and Regan dove into the main topic: Timothy Chalamet's repeated, dismissive comments about ballet and opera. They unpacked how his remarks aren't just a bad take in isolation, but fit a broader pattern of men seeking masculine credibility by devaluing feminized art forms. The conversation expanded into how Chalamet's whole rebrand feels like a failed attempt to be a hustle-culture alpha while still claiming the identity of a serious artist and drew comparisons to similar falls from grace by Chris Pratt, Zachary Levi, Hugh Jackman, and others. The episode wrapped with some lighter tangents about winking, grumpy resting faces, and anticipation for Michael B. Jordan's performance in Sinners.

    Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):
    https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
    Merch Store:
    https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/

    Follow Us on Social Media:
    https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater
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    Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
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    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • U-S-A...MISO-GY-NY!!!
    Mar 2 2026

    This episode of Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater kicks off with Chesko and Regan in a pre-show debate about whether Chesko's appeal is purely personality-based, before diving into their main topic: the US men's Olympic hockey team's gold medal win being overshadowed by misogynistic locker room behavior, Kash Patel's questionable presence in the celebration, and a Trump phone call that treated the equally-successful women's team as an afterthought. They also touch on other Olympics moments including Alyssa Liu's empowering conditions for returning to figure skating, Eileen Gu's brilliant handling of a dismissive reporter, and a Norwegian athlete's baffling post-medal public confession about cheating on his girlfriend...all framed through Chesko and Regan's mix of utter chaos, personal reflection, and laughs.

    Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):
    https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
    Merch Store:
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    Follow Us on Social Media:
    https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater
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    Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
    TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
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    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

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    1 hr and 7 mins
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These two have the best senses of humor that help when talking about heavy topics without mocking them. They are one of the few podcasts I actively look for the newest episodes each week.

Beautifully Ridiculous Meeting of Minds

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This is the only podcast I listen to. I look forward to each episode

Informative and entertaining

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I love the realism that perfectly encompasses the old world problems in the new age database!.....God I'm so old....

must listen

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I love listening to their podcast. I'm not a huge podcast person generally but I find their content so interesting and it makes me consider interactions on another level. I'll probably subscribe to their Patreon soon.

I love them.

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So originally, I really liked this, I found clips of bad advice Wednesday via TikTok and stuff and ended up finding Mr pick-me and the manhater, when first listening it was great, taking genuine against women content and critique it. Hell yeah! But then I started to notice that they were taking things out of context or overthinking things which in turn is just making people who want to say the right things sound bad(my example of this is the dude who said, treat your girlfriend like a cat, as a psychologist, I can see the message she was trying to send, but yeah, it came off weird when he put it) and then eventually it became bullying other content creators, starting with the cowboy episode, a dude who has a generally good time, maybe the dude doesn’t understand if this is a kink thing and not a relationship thing, but instead they bully the creator of these videos. And by the Backstreet Boys video I had to stop. These are bullying more creators and these creators I watch their stuff. They make fun of each other. That’s their bit.
If they were just critiquing the message, I would understand that but at this point, it’s just being rude to the creators.
Originally 5 stars, but I’d have to pull it to a 2-3 stars with what’s all being said now.
I love the message you’re trying to send out , but if we bully others to send the message, it’s not as effective.

First few episodes, amazing, eventually it just started to sound like bullying other content creators

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