• Do Not Post: How to Set Digital Boundaries with Family & Friends
    Apr 1 2026
    A portion of this episode is sponsored by Proton Mail and their Born Private Campaign, which allows parents to reserve a private email address for their child before they’re even online- offering a way to give children a more protected digital starting point, before tracking and profiling begin. Your kids deserve privacy before the internet decides otherwise. Give them a clean digital start by reserving a Proton Mail email for just $1 at ⁠proton.me/momuncharted ⁠and share this with a friend who needs to hear it. Every child is Born Private, and it should stay that way. How do you tell family and friends not to post your child online without damaging relationships? In this episode of Parents Uncharted, host Sarah Adams breaks down exactly how to have one of the most uncomfortable- but increasingly necessary - conversations in modern parenting: setting a “no posting” boundary for your kids. Whether you’re a new parent, expecting, or rethinking how much you share online in 2026, this episode will help you navigate the reality that your child’s digital footprint starts early- and often without their consent. Sarah gives helpful tips on how to approach family members (especially grandparents), and the exact language you can use to set clear, respectful boundaries. Because this isn’t just about social media anymore- it’s about privacy, data, AI, and your child’s digital identity. Resources Learn more about sharenting and get resources at: https://kidsarenotcontent.com Listen to last week’s episode with Andy from The Secure Dad for a deeper dive into children’s online privacy Learn more about privacy-first tools like Proton and their “Born Private” campaign: proton.me/momuncharted Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted⁠ Chapters (00:00) Introduction: The Growing Concern of Sharing Kids Online (00:05) Why Parents Are Reconsidering Sharing Children's Images (01:45) Common Challenges in Family Conversations About Privacy (02:46) Generational Gaps and Differing Perspectives on Sharing (04:28) The Power of 'I' Statements in Boundary Setting (05:56) Research and Data on Children's Digital Footprint Risks (07:31) Tools and Strategies for Respectful Boundaries (09:17) The Proton Born Private Campaign: A Privacy-First Solution (10:55) The Importance of Proactive Conversations for New Parents (13:03) The Long-Term Impact of Digital Identity and Privacy (14:46) How to Handle Non-Respectful Sharing After Boundaries Are Set (16:25) Resources and Scripts for Navigating Family Discussions (18:10) Changing Norms and Moving Toward Privacy-Conscious Parenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • The Secure Dad: Protecting Children’s Privacy Online
    Mar 25 2026
    This episode is sponsored by Proton Mail and their Born Private Campaign, which allows parents to reserve a private email address for their child before they’re even online- offering a way to give children a more protected digital starting point, before tracking and profiling begin. Your kids deserve privacy before the internet decides otherwise. Give them a clean digital start by reserving a Proton Mail email for just $1 at proton.me/momuncharted and share this with a friend who needs to hear it. Every child is Born Private, and it should stay that way. What does it actually mean to keep our children safe in a digital world- and are we doing enough to protect their right to privacy? In this episode of Parents Uncharted, Sarah sits down with Andy Murphy, also known as The Secure Dad, to break down the realities of raising kids in an increasingly connected world. Together, they explore how children are building digital identities earlier than ever before- often without their knowledge or consent- and why that matters more than many parents realize. From online footprints and data collection to the hidden risks within Big Tech ecosystems, this conversation unpacks how children’s information is tracked, stored, and potentially used over time. Andy helps decode the terms parents hear every day- including VPNs, digital IDs, and data brokers- and explains what they actually mean for families trying to protect their children online. At the heart of this discussion is a bigger question: do children have a right to privacy from the very beginning - and what does it look like to honor that in a digital-first world? If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the pace of technology or unsure how to safeguard your child’s digital life, this episode offers both clarity and practical steps to help you take back control. More About Andy Murphy: Andy Murphy is the founder of The Secure Dad, a platform dedicated to helping parents protect their families in an increasingly complex world. Since 2016, he has equipped thousands of families with practical, real-world strategies for home, digital, and everyday safety. Andy Murphy is also the host of The Secure Family Podcast and author of Home Security: The Secure Dad’s Guide, where he breaks down security into simple, actionable steps parents can confidently implement. Website Instagram Podcast Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted Chapters (00:00) Navigating the Digital Landscape for Parents (05:11) Understanding Digital Identity and Footprints (10:37) The Importance of Digital Privacy and Security (14:33) The Role of Big Tech in Children's Data (18:22) Parental Control and Guidance in the Digital Age (24:10) Key Digital Terms Every Parent Should Know (29:31) Understanding VPNs: A Double-Edged Sword (32:18) Teens and VPNs: Circumventing Restrictions (33:51) Digital IDs and Facial Recognition: A Security Concern (39:15) The Data Broker Industry: What Parents Need to Know (43:16) The Importance of Privacy: Why It Matters (45:36) Protecting Children's Privacy: A Parental Responsibility Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    58 mins
  • Therapist Tessa Stuckey: Mental Health, Screens & Our Sons
    Mar 18 2026
    What are therapists seeing behind closed doors when it comes to boys, screens, and the internet? In this episode of Parents Uncharted, Sarah sits down with licensed therapist, parenting coach, and founder of Project LookUp, Tessa Stuckey, to talk about the growing impact of digital culture on young people’s mental health. Drawing from years of working directly with teens and families, Tessa shares what she began noticing in her therapy practice long before the conversation went mainstream: rising anxiety, depression, and emotional struggles often connected to excessive screen use and the pressures of life online. Together, Sarah and Tessa explore the real influence of social media, AI, and digital culture on child development- including the growing concerns around boys, online pornography, and how algorithm-driven platforms are shaping behavior, expectations, and identity. They also discuss how parents can begin setting healthier digital boundaries at home, have honest conversations about difficult online topics, and help their children build resilience, confidence, and real-world social skills in a screen-saturated world. Your kids deserve privacy before the internet decides otherwise. Give them a clean digital start by reserving a Proton Mail email for them by going to proton.me/momuncharted and share this with a friend who needs to hear it. Every child is Born Private, and it should stay that way. Resources: https://www.tessastuckey.com/ https://www.instagram.com/projectlkup/ https://www.projectlkup.org/ Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • Dr. Carrie Mackensen: The Hidden Impact of Smartphones on Parent-Child Connection
    Mar 11 2026
    How do phones and constant digital distractions affect our relationships with our kids? In this episode of Parents Uncharted, Sarah Adams sits down with Dr. Carrie Mackensen to explore technoference- the interruptions in parent-child interactions caused by smartphones, notifications, and screen use. While these moments can seem small, research shows they may influence children’s emotional development, attachment, and sense of connection with caregivers. Dr. Carrie explains the science behind attention and bonding, including insights from the Still Face Experiment, a well-known study showing how quickly children respond when a caregiver becomes emotionally unavailable. The findings offer a powerful lens for understanding how everyday device distractions can impact developing relationships. We also talk about the pressure many parents feel around screen time and parenting, why guilt isn’t helpful, and practical ways families can create healthier technology habits at home. Finally, we discuss the growing presence of AI in children’s lives and why ongoing conversations about technology between parents and kids are more important than ever. In this episode, we discuss: What technoference is and how phones interrupt parent-child interaction The impact of screen time and digital distraction on child development What the Still Face Experiment reveals about attachment and presence How parents can reduce device interruptions without shame or guilt Why intentional technology habits matter as AI and digital tools become part of childhood If you’re navigating parenting in the digital age, this episode offers research-backed insight and practical strategies to help you stay connected with your kids in a screen-saturated world. More About Dr. Carrie Mackensen: Dr. Carrie Mackensen is a clinical psychologist, parent coach, and founder of Successful Parent. With over 25 years of experience, including Cedars-Sinai Medical Center and Clinical Director of addiction and behavioral treatment programs, she specializes in depth psychology, attachment theory, and interpersonal neurobiology, the science of how relationships shape the developing brain. She serves on ScreenStrong's Medical Advisory Board and is author of the forthcoming Digitally Dysregulated: How Screens Hijack Kids' Brains and What Parents Can Do About It (2026). Most importantly, she's a mom to two boys so she gets it! Resources: Successful Parent Website: https://successfulparent.com Newsletter Signup: https://successfulparent.com/newsletter Instagram Profile: https://instagram.com/successful_parent Upcoming Digitally Dysregulated Book: https://successfulparent.com/digitally-dysregulated Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted (00:00) Introduction to Technoference (05:21) Navigating Screen Time as Parents (10:48) Understanding Technoference (15:51) The Still Face Experiment and Its Implications (25:33) The Long-Term Effects of Screen Time on Development (29:17) Understanding Digital Parenting and Attachment (31:58) Overcoming Parent Guilt in a Digital Age (37:08) Practical Steps for Reducing Screen Time (41:52) Navigating AI and Technology with Kids (52:39) The Importance of Open Communication with Children Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    59 mins
  • Sharenting in 2026: Privacy, Consent, and Your Child’s Digital Footprint
    Mar 4 2026
    In this solo episode, Sarah returns to one of the core pillars of Mom Uncharted, sharenting - the practice of sharing children’s lives online. In 2026, the risks look very different than they did even five years ago. With AI image manipulation, facial recognition, data harvesting, and permanent digital footprints, posting your child online isn’t just about connection - it’s about long-term consequences. Sarah breaks down the three core concerns: Privacy- Children deserve a childhood that isn’t permanently searchable. Informed Consent- Kids cannot meaningfully consent to a lifelong digital record. Digital Safety- From exploitation to identity theft, once content is public, control is lost. This episode isn’t about shame. It’s about awareness and the reminder that it’s never too late to change course. Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted (0:00) What Is Sharenting? (3:20) Why Posting Kids Felt “Normal” (5:00) How Many Parents Share Their Kids? (7:18) The 3 Pillars: Privacy, Consent, Safety (10:00) It’s Not Too Late to Change (11:04) The Internet Is Forever (13:37) Let Kids Own Their Digital Story (15:00) Exploitation, AI & The Dark Side of Virality (17:00) Kids, Cameras & Mental Health (18:30) Identity Theft & Your Child’s Data (20:00) Questions Before You Post Your Kid (22:00) Rethinking What We Share About Kids Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    26 mins
  • Ben Gillenwater: Is Roblox Safe for Kids? What Parents Need to Know
    Feb 25 2026
    In this episode, Ben Gillenwater, known online as the Family IT Guy, breaks down what Roblox actually is and why it presents unique risks for children. He explains the dangers of online chat, user-generated content, and how inappropriate material can still reach young users despite parental controls. Ben also examines Roblox’s business model, including its heavy reliance on in-game purchases, and why that incentive structure matters for families. Together, Sarah and Ben explore the broader child safety concerns surrounding the platform, including ongoing legal scrutiny and the story of a former young player who began exposing predators within the game. They compare Roblox to Minecraft, highlighting key differences in design, safety systems, and parental oversight. The conversation ultimately expands beyond one platform, raising critical questions about privacy, age verification technologies, and the growing pressure to trade biometric data for “safety.” At its core, this episode is a call for parents to stay informed, prioritize privacy, and take an active role in guiding their children through the digital world. More About Ben Gillenwater: Ben Gillenwater is a 30-year cybersecurity expert and dad on a mission to help families navigate the digital world safely. His journey began when I gave his young son an iPad with "kid-safe" apps. Despite his decades of tech experience, he was shocked to discover inappropriate content and saw how the device's addictive design affected his sleep and outdoor activity. Through Family IT Guy Ben, Ben creates videos and articles that help parents and kids learn how to leverage the positive parts of the internet while avoiding the dangerous and risky parts. His approach bridges the knowledge gap between complex technology and practical family protection, making digital safety accessible to everyone. Website: https://www.familyitguy.com/about.html Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/family_it_guy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@family.it.guy Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    51 mins
  • Nicki Petrossi: AI Chatbots and Our Kids’ Mental Health
    Feb 18 2026
    *This episode touches on suicide and self-harm and other dangers related to AI Chatbots. These topics may be difficult for some, listener discretion is advised. Resources below* In this episode, Nicki Petrossi, founder of the Scrolling 2 Death podcast and the Tech Safe Learning Coalition, breaks down the growing impact of AI chatbots and artificial intelligence on children’s mental health and development. From teens turning to AI for emotional support to the risks of isolation, harmful content, and misinformation, we unpack what parents need to understand about tools like ChatGPT and other chatbot platforms. Nicki also explains the major lawsuit against Big Tech companies over their role in youth mental health and child safety, and how whistleblowers have helped expose internal concerns about platform risks. The conversation dives into AI in schools, education technology (EdTech), and the formation of the Tech Safe Learning Coalition- a movement pushing for greater transparency, parental rights, and stronger safeguards in the classroom. If you’re concerned about AI, screen time, teen mental health, or how to advocate for safer technology policies in your child’s school, this episode offers both insight and practical steps to take action. More About Nicki: Nicki Petrossi is a former social media executive turned social media reform advocate. In late 2023, Nicki launched Scrolling 2 Death, a podcast for parents who are worried about social media. It’s a safe space to elevate the human experiences of children online and educate parents on how to keep them safe. In 2025, Nicki launched Tech-Safe Learning Coalition, which supports parents related to issues with school tech, and The Heat is On, an investigative mini-series and parent movement to hold Big Tech accountable for harm to children. Founder & Host, Scrolling 2 Death Podcast Co-Founder, Tech-Safe Learning Coalition Founder, S2D Foundation https://www.scrolling2death.com/ https://www.scrolling2death.com/heat If you or someone you know is struggling, support is available. You are not alone. CANADA: Talk Suicide Canada Call or text 988 (Available 24/7 in English and French) Kids Help Phone (youth & young adults)Call 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868 UNITED STATES: Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text 988 (Available 24/7) Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 If you are outside Canada or the U.S., please check your local health services for crisis support in your region. Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted Chapters (00:00) Introduction to Nikki Petrossi and Scrolling to Death (01:57) The Impact of AI on Children (06:00) The Dangers of AI Chatbots (10:00) The Role of Technology in Education (13:58) Tech Safe Learning Coalition and Parental Rights (18:02) Advocating for Change in Schools (22:18) The Landmark Lawsuit Against Big Tech (25:49) The Role of Whistleblowers in Accountability (31:24) Navigating Mental Health in Advocacy (35:52) Empowering Parents to Take Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    42 mins
  • Dr. Alison Yeung: The Smartphone Effect on Kids
    Feb 11 2026
    In this episode of Parents Uncharted, host Sarah Adams sits down with Dr. Alison Yeung, widely known as The Smartphone Effect MD, to unpack one of modern parenting’s biggest challenges: the impact of smartphones and social media on children’s mental health. Together, they cut through the noise of polarized tech debates and explore what the research actually shows. Dr. Yeung explains why children’s mental health is complex and multifactorial, why “screens aren’t the problem” is an oversimplification, and how excessive screen time can affect motivation, focus, and emotional regulation- especially for vulnerable groups like kids with ADHD. This conversation offers practical, preventative guidance for parents and educators, emphasizing digital literacy, healthy boundaries, and the power of modeling balanced tech habits at home. More About Dr. Alison Yeung, MD, CCFP: Dr. Alison Yeung graduated from the University of Waterloo with an Honours Bachelor of Science in Biomedical Sciences, followed by medical training at the University of Ottawa and a Family Medicine residency at Western University. She has practiced as a community family physician in Kitchener since 2014, caring for over 1,200 patients with dedication and compassion. Her clinical focus and passion lie in child and adolescent mental health. As both a family physician and a mother of two, Dr. Yeung has witnessed firsthand how digital technology shapes the lives of young people—offering connection and creative expression, but also profound risks. Over the past decade, she has cared for youth navigating rising rates of anxiety, depression, eating disorders, and self-harm, often accompanied by feelings of loneliness, disconnection, and loss of purpose. Recognizing that these challenges are complex and multifactorial, Dr. Yeung has become particularly concerned with the growing role of social media and screen time in children’s daily lives. Today, tweens spend an average of 5–6 hours a day on digital entertainment, and teens 6–8 hours—time that displaces sleep, outdoor play, physical activity, and in-person connection. Since 2023, Dr. Yeung has been speaking to parents, educators, policymakers, and healthcare professionals about the impact of screens and social media on child development and mental health. Her mission is to empower families with knowledge, inspire change, and advocate for a healthier digital future for children. https://www.instagram.com/thesmartphoneeffectmd https://thesmartphoneeffectmd.substack.com/ https://linktr.ee/thesmartphoneeffectmd Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠ Follow The Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    42 mins