Episodes

  • Professional Babysitter: Confessions of a Reality TV Producer

    Professional Babysitter: Confessions of a Reality TV Producer
    Feb 28 2026
    Episode 178. In this episode, Kristen is joined by one of her favorite producers — Emmy Award–winning showrunner Lyndsey Burr — the powerhouse behind Queer Eye, former producer on Vanderpump Rules, and a longtime reality TV insider whose career spans from production assistant to talent supervisor to showrunner. Before the Emmys and showrunning credits, Lyndsey worked as a self-described “professional babysitter” on America's Next Top Model, where she started as a production assistant and rose to talent supervisor. Plus — yes — we get into the iconic “we were rooting for you” moment and her firsthand take from being there. Kristen and Lyndsey revisit their time on VPR and unpack the delicate balance between producing great television and protecting real human emotions. The conversation also dives into her work on Queer Eye — from the casting process and the most emotionally difficult episode to shoot this past season, to why the beloved series is coming to an end. If you’ve ever wondered what happens when the cameras stop rolling… this episode is for you. Sponsors: For a limited time, our listeners get 15% off at Arey by using code KRISTEN at Arey.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Are We Healing or Enabling?! with Zack Wickham

    Are We Healing or Enabling?! with Zack Wickham
    Feb 14 2026
    Episode 177. This week on Balancing Act, Kristen is joined by bestie, Zack Wickham, to talk all about their friendship — and what you don’t see on The Valley. They share how they met, their first impressions, the early VPR days, and how their bond grew behind the scenes. Zack opens up about moving to LA and finding his chosen family, while Kristen reveals her favorite things about him. They also talk skincare secrets, surprising fun facts, and clear up misconceptions about their friendship. Plus, listener questions and a rapid-fire round to wrap it all up. Sponsors: Arey: For a limited time, our listeners get 15% off at Arey by using code KRISTEN at Arey.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 19 mins
  • Getting to Know Lacy Nicole

    Getting to Know Lacy Nicole
    Jan 26 2026
    Episode 176. In this episode, Kristen is joined by Lacy Nicole—mental health advocate, philanthropist, podcast host, and founder of the Shame to Sparkle Foundation. Lacy opens up about her story as a survivor of childhood trauma, including a kidnapping, and shares how those early experiences shaped her relationship with shame, emotional regulation, and self-worth—and how they ultimately led her to create a platform dedicated to helping women heal from trauma and PTSD. Kristen and Lacy dive into powerful conversations around: • Living with and healing from shame and trauma • How generational pain is passed down—and how to stop the cycle • Healing as a parent while re-parenting your inner child • ADHD, emotional regulation, and mental health awareness • The pros and cons of opening your life up to reality TV • Why Kristen chose to give Jesse another chance—and what growth really looks like This episode is raw, compassionate, and empowering—a reminder that even the heaviest shame can be alchemized into strength, connection, and sparkle. ✨ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    56 mins
  • Road Trips, Resolutions & Remembering Jill

    Road Trips, Resolutions & Remembering Jill
    Jan 9 2026
    Episode 175. This week, Kristen and Luke ring in the new year with a heartfelt and emotional update as they share the sad news of losing their beloved pet, Jill. They open up about Jill’s emergency surgery, her cancer diagnosis, and the last-minute road trip to Colorado so she could spend her final days in her favorite place. They reflect on Jill’s last week, how they spent Christmas, and what that road trip meant to their family during such a tender time. They also talk about what they’re leaving behind in 2025, their New Year’s resolutions, and the small joys that are helping them move forward. The episode also includes lighter moments—when to finally take down Christmas decorations, excitement for "The Valley: Persian Style", and updates on life with baby Kaia, including sleep training wins (and struggles). Kristen shares gratitude for her mom friends and the support she’s received, while Luke reveals the baby products he truly can’t live without. A meaningful, honest start to the new year filled with love, loss, and gratitude. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    49 mins
  • Flashback to Lindsay Hubbard Tells All

    Flashback to Lindsay Hubbard Tells All
    Dec 20 2025
    Episode 174. This week on the pod, Kristen is joined by none other than Lindsay Hubbard from Summer House! Lindsay gets real and raw about life after baby—from the major identity shift to her big "aha" moment. She opens up about co-parenting, body image struggles, and whether baby #2 could be in her future. Lindsay also spills the tea on if she is dating, breakups, and that explosive moment that took place before what was supposed to be her wedding day. Plus: - Where Lindsay stands with her ex(s) now - Her response to a very recent Summer House castmate’s interview - Could a friendship be on the table? Also, Kristen talks about where she and Luke are thinking about moving and potential locations for their wedding! Tune in for all the details and so much more! Sponsors: Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code DOUTE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Brittany Cartwright's Christmas Confessions

    Brittany Cartwright's Christmas Confessions
    Dec 12 2025
    Episode 173. This week, Kristen opens the episode with an emotional update on everything going on with Luke’s dog, Jill, and why she was rushed into emergency surgery. She’s then joined by Brittany Cartwright for a fun and festive conversation. The two dive into: • What it really takes to make a TikTok • Holiday season chaos and decoration styles • The big question: when do you tell your kids Santa isn’t real—and when did they figure it out? • Brittany’s Christmas traditions with Cruz • How to juggle holiday travel with family—do you switch off years or split the time? They wrap up with a candid Q&A, answering: • What was harder to film: Vanderpump Rules or The Valley? • What’s the most unhinged thought Brittany has ever had? • And a myth-busting moment: one thing people always assume about Kristen and Brittany’s relationship that’s totally wrong. Sponsors: Magnetic Me: New customers get 15% off your first order when you go to MagneticMe.com Caraway: Visit Carawayhome.com/DOUTE for 10% off your next purchase. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    50 mins
  • Babies, Boobs & Besties for 21 Years: A Kristen + Kelly AMA

    Babies, Boobs & Besties for 21 Years: A Kristen + Kelly AMA
    Nov 30 2025
    ⚠️ Trigger Warning: discussion of pregnancy loss Episode 172. This week, Kristen is joined by one of her ride-or-dies of 21 years, the fabulous Kelly Bores—visiting from Charleston, SC—for an episode packed with nostalgia, motherhood realness, questionable 2000’s fashion choices, and a dash of Golden Girls energy. Kristen and Kelly dive into Kaia’s very first Christmas, reflect on the magic (and exhaustion) of newborn life, and laugh their way through the evolution of… well, everything: - Their first tattoos (including the return of the tramp stamp??) - Boobs before and after baby - The “Raise Your Glass” VPR special—and a never-before-seen clip of Kristen she legit does not remember filming They get honest about: - How friendships shift after kids - How pregnancy and postpartum surprised them - How their relationship dynamics have changed since giving birth - Body image—especially why it’s important not to speak negatively about yourself around your kids - What Kristen actually moved to LA to pursue (and how old she was!) Plus: 🦃 Thanksgiving at Brittany’s 🍼 Must-haves for the newborn trenches ❓ A juicy Ask Me Anything This one’s cozy, candid, a little chaotic, and full of heart—like any great catch-up between best friends of two decades. Grab a coffee (or a mocktail) and join us! Sponsors: Caraway: Visit Carawayhome.com/DOUTE for 10% off your next purchase. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 24 mins
  • Chaos in Vegas: Our Unfiltered BravoCon Tell-All

    Chaos in Vegas: Our Unfiltered BravoCon Tell-All
    Nov 22 2025
    Episode 171. This week, Kristen and Luke are joined by Zack Wickham for a full BravoCon breakdown—complete with lost voices, wild encounters, and all the behind-the-scenes tea. The trio dives into their chaotic (and hilarious) Las Vegas experience, from long lines and unforgettable fans to the sweet moments that had Kristen emotional, especially navigating the weekend postpartum. Luke admits he may have had one too many, and also shares his surprising encounter with Denise Richards that made him realize… he’s famous! Meanwhile, Zack reveals who he ended up giving a lap dance to. They’re also sharing their favorite moments, heartwarming stories from fans they met, and the unexpected run-ins—including one with Kathy Hilton—that left Kristen completely speechless. Sponsors: Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code DOUTE. Jones Road: For a limited time our listeners are getting a free Cool Gloss on their first purchase when they use code DOUTE at checkout. Just head to jonesroadbeauty.com and use code DOUTE at checkout. Rula: Visit Rula.com/DOUTE to get started. Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    53 mins