Episodes

  • Peeing on the Trampoline - Learning in Progress
    Mar 23 2026
    A little bit of everything in this one in the best way. In this episode of Still Choosing You, we’re sharing what we’re learning lately. From 3D printing and “vibe coding” to navigating roles at home and making space for more fun in the middle of real life. It’s honest, a little chaotic, and full of laughs… including a very important discussion about trampoline mishaps and the ongoing debate over toilet lids.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    35 mins
  • Some Lighthearted Fun Questions
    Mar 16 2026
    This week, we kept things light and fun by asking each other a series of random questions about our marriage. From dumb arguments that still make us laugh to the small things that actually make our relationship better, this episode is full of stories, reflections, and plenty of laughs. It’s a simple, honest conversation about what it looks like to grow up together, raise a family, and keep laughing through it all.

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    45 mins
  • What Waiting Is Teaching Us Right Now
    Mar 9 2026
    This week we talk about patience… or in Thomas’s case, the lack of it. Between the job search and everyday life, we’ve been learning what patience actually looks like in real time. It’s not always graceful, and it’s definitely not something we’ve mastered. But along the way we found ourselves making a few unexpected discoveries about trust, timing, and what it means to keep choosing each other while life unfolds.

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    41 mins
  • How We Stay Present Despite Challenges
    Mar 2 2026

    In this episode, we talk about staying present. And not because we’ve mastered it, but because it matters more to us than ever.


    We share a few quotes that have grounded us, how our perspective has shifted over the years, and simple ways we’re learning to slow down and truly be here with our kids, with each other, and with God.


    We’re not perfect at it. Just practicing.

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    40 mins
  • What is Strength
    Feb 23 2026
    What if strength isn’t what we thought it was? After a quick Olympic chat, we share how our view of strength has shifted over the years. How weakness can sit right next to it, and how real strength often looks like borrowing the Lord’s and letting others carry you when you can’t carry yourself.

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    35 mins
  • Climbing Stairs & Finding Empathy
    Feb 16 2026

    This week on Still Choosing You, we talk about something we’ve lived but didn’t fully understand until we said it out loud:


    Two opposite emotions can exist at the same time.


    We share the story of Alyssa climbing the stairs after nearly losing her life, feeling overwhelming joy… and deep grief. Grateful to be alive. Heartbroken that walking up stairs felt like a victory.


    We unpack what it means to hold both.


    We also explore the difference between empathy and sympathy, and why it matters in marriage, healing, and everyday life.


    This one is honest. Unfiltered. Processed in real time.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    44 mins
  • Our Relationships & How We Nurture Them
    Feb 9 2026

    In this episode, we’re talking all about relationships at home.


    Our marriage, our kids, and the intentional choices we’re making to stay connected in the middle of busy family life.


    We share why we’re recommitting to dating each other, what that actually looks like right now, and how we’re also carving out individual date time with each of our kids each month. Not to be perfect parents. Just present ones.


    If you’ve ever felt like life moves fast and relationships get the leftovers, this conversation is for you. Simple rhythms, honest reflections, and a reminder that connection doesn’t have to be complicated. It just has to be intentional.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    39 mins
  • Faith in the Middle
    Feb 2 2026
    What does faith look like when prayers feel unanswered and heaven feels quiet? In this episode, we talk about having faith in the middle—the space between pain and promise, waiting and hope. We share what it’s looked like for us to keep trusting God during hard seasons, even when clarity hasn’t come and answers feel delayed. This isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about choosing faith in the middle of the unknown.

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    32 mins