In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine explain how unrealistic, unspoken, and rigid personal expectations damage marriages by creating resentment, causing constant disappointment, and promoting impossible standards for a partner to meet. When individuals expect their spouse to be perfect or fulfill all their needs, it leads to conflict and hides the relationship's strength.

Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.

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In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine unpack the idea of selfishness in marriage. Selfishness has an underlying issue, and trying to understand the root cause can provide a different perspective and a positive way forward to a healthy marriage.

Just 5 minutes. One meaningful perspective shift. A better, stronger marriage.

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The greatest enemy to marriages is selfishness. Every couple at some point in their marriage will experience some form of selfishness. In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast Monty & Jeannine ask a question every spouse has asked - "Why is my spouse so selfish?" Every couple encounters it at some point, and when it shows up, it can quietly erode connection, trust, and intimacy.

Monty and Jeannine unpack three common root causes of selfishness in marriage:

1. Distorted expectations – when our assumptions about marriage don’t match reality.

2. Hidden resentment – when unresolved hurt begins shaping our behavior.

3. Parental modeling – when the patterns we witnessed growing up influence how we treat our spouse.

But the conversation doesn’t stop with the problem. They also share the powerful antidote to selfishness: Agape love—the kind of selfless, sacrificial love that strengthens marriages and reflects God’s design.

If selfishness has ever crept into your relationship (and it has for all of us), this episode will give you practical insight and biblical encouragement to help you move from self-centered living to Christ-centered loving.

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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026.

"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://podcast.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/

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In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine sit down with Jeff Anderson to talk about the importance of returning to God’s original design for marriage. In a culture with many competing ideas about relationships, they discuss why rediscovering the Biblical foundation for marriage can bring strength, clarity, and lasting love.

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“There can be no intimacy—emotional intimacy, spiritual intimacy, physical intimacy—without vulnerability.” - Brene Brown.

In this 5-Minute Friday, we share a Marriage Motivation on the topic of being vulnerable. Vulnerability is one of the most strongest qualities in marriage. When a couple leans into the practice of being vulnerable, they will discover a lasting intimacy - emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. Vulnerability is not weakness, it's a strength. Vulnerability is scary and often takes a "shaky courage" to show up for your spouse and let them see you for who you really are.

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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026.

"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://podcast.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/

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In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast Monty & Jeannine were guests on Crosswalk Colorado Springs radio show (100.7 Way FM) with Jeff Anderson. In light of National Marriage Week, they discussed how to avoid two pitfalls in marriage.

1. The Performance Trap

2. The Comparison Trap

If you’re ready to stop guessing and start building a loving marriage, this episode is just for you.

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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026.

"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://podcast.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/

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In this 5-Minute Friday episode, Monty and Jeannine unpack two essential date nights every couple should intentionally build into their marriage. First, the Fun Date—a time to laugh, play, and simply enjoy being together again. Then, the Romantic Date—a more intentional space to rekindle passion, deepen emotional connection, and nurture physical intimacy.

If your marriage has slipped into routine mode, this quick conversation will give you practical clarity on how both types of dates work together to keep love vibrant, playful, and deeply connected.

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In this episode of The Favorite Marriage Podcast Monty & Jeannine were guests on Crosswalk Colorado Springs radio show (100.7 Way FM) with Jeff Anderson. They share creative ways how couples can make Valentine's Day even better. They invite couples to the 3 Date Night Challenges:

1. The Fun Date

2. The Romantic Date

3. The Communication Date

If you’re ready to stop guessing and start building a loving marriage and exciting date night ideas, this episode is just for you.

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Recent Recognition: The Favorite Marriage podcast was recognized as one of the Top 20 Marriage Podcasts to follow in 2026.

"I would like to personally congratulate you as your podcast, The Favorite Marriage has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 35 Marriage Podcasts on the web." - Anuj Agarwal Founder of Feedspot. https://podcast.feedspot.com/marriage_podcasts/

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