A very belated 2025 wrap up episode (we recorded for over four hours back in December LOL so this is part one....) in which we discuss:

• Lesbian Feminist Book Club: https://www.instagram.com/lesbianfeministbookclub/
• mindfulness meditation and letting ourselves be bored
• being anti-overconsumption and anti-internet and social media
• PHYSICAL MEDIA!!!!!
• Scorched Earth: Beyond the Digital Age to a Post-Capitalist World by Jonathan Crary
• All Our Trials: Prisons, Policing, and the Feminist Fight to End Violence by Emily L. Thuma
• A Brick and Bible: Black Women's Radical Activism in the Midwest During the Great Depression by Melissa Ford
• When Driving Is Not An Option: Steering Away from Car Dependency by Anna Letitia Zivarts
• Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
• Imperfect Victims: Criminalized Survivors and the Promise of Abolition Feminism by Leigh Goodmark
• Perfect Victims: and the Politics of Appeal by Mohammed el-Kurd
• Kwaneta Harris: https://www.instagram.com/kwanetaharris/
• Ra'jiva Tha Rulaa: https://www.youtube.com/@rajiva_tharulaa
• The Body Keeps the Score Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk

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Are white queers entitled about their history and culture? Can femmes be nonbinary? And other pressing questions that our listeners, patrons, and substack subscribers have submitted to us... (Email us your hot takes at thelavendermenacepodcast@gmail.com!!!)

Queer history is so so so important and most gay people do not know enough of it! The Persistent Desire: A Femme-Butch Reader edited by Joan Nestle is one of the most important lesbian history books ever BTW, especially for femmes and butches.

Silvia Federici's 2004 book Caliban & the Witch: Women, the Body and Primitive Accumulation is a book all feminists, Marxists, and Marxist feminists need to read. The politics of magic, the witch hunts, and the relationship between European colonialism and the dispossession of women and workers are some of the topics this book thoroughly explores. We cannot recommend it enough.

Check out Sunny's recommendation of Sophie Lewis's books (Abolish the Family, Full Surrogacy Now, & Enemy Feminism) and Sunny's interview with Sophie, and Renaissance's Letterboxd and their recommendation of the documentary Feminism Inshallah: A History of Arab Feminism.

Disclaimer: we recorded this episode back in the spring.

This episode includes discussion of: “butch-femme” aesthetic photos, our problem with Pinterest, internet personas and the importance of being earnest (and also genuine!) Also: the importance of female singer-songwriters and how CINEMA IS BACK which might be a recession/fascism indicator...

In discussing the the racial and historical background of Sinners (2025), we examine the portrayal of truth and legacy in this surprisingly good blockbuster movie. From lynching to sharecropping, the frankness with which Ryan Coogler portrays 1932 Mississippi was incredibly moving.

Our recommendations: https://www.solidaritycinema.com/ and The Wedding by Dorothy West.

01:04:04 — when we start talking about Sinners

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