We’re wrapping up Heir with one last episode -and this one goes straight into the feels. 💙 Join us (and returning guest Dr. Brandi Liles!) as we unpack the heartbreak, healing, and very real psychology behind Quil and Sufiyan’s journeys through loss and complicated grief.

From the chaos of the “Sea of Suffering” (obvi we have our themed cocktail 🍹) to the complexities of trauma, grief, and guilt. We explore what happens when loss isn’t just painful, it’s also just so complicated. We chat about avoidance, coping mechanisms, shame, sadness and loss. Also, how do love, memory, and connection help us move forward even when it hurts?

Come for the thoughtful insights, a few laughs (I mean-surprise-surprise we are talking about death again), a spilled drink (literally), and a powerful reminder: grief exists because love does, and feeling it might just be the bravest thing we can do.

✨ Come for the fantasy, stay for the psychology, and leave with a deeper understanding of what it means to be human.

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In our latest episode of The Nerdy Psychologist Book Club, hosts Brandi Hawk and Deanna Boys are joined by fellow psychologist Dr. Brandi Liles to talk more about the rich and twisty world of Heir by Sabaa Tahir. With humor, honesty, and a fun themed cocktail (Blood Oath!), and our trio breaks down the psychology behind their favorite characters from the book.

We get real nerdy this time with our favorite-Sirsha-with her fierce attitude and guarded heart-we just love her. Her story is one of rejection and a ton of invalidation from her family and community.

Blending real-world clinical insight with fantasy storytelling, this episode breaks down concepts like emotional validation, shame, and behavioral change in a way that’s both relatable and thought-provoking. The hosts also share practical takeaways on how to navigate invalidating environments, build self-compassion, and find your people.

This episode is one that’s equal parts book club, therapy-adjacent reflection, and nerdy fun.

✨ Whether you’re here for the fantasy, the psychology, or the character drama, you’ll leave seeing both the story and yourself a little differently.

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Original Music-Editing: Deanna Boys, M.A.

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What really makes someone a villain? Is it ignorance, manipulation, or the moment we knowingly choose the wrong path?

In this episode of The Nerdy Psychologist Book Club, hosts Brandi Hawk and Deanna Boys continue their discussion about Heir by Sabaa Tahir and tackle one of the book’s most fascinating and frustrating characters: Aiz.

With their signature mix of humor, psychology, and bookish enthusiasm (plus a spicy margarita-style drink called “Tragic Consequences”), Brandi and Deanna talk about the psychological forces behind Aiz’s transformation (Brandi says Aiz was a hero....Deanna is not so sure). They break down concepts like belief perseverance, confirmation bias, and ego defense to explain how people can cling to beliefs, even when the evidence clearly shows they’re wrong.

Listen or watch along to hear some deep thoughts, fun book club banter, memorable quotes from the novel, and real-life reflections about how these same mental patterns show up in everyday relationships, belief systems, and even the way we consume information online.

Grab your drink, bring your curiosity, and get ready for a lively book club conversation with your favorite nerdy psychologists.

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This month we are starting a brand-new Nerdy Psych book club pick! We are picking apart and diving real deep into Heir by Sabaa Tahir.

Set roughly 20 years after the Ember in the Ashes series, Heir follows three unforgettable characters:

Aiz, an orphan forged by the brutality of the slums and fueled by vengeance.

Sirsha, a sharp-tongued tracker bound by blood oath and battling her own complicated legacy.

Quil, the reluctant crown prince who fears inheriting not just a throne, but the corruption that comes with it.

With our themed cocktail called Desire & Sacrifice in hand, we explore what it really means to be an heir. Is it just about crowns and kingdoms—or is it about the expectations, belief systems, and family pressures we all inherit?

If you love: ✨ Big, immersive fantasy worlds ✨ Morally complex characters ✨ Psychology meets YA/adult fantasy

then this episode is your perfect entry into our Nerdy Psychologist Book Club!

Grab your copy of Heir, brace yourself for spoilers, and get ready to question what you’ve inherited… and what you’re willing to become.

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The Nerdy Psychologist Book Club is produced by Brandi Hawk, Ph.D. and Deanna Boys, M.A.

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Original Animation-Sounds-Bartender/Mixologist: Lee Klemens

Original Music-Editing: Deanna Boys, M.A.

What if everything you believed about peace… was just really good marketing?

In this episode of Nerdy Psychologist Book Club, we finish up our discussion Sunrise on the Reaping by Suzanne Collins with our fun themed cocktail in hand, and dive into the psychology of propaganda and the illusory truth effect. With “Peacekeepers” who definitely do not keep peace, and Panem residents being fed the consistent message of “No Hunger Games, No Peace,” we talk about why the more you hear something, the more you believe it (even when you know it’s false).

We unpack:

• How repetition turns lies into “truth”
• Why Haymitch never really had a chance to not let them "paint his poster"
• How edited reality, yes, even like House Hunters, shapes what we accept as fact
• And why “implicit submission” might be the Capitol’s most effective weapon

It’s dystopia. It’s trauma psychology. It’s Broadway references with a bit of cognitive dissonance and a side of mimosas.

Cheers. 🥂

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The Nerdy Psychologist Book Club is produced by Brandi Hawk, Ph.D. and Deanna Boys, M.A.

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Original Animation-Sounds-Bartender/Mixologist: Lee Klemens

Original Music-Editing: Deanna Boys, M.A.

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It can be difficult to understand a character like Effie. How can she keep working for the Games despite all she knows? The answer is she's just like us, and we all struggle with cognitive dissonance. Join Brandi Hawk and Deanna Boys as they explore how cognitive dissonance shapes our beliefs and our behaviors through Effie Trinkett and what that means for us in real life. OH! And also find out why Deanna had nightmares reading this book!

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The Nerdy Psychologist Book Club is produced by Brandi Hawk, Ph.D. and Deanna Boys, M.A.

Photography-Lighting-Audio Mixer: Matthew Kadi

Original Animation-Sounds-Bartender/Mixologist: Lee Klemens

Original Music-Editing: Deanna Boys, M.A.

We might not be in a relationship with President Snow, but many unhealthy relationships share some of the same power and control dynamics he uses with Haymitch. Join Brandi Hawk, Deanna Boys and special guest Dr. Brandi Liles as they dive deeper into the world of Sunrise on the Reaping to explore the creepy power dynamics used by President Snow on all of the citizens of Panem.

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Special Guest: Brandi Liles, Ph.D.

Photography-Lighting-Audio Mixer: Matthew Kadi

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Our first book is Sunrise on the Reaping by Suzanne Collins, and in our first episode, we discuss the many ways Haymitch responds to traumatic events. Join Brandi Hawk and Deanna Boys and their special guest, Dr. Brandi Liles as they talk about fight, flight, freeze, appease and tend and befriend and how it comes up in the character of Haymitch.

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The Nerdy Psychologist Book Club is produced by Brandi Hawk, Ph.D. and Deanna Boys, M.A.

Special Guest: Brandi Liles, Ph.D.

Photography-Lighting-Audio Mixer: Matthew Kadi

Original Animation-Sounds-Bartender/Mixologist: Lee Klemens

Original Music-Editing: Deanna Boys, M.A.

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