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The Powerful Man Show

The Powerful Man Show

By: Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information. Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • Establishing Firm Boundaries: Transforming Relationships from Friction to Fulfillment [Revisit]

    Establishing Firm Boundaries: Transforming Relationships from Friction to Fulfillment [Revisit]
    Mar 24 2026
    Episode #1113 Most men struggle to set boundaries because they fear the friction it might cause in their marriage. They mistake being a "Mr. Nice Guy" for being a good husband, but as Coach Chris and Doug Holt discuss, there is nothing unsexier to a woman than a man who acts like a doormat . When you allow your wife to speak to you disrespectfully or violate your financial agreements without consequences, you aren't being "patient" you are training her to lose respect for you . Real boundaries are immovable and firm; when they are malleable, they create confusion and a total lack of trust in your leadership . In this episode, you will learn the critical difference between a boundary and an agreement . While agreements can be negotiated through dialogue, a boundary is a line in the sand like infidelity or character assassination that you are willing to "die on a hill" for . Doug and Chris share how to stop seeking external validation from your wife and instead build the self-love and grounded masculinity required to hold your ground . You'll hear real-world examples of how setting a firm boundary can actually lead to deep emotional surrender and safety for your wife, even if the initial conversation feels uncomfortable . Setting boundaries isn't about control or threats; it's about sharing your experience in a way that no one can deny . By using "Dad energy" calm, firm, and loving you can communicate your needs without triggering a defensive war . If you are ready to stop being gaslit or emotionally manipulated and want to start showing up as the leader your family is waiting for, this episode provides the step-by-step roadmap to reclaiming your respect and your marriage . If you've realized that you've trained the people in your life to treat you poorly and you're ready to start on your "side of the street," we have a proven methodology to help you lead. Stop toiling with the same arguments and learn how to bring back the love and admiration that's been missing. You can access our free video training to see exactly where your relationship stands by visiting https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales .
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    29 mins
  • Building a Legacy: A Journey of Self-Discovery

    Building a Legacy: A Journey of Self-Discovery
    Mar 21 2026
    Episode #1112 The most common phrase heard from men after a transformational experience isn't about the breakthrough itself it's "I wish I would have done this sooner" . In this episode, Doug Holt is joined by Coach Steve to discuss the profound impact of legacy, brotherhood, and the "energy" a man carries into his home . Whether it is anxiety, anger, or fear, the people around you—especially your wife and children feel the frequency you are operating on long before you speak a word . Steve shares insights from a recent Alpha Reset where men from across the globe arrived in confusion and left with a grounded sense of self that their families could feel through the phone . You will learn why trying to be "perfect" is actually a barrier to connection and how finding the "man in the mirror" changes the way you lead your business and your household . The conversation dives into the power of multi-generational healing, featuring stories of fathers bringing their adult sons and sons inviting their 74-year-old fathers to walk the path of self-discovery alongside them . These men aren't broken; they are simply refinding the version of themselves they were always destined to be . This episode is a direct call to action for the man who has been sitting on the sidelines, waiting for "the right time" to address the distance in his marriage or the lack of vision in his life . From grassroots movements in local communities to executive teams using these frameworks to find a flow state in business, the message is clear: the world's your oyster, but you have to stop waiting for permission to lead . If you recognize that the energy in your home has shifted toward tension or silence, don't wait another six months to see if it fixes itself . We have created a free training that identifies exactly where the gaps are in your marriage and provides a step-by-step methodology to bring back the respect and admiration you once had . Take the first step toward becoming the lighthouse your family needs by visiting https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales .
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    39 mins
  • Leading by Example: Transforming Relationships from the Inside Out

    Leading by Example: Transforming Relationships from the Inside Out
    Mar 19 2026

    Episode #1111

    Most men believe that to fix their marriage, they need to fix their wife. Peter shares his journey from a breaking point where he hated his life, his job, and his home environment to becoming the leader his family actually wanted to follow. The transformation didn't happen by talking about his feelings or over-analyzing the past. It happened through a commitment to personal leadership and taking massive action.

    Peter discusses the "weekly inventory" he uses with his wife and how he helped his son through a mental health crisis by being a grounded father. He explains how his wife went from not feeling emotionally safe for 22 years to dancing alongside him in the Nutcracker, all because he stopped waiting for her to change and started leading by example.

    If you feel like you are checking all the boxes providing for the family and building the empire but you still come home to a house full of masks and surface-level conversations, this episode is a roadmap . You will hear how a man can regain his "mojo" and energy while using his wisdom to create a home base that is actually worth shipping off from every morning. Peter's story is proof that you don't have to do this alone and that there is a version of your life waiting on the other side of your own excuses.

    If you recognize yourself in Peter's story and realize that the way you've been "handling" things at home isn't working, it's time to stop the guesswork. We have developed a specific training to help you understand where the gaps are in your leadership and how to bridge them without the typical therapy jargon or endless talking. You can access the training and see exactly where your marriage stands by visiting https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales .
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    32 mins
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Tim and Doug are extremely entertaining. They have amazing insights in how to perform better in many facets of your life, starting with work on self. Highly recommended if you're a male business leader who finds other things in your life (like your relationship with your wife or significant other) falling by the wayside.

Extremely helpful

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The Powerful Man Show" with Doug Holt and Tim Matthews has been a game-changer for me. Each episode is filled with meaningful discussions and actionable advice on personal and professional growth. Doug and Tim's authenticity and depth make the podcast both engaging and educational. They cover a broad spectrum of life's challenges with empathy and expertise, making every listener feel understood and inspired. If you're looking to improve your life in a holistic way, this is the podcast for you. Thanks, Doug and Tim, for such a motivational and insightful show!

Transformative and engaging -highly recommended

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Doug,Tim and the TPM team are a gift to men truly trying to navigate their world. The insights from living their message and the action they inspire create the road map for living your best life. So grateful to be a part of this community. Listen then dive in, the water is cold, just how it should be!

The way for men to lead and live their best life

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Love this show and love participating too. These great men have created such enormous value for men who are somewhat lost in relationships. This movement is changing the world. There is work to be done....watch this space.

We need men like this

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So much to learn about how men are missing the mark in today’s modern relationships with themselves, their spouse and their children.

Perfect for men looking to make a healthy change!

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