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The Real Stuff with Lucie Fink

The Real Stuff with Lucie Fink

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The Real Stuff is a weekly podcast series hosted by Lucie Fink who has spent the past decade getting curious and creating engaging and educational content for an audience of millions. On this show, you won’t hear your favorite guests talk about things they typically share — rather, Lucie pulls them deep into some of the world’s most taboo topics, asking intensely personal questions about sex, money, and mental health, all in an effort to help you feel less alone as you navigate through the world. And the best part: we want to invite YOU onto the show. Apply to call in as an anonymous guest at luciefink.com/apply. Pop in your voyeuristic headphones, or call in and spill your secrets! Visit Lucie on Instagram (@luciebfink) and find the show across social media @therealstuffpod.

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Episodes
  • Becoming co-CEOs in business and life (with my husband, Michael)
    Mar 24 2026

    My husband Michael is back on the podcast— and this time, we're getting into the biggest life shift our family has made in years.


    At the end of last year, Michael made the decision to leave his corporate job in sports media after over a decade of climbing the ladder. He had no new job lined up… it was just a leap of faith toward a different kind of lifestyle. I've been watching him grind through high-pressure, around-the-clock work for years, and honestly? I've had a front-row seat to what corporate burnout, work-life imbalance, and sacrificing your well-being for a paycheck can really look like from the inside of a marriage.


    In this episode, we're co-telling the story of how we got here — from the cyclical conversations we kept having, to the moment I finally said what I needed to say in a way that actually landed, to Michael's very “Michael” way of making one of the biggest decisions of his career.


    We're also getting into what comes next: Michael joining me at Lucie Fink Media, what it means to truly run your life like you run a business, and how we've been building our version of a "rich life" as a couple and as a family.


    We talk about corporate burnout, setting work-life boundaries, the mental load of running a household, couples and individual therapy, quitting your job without a plan, leaving a high salary, working with your spouse, and what it actually looks like to redesign your life from the ground up together.



    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Subscribe to my free newsletter "The Lucie List" here: https://thelucielist.beehiiv.com/subscribe


    Subscribe to "The Creator Confidential": http://www.luciefink.com/confidential



    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    1 hr and 41 mins
  • How To Live An Above-Average Life (with Les Alfred)
    Mar 17 2026

    I have been waiting to have this conversation. Les Alfred — host of the She's So Lucky podcast and one of the most refreshingly honest voices in the self-development space — sat down with me in the studio, and we went deep.


    We talk about what it really means to want a big life. Les is unapologetically vocal about wanting wealth, success, and a life that is anything but average, and in this episode, she explains exactly why she thinks more women need to say that out loud. We get into the psychology of perfectionism and why it's rarely actually about getting things right; it's about the fear of being seen trying.


    I also open up about a very personal block I hit while launching my own YouTube course and how working through it completely changed the outcome.


    Les shares her theory on the post-peak pivot and why the most successful women know when to step back, lie low, and let the next chapter build. We use everyone from Rihanna to Jackie Aina to Taylor Swift as case studies.


    Plus, we get into the concept of creating your own luck, best-case scenario journaling, and why negative comments and criticism might actually be the best sign your career is growing.


    Follow Les: https://www.instagram.com/lesalfred/

    Listen to the She's So Lucky Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/46muBfvOgp2U44ycqZJPPN



    Sponsors:


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    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Subscribe to my free newsletter "The Lucie List" here: https://thelucielist.beehiiv.com/subscribe


    Subscribe to "The Creator Confidential": http://www.luciefink.com/confidential



    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    56 mins
  • What It’s Actually Like To Be a Twin (Identity, Comparison, and Telepathy)
    Mar 10 2026

    Ever wondered what it's actually like to be a twin? In this deeply personal episode, I'm going solo to share everything I've never fully unpacked on camera about growing up as a fraternal twin — my experience, my perspective, and yes, the fact that my twin Allie is very much not here with me for this episode (she's private, she's pregnant, and she said no... and I respect it).


    I'm diving into the science of fraternal vs. identical twins, what it means for your identity when you share your entire childhood with someone, and how Allie and I managed to stay incredibly close without ever feeling competitive with one another. I talk about twin telepathy (and exactly how ours works), the unique social dynamics of growing up as a "package deal," navigating friend group drama as a twin, going to college together, living together well into adulthood, and the emotional turning point when we finally branched off into our own separate lives.


    I also get into: birth order and how being one minute younger shaped my whole personality, the way our wildly different childhood interests perfectly predicted our adult careers, and what it means to be entering a new, exciting parallel chapter now that Allie lives just seven minutes away.


    This episode is for twins, siblings, people who have a ride-or-die best friend, and anyone who's ever been curious about the twin experience. Allie may not be with me for this one, but I've got more than enough to say for both of us.


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    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Subscribe to my free newsletter "The Lucie List" here: https://thelucielist.beehiiv.com/subscribe


    Subscribe to "The Creator Confidential": http://www.luciefink.com/confidential



    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    54 mins
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