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Therapist Uncensored Podcast

Therapist Uncensored Podcast

By: Sue Marriott LCSW CGP & Ann Kelley PhD
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Ranked as one of Apple’s Top 10 Social Science podcasts, Therapist Uncensored delivers trusted, science-backed insights on mental health and secure relationships. With over 11 million downloads worldwide, this female-led, independent podcast puts you right in the therapy room, making powerful psychological insights accessible and actionable. Co-hosts Sue Marriott, LCSW CGP and Ann Kelley, PhD break down complex ideas into practical wisdom you can use immediately. They’re joined by top neuroscientists, world-renown relationship experts and outside-the-box perspectives to share cutting-edge research and strategies for building stronger connections with yourself and others. Shownotes at www.therapistuncensored.com Transform how you understand your mind, your relationships, and yourself.© Therapist Uncensored Podcast & Community Mental Health Awareness Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Science Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Bonus – Hormones, Libido, and the Missing Conversation About Women’s Bodies with Dr. Christine Vaccaro (294)
    Mar 24 2026
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    We’ve normalized not understanding women’s bodies.

    Dr. Christine Vaccaro helps demystify women’s sexual health – exploring everything from hormones and anatomy to libido and pelvic floor challenges. Together, we break down what’s often misunderstood or overlooked, offering clear, empowering insights to help women better understand their bodies and advocate for their care.

    “You don’t want women to have to choose between mental health or sexual health.” – Dr. Christine Vaccaro
    Time Stamps for Bonus – Hormones, Libido, and the Missing Conversation About Women’s Bodies with Dr. Christine Vaccaro (294)

    00:49 Understanding the complexity of women’s sexual health
    06:53 Libido and sexual health
    09:36 Gender equity in sexual health education
    12:36 The Clitoris: Anatomy and function
    15:12 Hormones and their impact on sexual health
    30:57 Navigating hormonal changes in Perimenopause and Menopause
    34:09 The role of Testosterone in women’s health
    51:53 Pelvic floor health and its impact on women
    58:02 Importance of sexual health awareness

    About our Guest – Dr. Christine Vaccaro

    She is a double board-certified and fellowship trained urogynecologist & reconstructive pelvic surgeon with advanced training in sexual medicine. She is an expert in treating urogynecological conditions and has conducted research on interstitial cystitis (IC), pelvic floor disorders, and clitoral anatomy. Dr. Vaccaro is an active member of both the American Urogynecologic Society (AUGS) and the Society of Gynecologic Surgeons (SGS), where she contributes to multiple committees focused on advancing education and research.Dr. Vaccaro has been practicing medicine for over 20 years in the military, and graduated from the United States Military Academy at West Point in 1999, with a major in Chemistry/Life Sciences, Nuclear Engineering Track. She received her Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine (D.O.) degree in 2003 from the University of North Texas Health Science Center. She completed her OB/GYN residency training in 2007 at Madigan Army Medical Center, Tacoma, WA and her Urogynecology fellowship training in 2011 at Good Samaritan Hospital, Cincinnati, OH. ​Dr. Vaccaro retired from the U.S. Army with the rank of Colonel, after serving as Fellowship Program Director and Service Chief of Urogynecology & Reconstructive Pelvic Surgery at Walter Reed National Military Medical Center.

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    15 mins
  • How Music Heals What Words Can’t with Ann Koplow (293)
    Mar 17 2026
    Some feelings can’t be said – but they can be sung

    Ann Koplow shares her journey as a therapist and musician, discussing the healing power of music, her experiences with a rare heart condition, and the importance of authenticity in therapy. She emphasizes the role of shamelessness in creative expression and how songwriting serves as a therapeutic tool for both herself and her clients. The conversation explores the impact of music on mental health, the creation of community through shared experiences, and the necessity of letting go of shame to embrace one’s true self.

    “Every day is a gift. Let go of your shame. Be your authentic self.” – Ann Koplow, LCSW, CGP
    About our Guest – Ann Koplow, LCSW, CGP

    Ann Koplow is a clinical social worker, certified group therapist, and singer-songwriter who uses psychotherapy and music to help people grow and connect. She facilitates six open-access “Coping and Healing” groups a week at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center in Boston and is a past president of the Northeastern Society for Group Psychotherapy. She has yet to publish any articles or books about her innovative model for group therapy because she’s better at short-form creations like songs, including “Triggers,” “Everybody’s Somebody’s Asshole,” “Catastrophizing,” “Other People’s Anger,” “Don’t Kill Yourself,” and her protest song “You Don’t Scare Me!” When she shares her songs in her groups, the members appreciate her relatable and accepting messages like “I Left the House Before I Felt Ready” and “It’s Hard to Get Sh*t Done When You’re Scared Sh*tless.” Her patients express concern that she will get too famous and leave the groups behind, but that’s just not going to happen. Her album The Singing Therapist — Live at the Lilypad! and her other songs are available on Spotify, Apple Music, and probably wherever music can be found.

    Time Stamps for How Music Heals What Words Can’t with Ann Koplow (293)

    05:23 How Ann navigates life living with a heart condition
    12:30 Shameless appeals for applause
    19:26 Using music in group therapy
    26:16 The power of authenticity and relatability in creative expression
    31:15 Healing through creative outlets

    Resources for How Music Heals What Words Can’t with Ann Koplow (293)

    The Year(s) of Living Non-Judgmentally – Ann’s blog

    Ann’s Youtube Channel – Check out her music

    Ann’s Linktree – Find her social media, blogs, Youtube channel and original songs

    Beyond Attachment Styles course is available NOW!

    Learn how your nervous system, your mind, and your relationships work together in a fascinating dance, shaping who you are and how you connect with others.

    Online, Self-Paced, Asynchronous Learning with Quarterly Live Q&A’s – next one April 13, 2026!

    Earn 6 Continuing Education Credits – Available at Checkout

    As a listener of this podcast, use code BAS15 for a limited-time discount.

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    Join us again in Washington, DC for the 49th Annual Psychotherapy Networker!

    March 19-22nd! In person and online options available. Get your discounted seat HERE!

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    42 mins
  • From Crisis to Connection: Attachment as a Lifeline with Dr. Lisa Firestone (292)
    Mar 3 2026
    Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions around suicide. Triggers Aren’t the Problem—They’re the Clue Co-host Sue Marriott and guest Lisa Firestone examine how attachment wounds, emotional dysregulation, and relational disconnection can quietly escalate into crisis. Together they explore the often-overlooked link between attachment patterns and suicidality, and why understanding your relational blueprint may be one of the most important protective factors you have. Blending research, clinical experience, and practical strategies, this episode offers tools for building emotional resilience, increasing self-awareness, and supporting others through vulnerable moments. “It is a full-time job to cope with alien elements from both interpersonal sources and societal influences.” – Dr. Lisa Firestone Myths of Attachment Styles: What Real Science Tells Us FREE LIVE Webinar – March 12 Join Ann and Sue as they challenge oversimplified attachment frameworks popularized on social media and explore the dynamic, context-dependent nature of defensive attachment patterns.​​​​​​​ The attachment spectrum includes cultural patterns as well as unconscious scripts and strategies to update your patterns in real time – tune in to hear more! FREE with an option to purchase 1.5 CE. Click Here to Sign Up!! Time Stamps for From Crisis to Connection: Attachment as a Lifeline with Dr. Lisa Firestone (292) 05:23 Understanding suicide and self-regulation 11:09 Therapeutic approaches to suicidality 16:17 Navigating attachment styles 27:11 Understanding attachment and security 29:53 Interactive exercise on attachment 40:22 Recognizing triggers in relationships About our Guest – Dr. Lisa Firestone Lisa Firestone, PhD is a Clinical Psychologist and the Director of Research and Education at the Glendon Association and Senior Editor at PsychAlive.org. She is the author of numerous articles and book chapters and coauthor of the books Self Under Siege, Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice, and Creating a Life of Meaning and Compassion. Dr. Firestone is a national and international trainer and presenter on topics including couple relationships, attachment, suicide and violence prevention assessment and treatment Lisa has been involved in clinical training and research in the areas of suicide and violence which resulted in the development of the assessments Firestone Assessment of Self-destructive Thoughts (FAST) and (FASI) and the Firestone Assessment of Violent Thoughts (FAVT) for adults and adolescents. Lisa Firestone is a clinical psychologist in private practice and consultant on the management of high-risk clients. Resources for From Crisis to Connection: Attachment as a Lifeline with Dr. Lisa Firestone (292) Making Sense of Your Life – eCourse with Dr. Dan Siegel and Dr. Lisa Firestone (4 CEs) Challenging the Fantasy Bond – book by Dr. Robert Firestone Developing Secure Attachment – Two-Part Online Course (2 CEs) Beyond Attachment Styles course is available NOW! Learn how your nervous system, your mind, and your relationships work together in a fascinating dance, shaping who you are and how you connect with others. Online, Self-Paced, Asynchronous Learning with Quarterly Live Q&A’s – next one April 13, 2026! Earn 6 Continuing Education Credits – Available at Checkout As a listener of this podcast, use code BAS15 for a limited-time discount. Get your copy of Secure Relating here!! You are invited! Join our exclusive community to get early access and discounts to things we produce, plus an ad-free, private feed. In addition, receive exclusive episodes recorded just for you. Sign up for our premium Neuronerd plan!! Click here!! Join us again in Washington, DC for the 49th Annual Psychotherapy Networker! March 19-22nd! In person and online options available. Get your discounted seat HERE!
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    57 mins

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Seeing and hearing other people—whether a stranger, a friend, or a celebrity—talk about their struggles with mental health helps make us feel less alone. And that sense of community often encourages those struggling to take steps towards treatment. There is nothing wrong with needing help and wanting to feel better—and some truly exceptional mental health audiobooks and podcasts are available to keep you company on that journey.

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This podcast has all the answers! Actually, what it is is a very enjoyable explanation of innumerable facets of being a human in relationship with other humans. I was able to arrive at my own answers and have listened to certain episodes 3-5 times over the last 6 months.

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I found this podcast by searching and it has dramatically improved my work and my spiritual, emotional, physical health. I am excited that they have so many options to choose from to listen. I've listened on different platforms. If you are any kind of neuro-nerd or just a human being interested in how human minds and bodies work, then you should listen. The topics are varied and yet connected. I've been able to see patterns in my own life and my client's lives. Great information and great delivery.

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These podcasts have been so helpful for me over the past year when I discovered Therapist Uncensored with the recommendation of my therapist. I have found many useful tools to use personally, in my marriage, parenting, friendships and really all my relationships. I really love listening to them in my car when I have a few 30 minutes or so. it helps to hear new perspectives!

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I love this podcast! Especially the kindness and purposeful interactions and topics. The pace is perfect, tailored by both women's passion for mental and emotional health and the hunger they have grow in there knowledge as well as practices. the courage they display is refreshing.

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