• Friendship Breakups: The Time My Friend Made a Shrine of Me
    Mar 17 2026

    Friendship breakups can hurt just as much, if not more, than romantic ones. In this episode of Toni Told Me, Toni gets real about the grief of losing a friend and why sometimes the people who know us best can hurt us the most. Toni and Producer Annisha dive into tricky friendship dynamics, from workplace friendships that feel a little too controlling, to the childhood friend who kept crossing the line. And Toni shares one of the strangest friendship stories she’s ever experienced… including the moment she realised a former friend had literally made a shrine of her.



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    51 mins
  • My Mum Is Back! Wedding Tea, In-Laws & My Big Move
    Mar 10 2026

    Mother’s Day is around the corner here in the UK, so to celebrate Toni's mum is back on the podcast! They're talking all about the wedding, family dynamics, in-laws and how she really feels about me moving to Houston, plus what it’s like becoming a grandmother of two. Before that, in Teatime with Toni, they help listeners through some tough dilemmas, from navigating a parent who disapproves of dating outside your culture to struggling with an avoidant attachment style in relationships.


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    56 mins
  • Your Type Is The Problem!!
    Mar 3 2026

    Choosing a partner can be a tricky process but what happens when you keep picking the same kind of person? Same person different font kind of vibe!! Is it a you problem, or is it a them problem? Toni weighs in and lets her listeners know it is in fact a YOU problem! Dilemmas are solved and truths are told in this week’s episode.


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    48 mins
  • Is Yearning Dead?
    Feb 24 2026

    Is yearning dead… or are we just too cool to admit we want someone? This week on Toni Told Me, we’re talking all things longing, modern dating, “nonchalant” culture, and whether romance is slowly disappearing. Plus in Teatime with Toni, we’re getting into a couple of dilemmas...including a really shocking one about a dad and OnlyFans advice, and what it means when your partner admires other women but struggles to compliment you.


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    42 mins
  • Your Gut Knew. You Just Didn’t Listen.
    Feb 17 2026

    In this episode, we’re getting real about that little voice in your head we all try to ignore, especially when it comes to relationships. You know, the red flags that somehow look beige, the “he has potential,” the almosts, the “but he’s a good guy,” the money stress, the overlap, the shaky boundaries, and that comfy but risky feeling that makes confrontation feel impossible.


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    48 mins
  • But...I Treat You Well Everyday?
    Feb 10 2026

    Valentine’s Day is coming… but is “I treat you well every day” really enough?In this episode of Toni Told Me, Toni dives into real conversations about love, commitment, and expectations. In Teatime With Toni, listener dilemmas unpack cultural pressure around marriage, waiting on commitment, and dating someone with emotional baggage. Then in Sisterhood Spotlight, Toni breaks down Valentine’s Day for couples, singles, and everyone in between! Whether you’re partnered, single, or side-eyeing your situation, this one’s for you.


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    47 mins
  • Grammy Wins & Real Talk with Kamille
    Feb 3 2026

    Toni is joined by her sister-in-law, 2x Grammy Award-winning singer-songwriter and producer Kamille, for an honest chat about her journey in music, winning Grammys, navigating the industry, and balancing career, motherhood and marriage. Plus, it’s Teatime with Toni as Toni, Producer Annisha and Kamille get into your dilemmas, from wanting more in a relationship that ticks all the boxes, to deciding whether to speak up when you know a friend is being cheated on!


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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • US vs UK: The Differences Nobody Talks About
    Jan 27 2026

    In this episode, we’re diving into life across the pond and what it’s really like living in the US compared to the UK. From culture and food to accents, social life, and even healthcare, I’m sharing all the reality checks, surprises, and subtle differences you won’t hear anywhere else. Plus, if you’re a Brit thinking about making the move, or just curious about life in America, this is your ultimate guide.


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    53 mins