In this episode we discuss how the cycle can take over the relationship and break down communication and connection. We often want to blame our partner, but the true culprit is the cycle.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

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In this episode we discuss one of the major issues couples deal with, which is dysregulation. When communication breaks down it's because one or both partners have been trigger. The key to better communication is better regulation.

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Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

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Intergenerational trauma is trauma that didn't start with you. We explore this and much more as we dive into what intergenerational trauma looks like in your life and relationships.

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FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

FREE Couple Guide on "Getting to the Root of the Problem"

https://traumafreerelationship.com/getting-to-the-root-guide

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Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

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In this episode, we will discuss the challenges of disorganized attachment from within the perspective of those who identify with this pattern, as well as those who may be in a relationship with someone who fall into this category.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

FREE Get to the Root of the Problem eBook

https://traumafreerelationship.com/getting-to-the-root-guide

Find us on Social Media:

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

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In this episode we discuss how to self-soothe when feeling like connection is lost between you and your partner.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

In this episode we discuss the greatest challenge for avoidant attachment - co-regulation. Learn what causes avoidant attachment and practical steps to learn how to reach out for others in times of need.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

Find us on Social Media:

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

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In this episode we discuss how to listen without being defensive, and how to notice when others are.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

In this episode we discuss how to move toward a secure attachment as an adult, knowing that it is a practice, not a destination.

If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq