What My Team Really Thinks of Me (with Rachel Pederson)

Rachel Pederson is a social media strategist, entrepreneur, and the kind of leader who will tell you exactly where she went wrong before she tells you what she got right.

In the first-ever interview episode of Sorta Bossy, Adrienne sits down with her friend of nearly a decade to talk about what it actually looked like to build a team, blow it up (relationally speaking), and rebuild it into something that has lasted almost nine years in an industry known for burnout and turnover.

This one gets real fast.

What they cover:

• How Rachel accidentally became a boss by hiring a VA in 2015 with zero plan for what to give her
• The "Tyra Banks era" of leadership -- and why rooting for people is not the same as leading them
• Operational whiplash: how Rachel's moods put her team in a constant state of eggshells
• The moment her sister looked her in the eye and said "I don't respect you".
• RST (Rachel Standard Time), the fake time zone her team invented to cope
• Why avoiding hard conversations is not the kind choice
• The double standard women face when they're "snippy" vs. when men do the exact same thing from stage
• High care, high standards: why emotional intelligence is a leadership advantage, not a liability
• What Adrienne asked Rachel's team directly, and what they actually said

You can learn more about Rachel here.

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⏱️ Time Chapters

00:01 Welcome and why Rachel is the first interview guest

04:42 Hiring her first VA with no plan

08:20 The Tyra Banks era of leadership

09:42 Operational whiplash and the client who held up a mirror

10:47 The moment her sister said "I don't respect you"

14:48 RST: Rachel Standard Time

22:29 Knowing and owning your weaknesses

25:39 How Adrienne got into the Enneagram and why she got certified

28:31 Rachel's biggest leadership regret: avoiding hard conversations

32:07 The double standard women face when they're direct

33:46 High care, high standards

36:11 Rachel's mama bear model in action

37:07 What Adrienne asked Rachel's team -- and what they said

42:41 The question Rachel's team wanted to ask her

52:46 Where to find Rachel Pederson

Read the transcript here