Why So Many Men Don’t Want to Date Intentionally

In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Isabelle Tropea, a 26-year-old graduate student navigating the challenge of finding men her age who are dating intentionally.

We talk about when to ask someone about their dating intentions. The first date can feel too soon, but waiting too long can lead to investing time in someone who isn’t looking for the same thing.

Isabelle shares her experience of meeting men who say they want something serious, only for their behavior a few dates later to suggest otherwise.

In this conversation, we explore:

• Why so many people seem to be dating casually today

• How and when to ask about someone’s dating intentions

• The right way to approach a woman at the gym

• Why preparing for dates can lead to better connection and chemistry

• The types of questions that create meaningful conversations on a date

• What research actually says about height preferences in dating

• How “manifesting your partner” can work as a psychological filter

• The best way to ask an avoidant partner for something you need

This episode is about navigating the tension between wanting a real relationship and dating in a culture that often seems built for casual connections.

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Isabelle was born and raised in Austin is currently working on her doctorate in physical therapy. Movement is her love language—whether that’s lifting weights, flowing through yoga, or slowly convincing herself that running is fun. She's happiest trying new food, traveling somewhere unfamiliar, or curled up with her cat Boko watching movies or reading books.