Jomon introduces the paramitas, core qualities in Buddhist practice that guide the path toward awakening, focusing on generosity and ethical conduct. She explores the meaning of paramita as both “perfection” and “the other shore,” emphasizing that these virtues are not goals to achieve but ways of being to continually embody. Through teachings, stories, and real-life examples, she highlights generosity as a natural expression of compassion and wisdom, extending beyond material giving to include presence, protection, and sharing the teachings. Ethical practice is presented as a stabilizing and “cooling” force in an inflamed world, grounded in non-harming and mindful action. The talk weaves together the bodhisattva vows, the practice of not knowing, and the importance of reflecting on one’s actions, encouraging a life of ongoing care, awareness, and service to others.

Hogen explores the central role of direct experience in practice, emphasizing that true understanding arises from living and sensing life, not just intellectual knowledge. He reflects on how retreats and meditation provide opportunities to experience clarity, presence, and insight, and why these experiences can fade when we return to habitual patterns. Hogen discusses the balance between respecting the miracle of life and the evolutionary growth of our practice, stressing that faith, practice, and engagement with others turn insight into living wisdom. He reminds us that every listener is extraordinary and that the foundation of practice is both appreciation for life and the continual cultivation of mindfulness, generosity, and awareness. This talk was given on Feb 22 2026 at Heart of Wisdom Zen Temple.

In this talk, Jomon continues the February exploration of parinirvana and the teachings of death, weaving together reflections from Frank Ostaseski’s The Five Invitations with the story and symbolism of Jizo Bodhisattva. Known as a protector of travelers, children, and those navigating difficult realms, Jizo represents compassionate presence amid life’s uncertainty. Through stories, Buddhist cosmology, and the metaphor of spiritual pilgrimage, the talk invites listeners to meet difficulty directly, cultivate “don’t know mind,” and embody the bodhisattva qualities of benevolence, determination, fearlessness, optimism, and vow.