Once a Girl, Always a Boy

A Family Memoir of a Transgender Journey

By: Jo Ivester

Narrated by: Jo Ivester, Jon Ivester, Jeremy Ivester, Sammy Ivester, Jenn Ivester

Jeremy Ivester is a transgender man. Thirty years ago, his parents welcomed him into the world as what they thought was their daughter. As a child, he preferred the toys and games our society views as masculine. He kept his hair short and wore boys’ clothing. They called him a tomboy. That’s what he called himself.

By high school, when he showed no interest in flirting, his parents thought he might be lesbian. At 20, he wondered if he was asexual. At 23, he surgically removed his breasts. A year later, he began taking the hormones that would lower his voice and give him a beard - and he announced his new name and pronouns.

Once a Girl, Always a Boy is Jeremy’s journey from childhood through coming out as transgender and eventually emerging as an advocate for the transgender community. This is not only Jeremy’s story, but also that of his family, told from multiple perspectives - those of the siblings who struggled to understand the brother they once saw as a sister, and of the parents who ultimately joined him in the battle against discrimination. This is a story of acceptance in a world not quite ready to accept.

It has received starred reviews from Kirkus Review and the Library Journal. It has been featured on reading lists in Ms. and Parade magazines. It was included in USA Today's list of the 10 best LGBTQ reads for Pride Month.

The audiobook was recorded by the author and her family.

©2020 Jo Ivester (P)2020 Jo Ivester

so good!

I absolutely loved this book!!! even though I'm not transgender but instead gender fluid I took so much away that made so much sense. I laughed and cried so many times. 100% recommend!

I needed this

This book was a perfect beginning to this journey I am on a proud but worried Mama of a transgender son. Thank you to the whole Ivester family. I have learned, grown and have even gained a bit of peace from listening to this book.

Insightful view of a trans person’s journey - told by the person and their family

I loved this book. I didn’t know a lot about the trans experience before reading this book. I felt I learned so much - albeit from one person/families journey. Beautifully written and told in their voices.

In love with a trans man

Having fallen in love with a trans man, I chose this book in the hopes that it would provide some insight into his childhood and struggle to become the amazing person he is. I will continue to learn both from my partner and from other sources, this was an incredible start. What I did not expect was to be provided with such an incredible lesson on parenthood. Thank you so much for showing us a way to love, not just those near and dear to us, but all.

Intimate, honest story generously shared by family

Riveting story-telling and compelling performance, especially mom's. Definitely recommend 12/10. The story of a strong, beautiful family supporting each other through one member's quest to really discover himself.