The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself

By: Dr. Mike Bechtle

Narrated by: Mike Bechtle

We all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we become trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of people-pleasing relationships where we always give and rarely receive. The most common advice we hear - Start putting your own needs first! - doesn't work, because we do love helping other people!

Thankfully, the solution to the people pleaser's "problem" isn't to fundamentally change who you are - it's to fundamentally change where you find your worth. In this freeing book, Dr. Mike Bechtle shows you stop letting your fears of rejection, criticism, invisibility, or inadequacy drive your actions and start rebuilding your sense of self-worth from the inside out. When you do, you'll discover that what you once thought of as a struggle is actually a strength.

©2021 Mike Bechtle (P)2021 eChristian

Great book very helpful!!!

I really wish I had read this book in my twenties! It was very helpful. I took a lot away from it.

Loved it!

It came at a pivotal time for me. I’ve been needing to make some changes and this book has been helping me to see clearly what are my motives behind each decision I make. I’m going to buy the actual book to go through it again. This will be a process but I’m grateful for the help to see more clearly.

What is a good fit worth reading?

It is a good book.
That was good information. I think I would recommend it to be worthwhile to read.

Worth the Listen or Read!

The author lists some very practical tips for people pleasers! I will be purchasing the actual paperback after listening to the Audible version.

It should be noted that this is good for business

The business aspects in the closing chapters for either entrepreneurship or sales are very clear and encouraging.
Well worded!
Thank you very much