The Question Habit

The Art of Building Resilient Relationships with God and Others One Question at a Time

By: Mandy Pallock

Narrated by: Mandy Pallock

Author-narrated by Mandy Pallock

You're sitting across from someone you love, and the conversation has gone flat. You want to go deeper—with your spouse, your friend, your small group, even with God—but you don't know what to say next.

You're not alone. The answer isn't more advice or better small talk. It's a question.

The Question Habit is a practical, biblical framework for building resilient relationships through purposeful questions. This audiobook will show you that the most powerful thing you can do for any relationship isn't to speak—it's to ask.

Jesus asked 288 questions in the Gospels. He didn't need information—He wanted connection. The Question Habit invites you into that same posture: holy curiosity, deep listening, and grace-filled conversation.

You'll discover how to:

• Navigate awkward silences with heartfelt engagement
• Uncover the God-designed uniqueness of every person in your life
• Practice question-based mentoring and relational discipleship
• Help others process thoughts and emotions in non-threatening ways
• Strengthen your marriage, parenting, and friendships through deeper listening
• Transform your prayer life by learning to ask (not just tell) God
• Build everyday discipleship rhythms you can start this week

Mandy brings each chapter to life with conversational warmth and humor. As a writer and podcaster in long-term ministry, she turns practical wisdom into something you can use today. Each chapter stands on its own—pause, reflect, and come back. Keep a notebook nearby: each chapter ends with questions you'll want to capture.

Made for: Small group leaders, mentors, parents, married couples, Bible study facilitators, pastors, counselors, and anyone ready for heart-level connection.

With a foreword by Barbara Reaoch (former Director, Children's Division, Bible Study Fellowship). You don't have to be an expert. You just have to be willing to ask.

More at thequestionhabit.com.

©2023 Mandy Pallock (P)2023 Mandy Pallock

Great resource!

As a mom, wife, friend, daughter, sister, coworker, mentor, I find myself talking to people all the time. However, while talking is easy, connecting with a person on a deeper level can be difficult. I loved Mandy's book because she uses personal stories, Biblical wisdom, and practical tips that anyone can use to help engage another person in a way that makes them feel comfortable and important. I was engaged with the book from start to finish and had a hard time putting it down. What I appreciate the most, and the reason why I know I'll be recommending this book over and over, is because while Mandy is so thoughtful and wise, I never felt overwhelmed. Throughout the book she cheers you on and includes so much practical advice that it makes you feel equipped and excited.
This is a great tool for anyone involved in discipleship or who wants to connect with a less communicative family member. The lists of questions at the back of the book are fantastic and a great resource to use in lots of different settings!

Awesome author

This was the best book I've read all year.
I love books read by the author.
Thought provoking and insightful.

The question habit is a perfect title

This book is timeless ..Read ,Listen ,Share and Repeat .. I enjoyed this book and learn so much about myself and my love ones.
I plan to read this book again and again to remind myself of the value that God has for me. I encourage everyone to read this book.
Thanks Mandy

Conversations for all ages!

I LOVE Mandy’s calm yet passionate reading style // tone. This book takes conversations and relationships to the next level… to value others and build off of every moment! She starts in the Bible and ends with curated and quippy questions to use throughout each day and season! Easy read but deeply thought-provoking! Grateful for this tool! Thank you.