XOXO, Cody

An Opinionated Homosexual's Guide to Self-Love, Relationships, and Tactful Pettiness

By: Cody Rigsby

Narrated by: Cody Rigsby

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The beloved Peloton instructor chronicles his journey from small-town North Carolina to New York City stardom in an empowering story that reveals his secret to success: not taking yourself—or life—too seriously.

“Reading XOXO, Cody is like hanging out with that friend who makes you laugh and can open up their heart to you.”—Phoebe Robinson, New York Times bestselling author of Please Don’t Sit on My Bed in Your Outside Clothes

Cody Rigsby has a lot of opinions: Kevin is the hottest Backstreet Boy; grape jelly is a crime against nature; if you wear flip-flops in New York City, you do not love yourself. But if there is one opinion—one truth—that he holds above all others, it’s that we shouldn’t let the fear of looking stupid or being judged hold us back from living our best lives.

Cody didn’t always feel this way. In XOXO, Cody, he opens up about his journey toward accepting himself, from growing up gay and poor in the South to his migration to New York City, where he went from broke-ass dancer to fitness icon. He intimately details what it was like to lose both his father and best friend to addiction and how he began to repair his relationship with his mom as an adult. He recounts his time working at a nightclub on the Lower East Side and his decision to audition for Peloton on a whim, and dishes about competing against Sporty Spice on Dancing with the Stars.

With raw and inspiring stories about learning how to handle the scary sh*t, XOXO, Cody is a bold and heartfelt reminder that sometimes laughing at yourself is the best medicine. Remember: It ain’t that deep, boo.

Critic reviews

“To say this book is charming is an understatement. XOXO, Cody is like hanging out with that friend who makes you laugh and can open their heart up to you. In a world that’s dark, it’s necessary to read a book that will put a smile on your face and remind you that when times get tough, fix your wig and go get your life together. You got this! And so does Cody!”—Phoebe Robinson, New York Times bestselling author of Please Don’t Sit on My Bed in Your Outside Clothes

“To know Cody Rigsby is to love Cody Rigsby. And now we get to know him even better with this hilarious, and refreshingly candid book about his life so far and everything he’s learned along the way. A must-read!”—Bowen Yang, actor, comedian

“Cody Rigsby is a delight, and so is his book. His knowledge of pop culture is unmatched and he had me laughing out loud on every page. But his candid storytelling and vulnerability is what makes this book truly something special.”—Karamo Brown, Talk Show Host and Co-Host of Queer Eye

“XOXO, Cody is a must-read for anyone who needs a little inspiration to live their best life. While Cody opens up about struggles many of us can relate to, he still reminds us that sometimes the best thing we can do is just laugh at ourselves. Whether you're a fan of Peloton or just looking for some inspiration, XOXO, Cody is a book that will leave you feeling empowered and ready to take on the world. So go ahead, laugh at yourself a little, and remember: ‘it ain't that deep, boo.’”—Bobby Berk, Emmy-nominated TV Host and author of Right at Home

“Cody writes essays about his life in the witty, inspiring, and totally unfiltered voice that’s made him a beloved Peloton instructor—and XOXO, Cody let’s readers feel like they’ve spent the afternoon chatting with their best friend.”—Tunde Oyeneyin, New York Times bestselling author of Speak

“Cody Rigsby’s life is a ride for sure but reading it in his one of a kind voice is another level. His personal stories are candid and revealing, full of determination, and hilarious but deeply vulnerable . . . I couldn’t put it down.”—JC Chasez, NSYNC, singer, songwriter

I love you Boo!

A must if you’re like me and you LOVE Cody Rigsby! I wasn’t sure what to expect but I knew Cody would deliver and he didn’t disappoint. One of the most relatable, and funny motivational help book I’ve listened to. This is one book I’ll be listening to over and over, my go to book when I need a quick pick me up. This is my first and probably only book review.

A book as fantastic and unique as Cody himself!

Reading (and hearing) Cody’s truth thru his trademark lens of levity, strength, and savage charm is like having a conversation with one of your very best friends.

There is something for everyone in this book. That “something” is a tangible approach to life in the here and now from someone who defines HERE AND NOW. Incredible.

So much fun!

This was such a great listen. It was entertaining, fun, and Cody had some great advice for keeping it real.

Love this book!!!

Cody has an amazing life story that we can all learn from. Such an inspiration!

Loved!

I really loved this book, how vulnerable and open Cody was! I laughed and cried!