Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the carry-on is full, the questions are layered, and the science is… unexpectedly specific.

This week, Dr. Carlton returns from Spain with stories that are equal parts cultural immersion and… extracurricular exploration. From darkrooms to sex clubs to a suspiciously high concentration of very friendly bears, let’s just say the trip was educational. The flight over? Memorable. The kind of memorable where you question your seating choices and your life decisions simultaneously

Back in the studio, the guys dive into a wild New Scientist article featuring an extremely detailed study of the male anatomy—because nothing says intellectual curiosity like peer-reviewed curiosity. It’s science, it’s fascinating, and it’s just clinical enough to make you feel smarter while listening.

In the inbox, a Booty Gang member opens up about being in a long-term relationship while feeling pulled toward unexplored fetishes—raising the age-old question: how do you honor your desires without detonating your stability? The guys approach it with honesty, nuance, and just enough realism to keep things grounded.

Another listener writes in asking about the new A-Ball alternative to douching, and yes—this turns into exactly the kind of conversation you think it will. Informative, slightly skeptical, and deeply Butt Honestly.

As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after travel chaos, scientific deep dives, and emotional honesty, we all deserve a little connection.

Press play. It’s worldly, weirdly educational, and just the right amount of inappropriate. 🍑🎙️

Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the conversations are as bold as they are necessary, and the guests always bring something a little extra to the table.

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are joined by the sensational Lauren Banall, alongside her brilliantly unhinged alter ego Erika Qwerk, the comedic force behind Turning Point U.S. GAY—a sharp, satirical take that proves parody might the the voice of the resistance. The energy? Chaotic good. The humor? Smart, biting, and just the right amount of awareness and brilliance.

But as always, the show balances the sparkle with education and empathy.

The guys tackle some serious and important listener questions this week, starting with one about anal Pap smears—what they are, why they matter, and why taking care of your health is always in style, no matter how unglamorous the appointment may sound.

Then, in a more vulnerable and deeply human moment, they respond to a listener navigating bottoming after experiencing trauma. It’s a thoughtful, compassionate conversation about rebuilding trust with your body, moving at your own pace, and understanding that healing isn’t linear—and that’s okay. Dr. Carlton brings clinical insight, while Dangilo brings empathy, honesty, and the reminder that you’re not alone in figuring it out.

Throughout it all, Lauren adds their signature wit and insight, proving that humor and healing can absolutely share the same stage.

And because this is still Butt Honestly, the episode closes with the guys’ Love Language of the Week—a little levity, a little sweetness, and a reminder that connection, in all its forms, is worth the work.

Press play. It’s smart, it’s funny, it’s heartfelt—and it might just be one of those episodes that stays with you a little longer than expected. 🍑🎙️

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Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where the questions are specific, the answers are thoughtful, and the tone is… professionally unhinged.

This week, we kick things off with a listener asking about “lazy gut”—what it means, what’s myth versus medicine, and how it intersects with some very advanced extracurricular activities.

Then we slide into a practical (and surprisingly common) question: can STIs stick to silicone lube? It’s part chemistry lesson, part public health PSA, and fully in line with the show’s mission of keeping things sexy and smart.

And yes… we hear from a listener named Splat—who writes in with a response to last week’s conversation about straight men. The name alone deserves airtime, and the message does not disappoint.

Outside the inbox, the guys take a moment to highlight some important news out of Florida, where lawmakers have restored funding for HIV/AIDS medication programs—a reminder that access to care is not just policy, it’s personal.

Of course, no episode would be complete without tackling a timeless debate: hairy, trimmed, or shaved? The answers are passionate, the opinions are strong, and no one leaves unchanged.

As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all the science, sass, and Splat… we still believe in connection.

Press play. It’s educational, it’s entertaining, and it’s Butt Honestly at its finest. 🍑🎙️

Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with your hosts Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where curiosity is encouraged, dignity is optional, and the inbox continues to keep us very busy.

This week the mail sack delivers a listener who believes straight men might quite literally be full of crap.

Then we tackle what may be the longest listener email in Butt Honestly history. We’re not saying it required an intermission… but we did briefly consider snacks. The guys break down the situation piece by piece with their signature blend of compassion, curiosity, and occasional side-eye.

We also get an update in the continuing saga of TMVII, proving once again that the Booty Gang never fails to keep the storylines alive.

Along the way, the boys dive into an essential modern topic: the correct way to take a dick pic. Lighting, angles, confidence, and perhaps a little restraint—consider this your unofficial masterclass in photographic decision-making.

And because no episode is complete without a little lived experience, one of the guys shares a dating story that reminds us all that romance in the modern age is equal parts hope, confusion, and occasionally a very fast exit.

As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off with a little sweetness after all the sass.

It’s thoughtful, ridiculous, educational, and exactly what you expect from BUTT HONESTLY—the podcast that proves sometimes the most honest conversations start with the words, “Okay… hear me out.” 🍑🎙️

Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where curiosity is encouraged, judgment is canceled, and occasionally we learn something about our bodies we wish we hadn’t Googled during lunch.

Joining us is Chad O’Connell, founder and CEO of Asset*, the brand behind some of the internet’s most talked-about intimate wellness products. Many of you have seen the products online, but here’s the real endorsement: we’ve actually used them. Yes, we believe in research. Dr. Carlton in particular has become something of a fan of their Hole Serum—for purely educational purposes, of course.

This week the boys tackle headlines that feels like it came from the Department of “Well… That’s New.” There’s a sexually transmitted fungal infection making the rounds in Minnesota, and Dr. Carlton breaks down what it is, what it isn’t, and why panic is rarely the most effective treatment plan.

From there, a Booty Gang member writes in with a question about doxy use within an open relationship—because modern love requires communication, boundaries, and sometimes a very well-timed prescription. The guys unpack how couples navigate prevention, responsibility, and the fine art of staying both adventurous and medically boring.

Then we bring back the beloved segment “Ready Set Confess,” where listeners send in their stories, secrets, and occasional moral dilemmas that leave Dr. Carlton blinking slowly and Dangilo asking follow-up questions no one was prepared for.

But the real treat this week is our guest. Because every once in a while we invite someone who isn’t just talking about culture—they’re building it.

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Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with your ever-curious hosts, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where the stethoscopes are polished and the tea is always piping.

This week, the boys roll out the rhinestone-studded red carpet for a guest who does not simply enter a room—she arrives. We are thrilled to welcome the incomparable Honey Davenport. You know her from RuPaul’s Drag Race, but that’s just the glitter on top. Honey is a recording artist, actor, DJ, dancer, pageant queen (20 crowns and counting, because moderation is overrated), activist—and, casually, the reigning Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2026. Yes, darling. Multifaceted doesn’t even begin to cover it.

In this episode, Honey talks about artistry without apology, activism with impact, and what it means to command both the stage and the leather community with equal authority. From pageant polish to political purpose, she shares how performance and power can live in the same perfectly contoured face.

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo, of course, do what they do best—ask the smart questions, toss in the dry humor, and occasionally clutch their pearls in admiration. It’s a conversation about legacy, community, resilience, and yes, a little bit of fabulous mischief.

Press play. Because when Honey Davenport is in the building, you don’t just listen—you witness. 🍯✨🍑

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the slopes are slippery and apparently so is the competition.

This week, the guys ski straight into the headlines with chatter about Olympic ski jumpers allegedly getting a little… plumped before takeoff. Is it aerodynamics? Is it vanity? Is it just very enthusiastic tailoring? We investigate!

In the mail sack, we’ve got a Booty Gangster with a less-talked-about diagnosis—H. pylori—because sometimes the real party is in your stomach. Another listener wants to know how to properly Doxy PEP for vacation (nothing says “bon voyage” like a pill schedule), and someone else writes in about a LOUD MOAN in the dark that may or may not have caused a mild panic. Subtlety? Never heard of her.

The guys also unpack the cancellation of Boots—but why though? Industry tea is spilled respectfully-ish. And with Valentine’s Day upon us (aka Singles Awareness Day, aka Buy Yourself the Flowers Day), Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reflect on love, lust, and the art of pretending you “didn’t want to go out anyway.”

As always, they wrap it all up with Love Language of the Week—because whether you’re plumped, PEP’d, pylori-positive, or passionately loud, you still deserve connection.

Press play. It’s competitive out here. 🎿🍑

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY, where the mail sack is heavy.

This week, we’re opening letters that range from medically curious to emotionally tender to “wait… what happened on that cruise?” A Booty Gangster writes in with a post–anal wart surgery question—because nothing says self-care like proper aftercare. Dr. Carlton delivers the calm, clinical reassurance you need, while Dangilo reacts the way you probably did in your car.

We also hear from a listener trying to figure out where they fit within the community—socially, sexually, spiritually, existentially… you know, light stuff. The guys get real (but not too real) about belonging, labels, and the myth of having it all figured out.

Then there’s the story of “the twink who got away.” Was it fate? Bad timing? A missed DM? Or simply upper body strength limitations? We unpack the romance, the regret, and the delusion with the tenderness it deserves.

And because no gay week is complete without at least one headline, the boys discuss this year’s Atlantis Cruise arrest—proving once again that what happens at sea… sometimes requires legal counsel.

Outside the inbox, the guys weigh in on The Traitors and other TV obsessions, dissecting strategy, betrayal, and why reality television is somehow more stable than most dating situations. It’s thoughtful commentary, but with more side-eye.

As always, we close with Love Language of the Week—because after surgery talk, cruise chaos, and lost twinks, we still believe in connection. Even if it’s complicated. Even if it sailed away.

Press play. Your curiosity already has. 🍑🎙️