Has your libido disappeared? You're not alone. Listen to this interview to learn why and what you can do about it.

Andrea Donsky, nutritionist, published menopause researcher, menopause educator, author, and co-founder of wearemorphus.com, interviews Dr. Diane Mueller. Dr. Mueller is a naturopathic doctor and board-certified sexologist with two doctoral degrees and over 15 years of clinical experience helping more than 30,000 couples restore libido and intimacy. She founded the Hot and Modern Monogamy Club, wrote Want to Want It, and hosts the Libido Lounge podcast.

Topics:

• Breaking the taboo around pain, pleasure, and desire in perimenopause and menopause
• The importance of pleasure, desire, and why they are essential for overall well-being
• Keeping excitement alive in long-term and monogamous relationships
• Questioning traditional vs open relationship models and how communication makes them work
• How to express your needs clearly in a relationship
• The impact of physical, personal, and interpersonal factors on libido
• Key differences in arousal and desire between men and women
• Why women need to feel “in their bodies” and the role of foreplay in arousal
• Practical libido support strategies, habits, and prioritization
• Approaching communication without blame, shame, or pressure
• The evolution of relationships and intimacy across different life stages
• Reintroducing play, removing expectations, and reducing pressure around sex
• Physical changes, including circulation, pelvic floor health, and tissue health
• Interstitial cystitis symptoms and their impact on intimacy

Learn more about Dr. Diane Mueller here: https://mylibidodoc.com/

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So many symptoms in perimenopause and menopause can be traced back to hormones, including sex hormones and the thyroid. In this episode, we take a deep dive into thyroid health and PCOS, and we touch on bone health. Andrea Donsky, nutritionist, published menopause researcher, menopause educator, author of Nourishing Menopause, and co-founder of wearemorphus.com, interviews with Dr. Damola Aje, a board-certified endocrinologist who specializes in PCOS, thyroid disorders, and menopause.

Topics:

• Thyroid Problems in Women - Thyroid problems in women can show up as fatigue, weight changes, feeling cold, dry skin, and low energy, especially during perimenopause and menopause. These symptoms are often mistaken for hormonal changes, which is why comprehensive thyroid testing beyond TSH is important.
• PCOS in Perimenopause and Menopause - PCOS in perimenopause and menopause remains a lifelong metabolic and hormonal condition, often linked to androgen imbalance, acne, hair thinning, and facial hair. Lean PCOS is also common and frequently overlooked.
• Insulin Resistance in Midlife Women - Insulin resistance in perimenopause and menopause is a key driver of PCOS, contributing to weight gain, stubborn belly fat, blood sugar imbalance, and metabolic dysfunction. Exercise supports glucose control and helps preserve muscle mass during aging.
• Hormonal Imbalance Symptoms in Women - Symptoms like brain fog, anxiety, fatigue, poor sleep, and heart palpitations can overlap between thyroid disorders, PCOS, and menopause, making hormonal imbalance in women harder to identify and often dismissed.
• Menopause Treatment and Hormone Support Options - Menopause treatment options may include hormone replacement therapy for hot flashes and night sweats, along with bone health support and proactive testing. Self-advocacy is key to getting proper diagnosis and care.

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Our Morphus research shows that 66% of perimenopausal and menopausal women feel more stressed and less able to cope with daily pressures than they did before entering this stage of life.

In this episode, Andrea Donsky, nutritionist, published menopause researcher, menopause educator, author, and co-founder of wearemorphus.com sits down with mentor Lisa Borden. Lisa is a business development consultant and founder of Borden Communications + Design Inc. She’s also an author, speaker, and creator of The Wellness Intelligence Collective.

They discuss how to reframe our lives by ditching rigid rules and finding curiosity-driven solutions for purpose, connection, and kindness.

Topics

• The Open Nest Transition
  A fresh way to think about the so-called “empty nest,” as children move in and out of our lives and create space for you to reconnect with yourself.
• The Freedom of Unmeditation
  Peace doesn't require a lotus pose or perfect stillness. Presence and breath connection can happen while lying down, walking, or moving through daily life.
• Self-Care Snacks
  Simple, doable two-minute practices, from unmeditation to gentle movement, can help regulate your nervous system and bring more calm into your day.
• Spotting Healthwashing
  How to look beyond polished marketing and identify products that truly prioritize wellness, integrity, and quality.
• Empathy Economics
  Lisa’s approach to conscious consumerism, rooted in understanding the story, values, and impact behind the products we choose.
• Building Community Through The Wellness Intelligence Collective (TWIC)
  Creating meaningful connection, shared learning, and support for women seeking a more informed wellness journey.
• The Power of Coopetition
  Why supporting, celebrating, and elevating other women creates stronger businesses, stronger communities, and greater collective impact.
• A Beginner’s Mindset
  Being willing to learn, unlearn, and start where you are is often the first step toward meaningful change in your health and your life.

Links

• The Wellness Intelligence Collective (TWIC) https://www.thewellnessintelligencecollective.com/

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Do you know your true purpose? Many women in this phase of life are pulled in so many directions by family obligations, careers, and everything else on their plates. The stress can be a lot, and as we enter perimenopause and menopause, we're less able to cope with it.

In this interview, Andrea Donsky, nutritionist, published menopause researcher, menopause educator, author, and co-founder of wearemorphus.com, talks with Kerstin Lindquist, an Emmy Award–winning journalist, certified health coach, keynote speaker, and Christian author who blends health science with biblical truth to help individuals and organizations thrive in faith, wellness, and purpose.

You'll come away with greater clarity on your purpose, as well as tips for sleep, handling stress, and taking care of yourself in the middle of it all.

Topics:

• Identity, purpose, and calling in midlife - How many women begin rethinking who they are and what they want the next chapter of life to be.

• Understanding your core values - Learning to recognize what truly matters to you and what doesn’t.

• Legacy vs. reputation - The difference between what you want your legacy to be and what people may currently know you for, and how that insight can help guide your calling.

• How the brain changes in perimenopause and menopause - Why cognitive and hormonal shifts can lead to deeper reflection about purpose, priorities, and the impact you want to have on others.

• Using your purpose as a filter for life decisions - How aligning decisions with your values can help create clarity in relationships, career choices, and daily life.

• Letting go of people-pleasing - Why midlife often brings a shift toward stronger boundaries and a willingness to create a new direction for yourself.

• Stop forcing and start listening - Learning to notice where your life naturally flows instead of constantly pushing against resistance.

• Stress, lifestyle, and their impact on health and cognition - How chronic stress and daily habits can affect brain health, energy, and long-term wellbeing.

• Practical coping tools for this phase of life - Rest, breathwork, meditation, downtime, movement, and prioritizing sleep.

• Progress over perfection - Why it’s important to keep practicing healthy habits even when you don’t do them perfectly.

• Protecting brain health as we age - The importance of vision, hearing, and balance for long-term cognitive health and longevity.

• Alcohol and hormone therapy - What to consider when it comes to alcohol consumption during midlife and menopause treatment.

Links:

Kerstin's website: https://www.kerstin-lindquist.com/

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Are you a tea drinker? We do! It offers many health benefits and is a great way to increase your water intake and hydration during perimenopause and menopause.

In this interview, Andrea Donsky, a nutritionist, published menopause researcher, menopause educator, and co-founder of wearemorphus.com, talks with Cindi Bigelow, the third-generation President and CEO of Bigelow Tea, the family-owned American tea company founded in 1945.

She helped transform the brand from a traditional grocery-store staple into a modern wellness-focused tea company, expanding into specialty blends, green teas, and functional teas while keeping the business privately held and family-run.

Topics:

• Bigelow & Integrity: The company is a third-generation, family- and women-owned business founded by Cindi Bigelow’s grandmother in 1945 with the iconic Constant Comment tea. Its focus has always been on mission and quality, not just profit.
• Quality: Bigelow tests its teas for nearly 500 pesticides to ensure the final product is clean. Additionally, every tea bag undergoes 26 checks before reaching the store shelf.
• Debunking the Plastic Tea Bag Scare: The most common type of tea bag used in the U.S., such as Bigelow's double-chamber, non-heat-sealed bag, contains no plastic; it's made from wood pulp and abaca. The misinformation circulating often shows the wrong kind of tea bags.
• Foil is the Secret to Freshness: Bigelow invented the individual foil pouch because it is the only way to protect the volatile oils in tea, which make the tea healthy and flavorful, from degrading for up to three years.
• Loose Tea is a Trade-Off: While loose tea provides a "beautiful experience," it oxidizes and degrades more quickly when exposed to air, light, and moisture.
• Hydration is Critical for Menopause: For women in perimenopause and menopause, staying well-hydrated is essential for maintaining energy, supporting brain and skin health, reducing inflammation, and aiding digestion.
• Making Water Easier to Drink: Bigelow’s Botanicals Cold Water Infusion line was created because many people, including the CEO herself, don't enjoy drinking plain water; these bags gently infuse cold water with natural flavors, making hydration simple.
• Longevity: The Bigelow family members are avid tea drinkers, sometimes enjoying up to 10 cups a day, and have enjoyed long lives; her mother is 97, and her grandfather lived to 103. Tea could be part of that longevity.

Explore a wide variety of Green, Black, and Herbal Teas, as well as Bigelow's Botanical Infusions. https://bit.ly/4kFzfyJ

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Leaking urine? Painful sex? Constipation? TMJ? Back Pain?

They can all be related to the musculoskeletal or genitourinary syndrome of menopause. Simply, tightness and/or dysfunction in the pelvic floor.

In this interview, Andrea Donsky, a nutritionist, published menopause researcher, author, menopause educator, and co-founder of wearemorphus.com, talks with Jana Danielson, a wellness entrepreneur, Pilates educator, and creator of the Cooch Ball pelvic floor training tool.

Topics:

• Pelvic Health and the Body's Connection: The discussion of how the pelvic floor is an integrated structure, not a standalone group of muscles.
• The Pelvic Floor and Core: The interview explains the anatomy of the pelvic floor and how it can function optimally (watch it on YouTube for visuals).
• The Importance of Breathing and Posture: A core theme is that breathing is the most fundamental pelvic floor strategy, and optimal posture is also key to pelvic floor function.
• Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and Misconceptions: Jana challenges the belief that dysfunction is "normal" during aging, stating that "common is not normal." Stressing that a too-tight (hypertonic) muscle is just as dysfunctional as a weak one.
• The Cooch Ball and the Release-Rebuild Method: The Cooch Ball method focuses on 30 days of "release only" to promote blood flow to the tissue, followed by a rebuild phase using exercises that integrate the pelvic floor with other muscles in the body.
• Impact on Libido and Orgasm: Andrea and Jana discuss how improving blood flow and releasing tension in the pelvic tissues can increase libido and the ability to have pleasure.
• The Pudendal Nerve and Shame: The Latin root of the word "pudendal" means "an area of shame", and this emotional context is connected to the lack of discussion and understanding of pelvic health.

Links:

Cooch Ball for Menopause: https://bit.ly/4kNiWQF
Cooch Ball for Perimenopause: https://bit.ly/4tOmA0z
Cooch Ball for Intimacy: https://bit.ly/3OoBg6A
Cooch Ball For Women: https://bit.ly/4qGRF3O
Cooch Ball For Men: https://bit.ly/402Arme (great for men experiencing erectile dysfunction or dribbling)

Pelvic Health Survey: https://forms.gle/RXM4BpFLtgP5m8nD9

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In this episode of Menopause Re-Imagined, host Andrea Donsky, a nutritionist, published menopause researcher, author, menopause educator and co-founder of wearemorphus.com, and guest Dr. Emaline Brown, a licensed naturopathic doctor and Clinical Lab Educator at Vibrant Wellness, discuss why women in perimenopause and menopause should consider functional medicine testing, emphasizing the saying, "don't guess, test".

Topics Covered:

Hormone Testing Types: Traditional blood tests, saliva tests, and urine tests.

Cortisol and Stress (HPA Axis): For assessing the "get up and go signal" and stress responses.

Endocrine Disrupting Chemicals (EDCs) and Obesogens: What they are and why we should avoid them.

Estrogen Detoxification: The different pathways for estrogen detoxification or removal, and how to support them with nutrition and supplements.

Micronutrients and Omega-3 Index Testing: The importance of micronutrients, like minerals (i.e,. magnesium) and balancing omegas for overall wellness.

The Gut-Hormone Connection: The factor that can "pull the anchor" off estrogen that was meant for excretion, causing it to keep circulating and leading to estrogen dominance.

Links from the Show

Access to Testing: Vibrant Wellness tests must be ordered through a healthcare practitioner. A provider directory is available for patients seeking a qualified professional.

FOR PROVIDERS: HOW TO SIGN UP FOR A VIBRANT ACCOUNT https://vibrant-wellness.com/for-providers

FOR PATIENTS: HOW TO FIND A PROVIDER https://directory.vibrant-wellness.com/?

Tara Scott Interview https://youtu.be/_hdj8kTVlTs

Endocrine Disruptors with Leah Segedie:

• Part 1: https://youtu.be/OG_r4S8ngy8
• Part 2: https://youtu.be/WN99e-FffZc
• Part 3: https://youtu.be/kBfVO22R7j4

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On Menopause Reimagined, your host, Andrea Donsky, nutritionist, author, menopause researcher, educator, and co-founder of wearemorphus.com, is joined by Dr. James Simon, a board-certified OB-GYN, reproductive endocrinologist, and clinical professor at George Washington University. He’s the only physician to have served as president of both The Menopause Society and the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health, and is the author of Restore Yourself: A Woman’s Guide to Reviving Her Sexual Desire and Passion for Life.

Topics

Sexual Health Survey Results: Nearly 1,300 women shared their experiences: 91% reported lower libido, 66% had more difficulty orgasming, and 83% had talked to someone about it, echoing what many women share online.

Why Desire Drops (and Why You’re Not Alone): Why libido changes in perimenopause and menopause likely affect most women, and how relationships can help sustain, but not fully protect, sexual desire.

When Sex Hurts (and Nobody Talks About It): Why he likes to see couples together and how painful sex can lead to rejection, resentment, and misunderstanding when it’s not addressed.

Why Common Advice Feels So Dismissive: “Use lube,” “have a date night,” “just do it,” “try a vibrator,” or “maybe you’re depressed” are the go‑to lines many women are tired of. Dr. Simon unpacks why this misses the root causes and reminds us that desire starts in the mind, not just the body.

Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire: Many women worry that something is “wrong” when spontaneous desire fades. Dr. Simon explains why responsive desire often remains and how understanding this shift can be a huge relief.

Hormone Testing & Therapy: What to actually ask for: thyroid, estrogen, testosterone, vitamin D, and B12. Plus, why testosterone matters, how levels change with age, and why access looks different across countries.

Non‑Hormonal Treatment Options: A clear look at Addyi (flibanserin) and Vyleesi (bremelanotide): how they work, who they’re for, and what to realistically expect.

It’s Not Just Hormones, It’s the Relationship: Speaking to common pain points: feeling unseen, disconnected, or “touched out.” Depression, anxiety, and relationship conflict must be addressed; no dose of hormones can fix an unhappy partnership.

Real‑World Tips for Long‑Term Couples: Practical ideas women say they want: using lubricants and vibrators without shame, slowing down, adding novelty, sharing fantasies safely, and using “I” language to improve communication and intimacy.

Connect With Dr. Simon: IntimMedicine.com

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