• 183: Dating Over 50: Why Your Best Relationship Might Still Be Ahead
    Mar 16 2026

    Dating after 50 can feel intimidating — especially if you’ve been out of the dating world for years.

    Maybe you're divorced.
    Maybe you're widowed.
    Maybe dating apps feel overwhelming.

    But here’s the truth: some of the healthiest and happiest relationships actually begin in midlife.

    In this episode, Smart Dating Academy founder Bela Gandhi shares the mindset shifts and strategies that help singles successfully navigate dating after 50, dating after divorce, and online dating in midlife.

    If you're wondering how to approach dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s, or beyond, this episode will help you date with confidence, clarity, and optimism.

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    • The biggest mistake people make when dating again after a long relationship
    • Why the midlife dating pool is stronger than most people think
    • How to stop repeating unhealthy relationship patterns
    • Why online dating feels overwhelming — and how to approach it differently
    • Why chemistry isn’t always the best indicator of compatibility

    If you’re ready to date smarter in midlife, Bela is also hosting a live workshop:

    Dating During Midlife and Over 50 Love Lab

    👉 Register here:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/lovelab-dating-during-midlife

    Love does not have an expiration date — and your best relationship may still be ahead.

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    15 mins
  • 182: The Hidden Self-Worth Patterns Sabotaging Your Love Life | Dating After Divorce, Emotional Availability, and Finding Healthy Love with Dr. Amanda Hanson & Bela Gandhi
    Mar 9 2026

    Are hidden self-worth patterns quietly sabotaging your love life?

    In this powerful episode, Bela Gandhi and Dr. Amanda Hanson explore how childhood conditioning, emotional availability, and nervous system patterns impact dating, relationships, and finding healthy love.

    If you are dating after divorce, feeling stuck in unhealthy attraction cycles, or ready to find love again without settling, this conversation will help you shift from overgiving and burnout to confidence and alignment.

    You will learn how self-worth, inner child healing, and emotional awareness directly influence who you attract and how you build lasting relationships.

    👉 Apply to work with our dating coaches: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact
    Website: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com

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    44 mins
  • 181: Dating Anxiety Decoded: How to Calm Your Nervous System and Find Love Again with Bela Gandhi | Smart Dating Academy
    Feb 23 2026

    Feeling anxious about dating? You are not alone.

    In this episode of The Smart Dating Academy Podcast, Bela Gandhi sits down with therapist Kevin Mimms to unpack dating anxiety, emotional availability, and how to calm your nervous system so you can find love again.

    If you are dating after divorce, newly single, or simply exhausted by modern dating, this episode gives you practical tools to feel confident and grounded.

    You will learn:
    • Why dating anxiety happens
    • How to regulate your nervous system
    • How to stop avoiding and start building confidence
    • What emotional availability really looks like
    • How to create healthy relationships without settling

    Ready to work with a relationship coach?

    Apply here: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact
    Visit us: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com

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    35 mins
  • 180: What does science really say about sex, monogamy, and lasting love?
    Feb 9 2026

    In this episode, Bela Gandhi is joined by Dr. Justin Garcia, Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute and author of The Intimate Animal, for a fascinating conversation on modern dating, emotional availability, and healthy relationships.

    They explore why humans crave both intimacy and novelty, how sex influences connection, why dating apps feel overwhelming, and what actually helps high achieving women and men find love again without settling.

    This episode blends research, compassion, and real life dating wisdom you can actually use.

    Apply to work with our dating coaches:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

    Website:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com

    Purchase Justin's book:
    https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Animal-Science-Fidelity-Live/dp/0316594032

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    46 mins
  • 179: Heal Your Past to Transform Your Love Life: Laura Day on Prism and Emotional Clarity
    Jan 26 2026

    Healing your past changes how you show up in love.

    In this episode, Bela Gandhi talks with Laura Day, NYT bestselling author of Prism and celebrity 'intuitive': Seven Steps to Heal Your Past and Transform Your Future, about emotional patterns, intuition, and why awareness is the key to healthier relationships.

    They explore how unresolved experiences shape dating choices and how real transformation begins with understanding yourself.

    This episode is for anyone ready to stop repeating old patterns and start creating relationships with clarity and intention.

    👉 Apply to end frustration and loneliness -- learn our framework and get mentoring to find love:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

    Laura's website: LauraDay.com
    Laura's book: https://www.amazon.com/Prism-Seven-Steps-Transform-Future/dp/1954118708
    Laura's IG: @lauradayintuit

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • 178: Love Will Come in an Unexpected Package
    Jan 12 2026

    What if love does not look the way you imagined, but feels better than you ever expected?

    In this Smart Dating Academy Podcast episode, Bela Gandhi shares Elayne’s inspiring journey from dating confusion to a healthy, committed relationship.

    This conversation explores:

    • Dating tips for professionals

    • Emotional availability in real relationships

    • Why unexpected love is not settling

    • How to find love without compromising your values

    If you want to find love again with confidence and clarity, this episode will stay with you.

    Apply to work with our dating coaches:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

    Website:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com

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    51 mins
  • 177: How Monica Broke Her Dating Patterns & Found Real Love (Using the Smart Dating Method)
    Dec 29 2025
    How Monica Broke Her Dating Patterns & Found Real Love

    In this inspiring episode, Bela talks with Smart Dating Academy client Monica Campbell, who shares how she moved from dating the wrong people to attracting a healthy, emotionally available partner.

    You’ll hear the shifts that changed everything, from breaking old patterns to using the Dating Funnel to date with clarity, confidence, and joy.

    If you’ve ever wondered whether love is still possible for you, this episode is your reminder that it absolutely is.

    Apply to work with Bela and our coaching team:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact
    Learn more: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com

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    35 mins
  • 176: Dating After Divorce: How Jeannette Found Confidence, Adventure, and Love Again with Smart Dating Academy
    Dec 15 2025
    Dating again after a long marriage can feel overwhelming.
    In this inspiring conversation, Bela talks with Jeannette, a Smart Dating Academy client who rebuilt her life after divorce.

    She shares how she healed, learned confidence, and by working with SDA, found a healthy relationship later in life.
    If you want hope and practical wisdom about dating after divorce, this episode is for you.

    👉 Work with our coaches:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact
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    50 mins