Scott and Warren welcome Spencer Sherman—founder of Abacus Wealth Partners, meditation teacher, retreat leader, and author of The Cure for Money Madness—for a grounded, deeply relevant conversation about money: why it triggers so much fear, shame, comparison, and confusion, and how we can begin to build a healthier, more peaceful relationship with it.
Spencer shares how his early experiences with family conflict around money led him toward both wealth management and Buddhist meditation, and why the two are far more connected than they first appear.
They explore the emotional patterns that shape our financial lives—from scarcity and striving to enoughness, generosity, and self-worth—and how calming the nervous system can help us make wiser decisions with money and with life.
In this episode, we explore:
* Why money can feel even more taboo than sex, religion, or politics
* The difference between financial net worth and true self-worth
* How childhood beliefs and inherited family patterns shape our relationship with money
* Why comparison is one of the biggest drivers of financial stress and unhappiness
* The myth of “enough”—and why more money rarely solves inner scarcity
* How gratitude and generosity can rewire the brain’s fear response around money
* Why checking your finances too often can increase anxiety and lead to worse decisions
* How mindfulness, meditation, and equanimity help reduce reactivity and impulsive behavior
* The connection between self-worth, identity, and how much money we think we need
* How to align spending with genuine personal value instead of ego, fear, or social comparison
* Why building a life of meaning, service, and connection may be the real measure of wealth
About Spencer Sherman:
Spencer Sherman is the founder of Abacus Wealth Partners, a longtime wealth advisor, meditation teacher, retreat leader, and the author of The Cure for Money Madness. His work bridges finance and mindfulness, helping people transform their relationship with money by addressing the emotional, psychological, and spiritual patterns beneath it. Through retreats, coaching, and decades of advising clients, he teaches a more conscious path toward enoughness, generosity, and freedom.
About the Evexia Exchange:
A podcast by Club Evexia—a wellness community in Southern Marin focused on fitness, longevity, and belonging. Founders Scott Raymond & Warren Gendel interview practitioners, members, and thinkers on living well together. Produced by Resonate Studio, LLC.
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