• SPRING RESET
    Mar 24 2026

    Spring has officially sprung, and the Valley girls are ready to clean more than just their closets. This week, Jaci and Chelsey share their top spring cleaning tips — and it goes way beyond dusting and reorganizing your sock drawer. They focus on clearing out digital clutter like spam texts and emails, overflowing camera rolls, and the apps that quietly waste your time. Of course, there’s still a place for the classic refresh, but this episode is really about resetting your mindset, stepping out of winter mode, and opening your eyes to everything the new season has to offer; sunshine, fresh energy, and a chance to start again.


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    1 hr and 1 min
  • COWORKER FROM HELL
    Mar 17 2026
    Clock in, because this week’s episode is all about coworker drama. The girls jump right into your submissions, with nurses getting on each other’s nerves, one man getting caught (again!?) drinking breast milk, and some tyrannical teacher’s assistant deciding they’re suddenly in charge of the entire classroom. We all know going into work can be rough, but after hearing these stories, you might just start thanking your lucky stars for your own job situation.!!! TIMECODES !!!CATCH UP: 0:08STORIES: 8:09// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month.Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at www.skims.com/whatwesaid. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows.Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID. Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at rocketmoney.com/WHATWESAID. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  • CAUGHT MY HUSBAND WITH MY BFF
    Mar 12 2026

    The What We Said girls are March-ing into another month’s advice column, and your submissions delivered! They kick things off with a rogue husband confiding in a Valley girl’s best friend, unpack an awkward situation involving an ex-relationship step cousin, and share some helpful tips for moms-to-be entering their nesting era. Whether you’re navigating messy relationships, family dynamics, or a brand-new phase of life, there’s something in this episode for everyone.


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  • MAJOR DIVORCE TEA
    Mar 10 2026

    You’ve all been asking for Jaci and Chelsey’s thoughts on the latest season of The Traitors, and the moment has finally arrived. After kicking things off with reactions to Rob Rausch and Maura Higgins’ wild season finale, the girls shift into a very different kind of traitor — the kind who signs a lifelong contract to love someone forever and then completely throws it out the window. Listeners submitted their most shocking divorce stories, and they have the What We Said girls absolutely shaken. From husbands cheating with their sisters-in-law to secret second homes and people packing up and disappearing without a shred of regret. This episode proves people have no problem hiding behind a mask of lies — and will make you want to keep your eyes peeled on those close to you…


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  • SELF SABOTAGE
    Mar 3 2026

    February is over — love is out, and self-sabotage is in. This week, the girls are diving into the art of ruining your own life for absolutely no reason. And we’re not talking about basic bad time management — we mean ignoring the love of your life just because, ghosting a potential employer after landing your dream job, and suddenly deciding to “work on yourself” by not replying to friends for three months. Tune in this week to commiserate and maybe walk away feeling slightly less called out — or at least knowing you’re not the only one sabotaging your own happiness.


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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • FEBRUARY FAVORITES
    Feb 26 2026
    Welcome to the second installment of the What We Said Podcast’s monthly favorites. Jaci and Chelsey’s February roundup truly has something for every niche in your life. Chelsey, fresh off feeling sick, introduces her go-to sinus rinse (a superior upgrade to the classic neti pot), plus the Substack articles she’s been loving — and yes, she released her own. She also shares the ultra-hydrating face mask that saved her skin during a dry Utah trip and tips for keeping your carefully curated wardrobe looking elevated instead of landfill-bound. Jaci brings the heat (literally) with a hot cacao drink that’s been helping clear her hormonal acne, a genius iMessage scheduling hack, and thoughts on Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie in Wuthering Heights. February may be the month of love, but this episode proves there’s plenty more to obsess over than a silly boy.!!! TIMECODES !!!CATCH UP: 0:08OUR FAVS: 11:05// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Activations: Motivational audios to shift your mindset – in minutes. Head to our link activations.com/podcast/whatwesaid and get our an exclusive offer: enjoy 14 days free and 69% off (plus, lock in this discounted rate forever!)NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/WHATWESAID. Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/WHATWESAID. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  • SECONDHAND EMBARRASSMENT
    Feb 24 2026

    We’ve all been there — witnessing a painfully awkward moment that wasn’t technically yours, but somehow you still felt the full-body cringe. This week on the What We Said Podcast, you submitted your best secondhand embarrassment stories, and the girls are breaking them down. From a rogue husband inviting another couple to sit with them in an otherwise empty restaurant, to a bold “three finger combo” comment made to a father-in-law that absolutely was not necessary. If you’re not already cringing, just wait — this episode is equal parts painful and hilarious.


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  • MASSIVE RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS
    Feb 17 2026
    Whether it’s dating, making friends, or stepping into a new workplace, spotting red flags early can save you a lot of future headache. What We Said listeners submitted their biggest warning signs that someone might deserve a little side-eye — from the universally annoying “never takes responsibility” type to more subtle debates like whether not having long-term friends is a reason to think twice before inviting someone to a girls night. Some are obvious, some are controversial, and all of them spark discussion. Tune in to see where Jaci + Chelsey land, and whether you agree with their takes!!!! TIMECODES !!!CATCH UP: 0:08STORIES: 32:58// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Quince: Go to quince.com/whatwesaid for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month.Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at rocketmoney.com/WHATWESAID. Thrive Market: Join Thrive Market with my link thrivemarket.com/WHATWESAID for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift!! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 hr and 6 mins